Who doesn't like grapefruit (Yuzuru Hanyu's nickname), an inspirational story of a child with chronic asthma who grew up to be a flower skating champion? Although he is one of the best athletes in the history of flower skating, he is very friendly. In the Beijing Winter Olympics, grapefruit lost, and the people who loved him felt distressed and gave enough encouragement and care. It is at this moment that we can see the true face of a great athlete. This time, we are not crying with joy, but tears of remorse, but at the same time, we can also see the inner self-redemption journey of a growing young man.
In several different interview videos, grapefruit once revealed that it is not difficult to win medals in the Beijing Winter Olympics by virtue of its own ability, but it is a long struggle to realize its dream (Challenge 4A) or maintain its perfect performance. Of course, if you can complete "4A", you'd better get a medal. I guess he didn't expect the worst himself. People are anxious, tangled and sad because there is a gap between expectations and the status quo. For a stubborn and hard-working grapefruit, the Beijing Winter Olympics has not achieved a goal, which is really a big blow. There will be "why do you work hard, you can't work hard anymore, but there is no return?" ! "Sadness", I'm afraid that people who survived the earthquake will say why they didn't do their best! ""anxiety and remorse.
You see, the world champion shows the collapse of inner values in a naked and sincere way, but he will soon be reborn from the broken. Why? This stems from his strong focus-solving thinking ability and the encouragement and companionship of the surrounding support system.
1, automatic frame change and reconstruction
I don't know if you have noticed that grapefruit used the word "でも" many times when answering questions. People are usually used to saying negative sentences after "but", but his habit is to say that the front is not so optimistic, "I am in pain and badly hurt, but. . . ",followed by positive language. This is a big difference. He can turn himself over to motivate himself and find the value he insists on despite the pain. The power of language is powerful. Wittgenstein once said that "the boundary of language is the boundary of the world." How we use language has a great influence on our cognition, feelings and behaviors, and also reflects what kind of person we are.
When the press conference was held at the end of the Winter Olympics, the reporters' questions were very helpful for grapefruit's inner reconstruction. Those good questions help grapefruit to review the past successful experience, adhere to the value, and guide him to show his sincere affirmation of his choice and his best efforts on the field. He can feel that grapefruit has begun to accept the status quo at this time, and the interpretation of this failure has also changed.
I remember a little story. Two apprentices went up the mountain to talk to the master, saying that they really didn't want to work in the company, but they were very entangled. Should they resign? The master left without saying "just a bowl of rice", and the two disciples went down the mountain in a fog. Two years later, an apprentice started his own company, and an apprentice stayed in the company and became the backbone. At that time, the two apprentices had different understandings, given different meanings and made different choices, but the problem had already been solved. Everyone is an expert in his own life and has the belief, ability and resources to cope with difficulties.
2, grateful smile, system empowerment
Grapefruit's caring family, teacher Huahua, idol plushenko and fans all gave him the most support and comfort. Teacher Hua Hua reminded him: "You said you didn't get anything. You got so much support. Why do so many people support you? " ! I think you are the best. "It is very important to get the teacher's approval. Plushenko really knows grapefruit. He said don't lose heart. You can join another session. You're Yuzuru Hanyu. Who knows, anything is possible. Not only praised his extraordinary ability, but also gave advice that others could not say. Grapefruit really hasn't retired. This is mutual appreciation among great athletes.
No matter who you are, no matter how powerful your heart is, you want to be seen, appreciated and loved. So grapefruit was thrown a white towel as soon as it appeared, and 654.38 million people came to see him when he returned to his hometown of Sendai. He cherishes the people who supported and loved him along the way. It can be said that part of his courage also comes from them. He is also willing to give back to fans with practical actions. Even if some moves on the court don't get extra points, he will show them because everyone likes them. Therefore, seeing the support system and important people around you can empower the parties.
3, "learning" spirit, action first
Grapefruit has always stressed that he believes in himself. Stick to a decision and rarely give up. Because of the epidemic, the coach couldn't practice with him, so he made a training plan for himself. He endured loneliness and hopelessness in the skating rink where he practiced skating in his childhood and persisted in hard training. In an interview at the end of the Winter Olympics, Grapefruit said, "I have tried my best to practice and paid an unimaginable price, but nothing in return. This is what I learned from my own games and experiences. I think it is very valuable to me and helpful for my future career growth. " I believe that many people with stories will be deeply touched by this. He is only 27 years old, and he can realize that sometimes a lot of hard work is not rewarded. Then, some people fall down, and some people will be broken and reborn. I believe that the grapefruit in the future will not only be stronger, but for him who has only been skating for more than 20 years, his life in the future will be richer and there will be more fascinating stories to tell to the younger generation and those who love him.
A few days before the last flower skating performance of the Beijing Winter Olympics, grapefruit skated all the important events that he had performed for so many years. For him, this is a kind of growth review. He has recovered his strength from the past and can finally let go of the past and move on. The book "Hate Courage" tells us that everyone will feel inferior. As long as they compete with others, they will never feel at ease or happy for a moment. But the difference between inferiority and narcissism is that inferiority sees its own shortcomings. When it takes action, it will not fall into inferiority and bind itself, but will constantly improve and surpass itself. Grapefruit once said in an exclusive interview that he is not a champion and cares more about the identity of the challenger. Champion is the result, constant challenge is the process and the challenger's mission. As CCTV said, "Yuzuru Hanyu defeated Yuzuru Hanyu." This is why he can still recognize himself and feel happy after failure.
In a short period of 10 days, Yuzuru Hanyu completed the journey of spiritual redemption from the collapse of values to the acceptance of the status quo and regrouping. This process is very difficult and will inspire more people. Grapefruit finally realized that people no longer just like the person who can win the championship, but like the spirit of the lone ranger, from which grapefruit and the audience have grown. This is a great Winter Olympics, and several stories about the fourth place are worth remembering.
As "Yang Ma" Chen Jing said, we are lucky to meet him at the best age in Yuzuru Hanyu, and we will always keep a place for him in our hearts. Fortunately, I know your peach blossom face, and since then, the spring has been warmer. . . (End)