On the surface, women are repenting and bidding farewell to past emotional experiences. In fact, because she loves and trusts this man now, she is willing to tell him her past experience.
However, men and women are just the opposite. A man will never tell his past experience without reservation. When women ask, men usually avoid this question, but they can't avoid it. Men will understate it.
This is actually caused by psychological differences between men and women. Women admit their past and trust men. Women believe that by telling their past, they show respect for men, pay attention to men and say goodbye to their past.
Women think that you are irresponsible for this relationship if you don't say it. It's over now. There's nothing to say. However, on this issue, men and women are obviously different.
They are possessive and exclusive to the woman they like. Because they are exclusive, they generally don't share their past with others, and they also care about the women they like now and will share their past with others. Most women who don't understand men's psychology often break up without knowing the reason.
Women think that as long as they are honest with men and don't care about their past, men won't care about their past.
This is actually a wrong idea. Even if you tell your past, men still can't let go, let alone stay with you without any burden. Therefore, it is better for a woman to say nothing.
Many marriage crises, breakups and infidelities are precisely because of understanding women's past. Maybe after a woman confessed to a man, the man said nothing at that time. After marriage, more men will quarrel with you, and show your "secret" from time to time to make you sick. There is no room for such a thing in a man's heart. He will think that you betrayed him and did something wrong to him. So, as long as you seize the opportunity, he will cheat and get back at you.
A man has this idea. He thinks women think the same way, so he won't tell you about it.
Another important reason why men love to lie is that they socialize too much. When I was young, I really had to socialize in order to earn money to support my family. With a certain accumulation, entertainment may become more of their own needs.
There is more entertainment, less concern for his wife, children and family, and he can't face his wife's doubts. Or don't want to cause unnecessary family conflicts, men will choose to disguise themselves with various lies.