1, but the more essential conflict in reality comes not from courage and cowardice, but from the courage to resist and the courage to bear. Rejecting Utopia takes courage as much as pursuing Utopia.
2. Greater freedom means greater responsibility.
3, the age is not young, what should I do, don't plunge into that beautiful sadness, while desperately drilling in, while calling for help.
4. If you want to define a beautiful life, it is cozy. If you want to define comfort, it is three or five confidants, talking and laughing.
Max said that "man is the sum of all social relations", but Rand said that man is only proud of kneading "the sum of all social relations" and throwing it into the trash can.
6. It is beautiful to have a confidant in life, but it is hard to meet. Really, maybe I haven't met or asked. All you can ask is yourself. You must bend down and reach out to yourself in the dark.
7. Since when did learning become an obsessive-compulsive disorder in modern life? Everyone is scrambling to see the emergency room. Our relationship with society is very similar to that between an insecure woman and a charming husband.
It turns out that the best way to treat cynicism is to keep looking in the mirror.
9, youth, slogan, ignorance, feeling that the earth is at your feet, a sense of justice armed with hormones, these things are mixed together, and people are fucking confused. The most fucked-up thing in this shit is the flattery complex and the herd mentality hidden in the seemingly rebellious spirit.
10, Kung Fu is often responsible; Everything comes to him who waits, this should not be so important. The value of "willingness" cannot be measured by "responsibility".
1 1, I couldn't help but go to Google Mao Mu today and found that he was an orphan, short, bisexual and stuttering since he was a child ... Must the delicacy of men be explained by these? Can't sensitivity be a healthy force? These cliché logics are really disappointing, as if all artistic imagination is ultimately expressing self-loathing.
12, don't let some collective will or emotions deceive yourself, you are more free than you think.
13, every identity of a person is a kind of self-kidnapping, and only loss is the road to freedom.
14, it is absolutely obligatory for aspiring young people to be crazy.
15, there is no boring life, only a boring attitude towards life.
16. The more a person possesses, the more he is possessed.
17, what a long list people have in mind, and how many beautiful things are written on these lists, but they are always delayed, shelved and rotted in the attic of time.
18, as soon as the music started, I burst into tears, as if my relatives I hadn't seen for years were reunited after Where are you going? My whole youth, like a wheat field, is swaying and golden with his singing.
19, any proposition with the suffix "ism" becomes horrible.
20. Maybe I like you because you are the only person I know who can't be classified. The only person who doesn't need any form of "collectivism" is the only person who is not interested in popular emotions. They are afraid of loneliness, so they need a circle. But you are in your own corner, carving your own time from a distance. From a distance, I am so attached to you. Am I pathetic? I still think I am worthy of congratulations.
2 1. When I was young, I thought loneliness was a cool thing. When I grow up, I feel lonely is a very sad thing. Now, I think loneliness is not a thing. At least, try not to turn it into a thing.
22. I think being too pessimistic is often the result of being too optimistic. Only when you expect to solve a problem once and for all and quickly, you are particularly easy to fall into pessimism, because you find it impossible.
23. 15 got the doll I loved when I was 5 years old, and finally got the money to buy the skirt I loved when I was 25 years old when I was 65 years old. What's the point?
24. Anthropology ... It is a science that observes human beings from the perspective of monkeys.
25. In front of the vast world, how humble a person is, how happy he will be.
26. It is the richness of a person's feelings, not the density of events in his life, that determines the texture of his life. It is a person's eyes, not the scenery in front of him, that determines the color of his life.
I imagine that a real poet should be able to reach a settlement with the world through the mystery of words. It is not necessarily the kind of reconciliation of "acceptance", but the kind of reconciliation of "acceptance and non-acceptance".
28. When the fog of youth clears, the wasteland of time is exposed.
29. Anything that goes to extremes looks like wisdom.
30. The Bible, textual research, the resurrection of Christ, eternal civilization, churches and hymns can't refute the little fact that God created mice. The fact that God created mice is like fingerprints left in a perfect murder.
