Better to marry well than to do well. At first glance, it sounds like a slogan, but when you think about it, it is really a portrayal of reality. I don't need to do any investigation or research. Looking at the familiar friends and colleagues around me, I have to sigh: it is better to marry well than to marry well.

"It is better to marry well than to do well" actually contains deep helplessness. Although the slogan of equality between men and women has been shouted for so many years, it is actually difficult for women to "do well" under the influence of some traditional concepts. They not only have to pay more hardships than men, but also bear greater pressure than men. They often work hard for more than ten years, so it is better for their classmates to marry a rich man.

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At one time, because of the spread of the view that "it is better to marry well than to do well", a war of words was set off on the Internet. In some colleges and universities, some female senior students are not in a hurry to find jobs, but are busy going on blind dates all day. Is it really better to marry well than to do well?

For this view, the relevant person in charge of the Provincial Women's Federation obviously does not agree. She said that it is normal to hope to get married well. Who doesn't want to marry well? But "well married" and "well done" cannot be opposed. We should take "well done" as the basis and foundation of "well married".

She believes that "well done" is the embodiment of independence, has its own economic income, does not depend on her husband, and has a high social status; Women who "live well" are more attractive, because women in the workplace have increased their knowledge, been exercised, have more passion, connotation and vitality, and have a richer and more fulfilling spiritual life;

Women who "do well" are happier, because people create value and have a sense of accomplishment in doing it; "Well done" can also set an example for the next generation. "We hope all the girls in the world can get married well, but we don't want them to put their lives on it. Because countless examples prove that this is unreliable. "

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