3 1. Youth is a touch in a dream. You wake up in its warmth and don't know where it is.
32. Women always confuse physical intimacy with spiritual intimacy. To make matters worse, women always confuse love with possessiveness.
33. Happiness is actually much simpler than we think. The problem is that if we don't explore all the complicated misfortunes, fall all the falls we should fall, and climb all the mountains, we can't believe that there is happiness in the palm-sized shade at the foot of the mountain.
34. I imagine falling in love with someone, just like going out and being struck by lightning. () Although the probability is small, there is nothing you can do. It just happened, you were set on fire, and then you became a pile of ashes.
I find it incredible that people are irrational, stubborn and selfish. More unfathomable than the sea is the sky. More unfathomable than the sky is the human heart.
36. A friend once wrote a poem called "One should be like a team". I imagine Gu Zhun in the Cultural Revolution, Yang Xiaokai in prison and Wang Xiaobo writing outside the literary world are all such people. If you don't meet your talents, you can sail against the current. A person is like a team, recruiting for his own mind and heart, not discouraged, not called, and loving freedom.
37. People who have nothing to do with you have nothing to do with each other, even if they smile sweetly, even if they have had irrelevant contacts, even if you try to manage this relationship. People who are related to you are related to you. Even if I have only met three times, even if I have only taken care of one side for three years, even if I can't remember his face, even if it is thousands of miles apart. Some people are destined to be cancer in your life, and some people are just a sneeze.
Under the cover of youth, decadence is courage, laziness is resistance and emptiness is sexy.
39. Maybe everyone needs a fog when they are alive, blurring life and eating and drinking Lazarus. From simple to cruel life, we are a little curious about the future-although the future is doomed to be empty, there are so many boxes outside this hole, layer by layer, demolished, demolished and demolished.
If you face up to how much "unnecessary" waste you have, you can understand why politics always becomes bureaucratic.
4 1, one person should be like a team.
42. Actually, I'm not withdrawn. I can say that I am cheerful and lively. But many times, I am too lazy to run a relationship. Sometimes, I just love freedom and feel that any relationship will bind me. Of course, the most important thing is that bosom friends are hard to find. I always feel that when interacting with most people, I can only come up with my own dimension, and it is difficult to find people who are as interested as myself.
43. Adapting to loneliness is like adapting to disability.
44. Some people are destined to be cancer in your life, while others are just a sneeze. All this is said to be "fate in the dark."
45. Everything can start all over again, but not youth. So many things, tied to youth is beautiful, leaving youth is stupid.
46. The whole world is chasing dreams, but Charles is chasing his own bad luck. These two things are actually no different. People who are captured by dreams are chasing their own bad luck. ..... 15 years, London stock traders flew like lightning, crossed the city, crossed the civilization, crossed the middle class, crossed the Pacific Ocean, crossed the human race, and finally caught up with the fierce horse of fate. ..... There were sixpence everywhere, but he looked up and saw the moon.
47. I think the essence of university spirit is not to make us profound, but to restore the innocence of human nature. Naive people will endlessly ask the truth of this world. It is this kind of questioning spirit that universities should cultivate, that is, the "nerd spirit" that those "mature people" despise.
48. I increasingly accept that the system is very important, and culture is the most effective factor to reduce the implementation cost of the system.
49. Sometimes, what people need is real despair. True despair has nothing to do with pain and sadness. It makes people calm, it makes you humble, and it makes you only return to your heart. Despair is not discouragement, but a realistic attitude of "fate belongs to fate, and one's own belongs to oneself", that is, freedom.
50. Many times impulsiveness is a pleasure, while at other times, staying away is an ethics.
5 1. Love is an ability, not an encounter.
52. How great a knowledgeable person is. Their brains are like cobwebs, sticking to all the little insects who have knowledge. And my brain is a watermelon skin, and all the knowledge slips away without a trace when I step on it.
53. A person is like a team, recruiting for his mind and heart, not discouraged, making phone calls and loving freedom.
54. Why is courage always mistaken for time, and what is heavy, depressing and forced is always called life itself?