Speech on Puppy Love Education for Middle School Students 1
Xi Murong said: "Love can't be said, can't be said, and it is wrong to say it." Love is really wonderful, but it looks as beautiful as a thorny rose, but it will be hurt by love if you are not careful. Unconsciously, these thorny roses have taken root among our students. The Jingjing campus, originally for the sake of knowledge and enterprising, has become a beautiful scenery in the eyes of some students! On the podium, the teacher took pains to impart knowledge, while some students in the audience were busy passing notes!
Although these students entered the hall of love, they didn't realize the responsibilities and obligations that love must bear. Some people want to experience the taste of this emotion, but they don't have a correct understanding of love. They just mistake their affection for the opposite sex for love. Some of them are out of herd mentality, just because they are "fun" and seek excitement and vanity. Some students even regard whether they have "boyfriend and girlfriend" as the standard of having face.
No matter what the motivation, puppy love is harmful to the physical and mental health of middle school students. Mainly in the following aspects:
First, puppy love wastes time and affects learning. Some students think that falling in love can promote both sides' learning and ideological progress, but in fact, except for a few students who made some efforts in learning in order to win each other's love at the beginning of falling in love, most students are often in a trance because of falling in love, worrying about the trivial matters of both sides, thus affecting the learning effect, and even the students with good academic performance have plummeted. This shows that puppy love is not suitable for students who undertake intense study tasks. Adolescence is the golden age of life, with the advantages of energy, quick thinking, super memory and strong plasticity, so we should pay attention to increasing knowledge and cultivating ability. Time is gone forever. If you waste time on love, it will distract your study energy and even ruin your talent, career and future.
Second, puppy love affects the mental health development of middle school students. If middle school students focus on love prematurely, it will not only affect their study, but also cause personality defects because of various obstacles. Some students are not deeply involved in the world, their emotional development is immature, and they can't bear the twists and turns of their feelings. They often establish a love relationship with the opposite sex on impulse, and then they may be dissatisfied with each other with their psychological development and maturity. Some students just want to find excitement in their student days and regard love as a game. These situations will cause disappointment, moral decay and even psychological obstacles for both parties in love, thus affecting the healthy development of middle school students' spiritual life.
Third, puppy love will affect the atmosphere of classes and schools. In school, if boys and girls in a class have sex, there will be a reaction. Some students regard puppy love as the focus of after-school talk, asking about lovers' whereabouts and private activities, telling jokes to each other and diverting everyone's interest and attention in learning. Some even envy, yearn for, follow the precedent, and actively look for friends of the opposite sex, which has affected the school atmosphere.
It's just that students and teenage boys and girls can have normal communication, generous and aboveboard communication, because people need normal communication and communication. But not very much in love. Healthy communication between boys and girls can help boys overcome their bad psychology of being arrogant, and at the same time help girls overcome their personality shortcomings such as indecision and fragility. So you young scholars should establish pure friendship, help each other and make progress together. And the time suitable for love is when the mind is stable.
Shakespeare once said: Put on gorgeous clothes for my humble love and make me worthy of your sweet grace. I dare to praise my love, otherwise how dare I accept your test? Young man, you still have a lot to do and a long way to go. You should seize your youth and do what you should do. On your way to your ideal, there may be fragrant roses and breathtaking scenery, but you can't stop pursuing your ideal, and you can't forget your original dream. Don't love easily, keep love in your heart, turn love into pure friendship, and don't hate easily, so that you can live more easily and leave more handsome marks on your youth. Only in this way will you not regret your youth.
Speech on Puppy Love Education for Middle School Students II
It is normal to have vague feelings about the opposite sex in adolescence, and this kind of emotion is beautiful, so we don't have to avoid it at all. The communication between middle school students and the opposite sex is an indispensable way to adapt to society, know the world and know themselves. It is beneficial to improve oneself and learn from each other's strengths, but sometimes we can't grasp the "degree" of normal communication, and there is a phenomenon of too close communication and puppy love. I have two personal views on this phenomenon:
First, from Aaron Kwok's Love You or even Andy Lau's Love You for Ten Thousand Years, it shows that love is eternal; It is also said that the four-year puppy love process of college students is freshman understanding, sophomore puppy love, junior crush, and senior breakup, which proves that puppy love is short-lived; The same is true for college students, what's more, we are middle school students, so please be careful that several students don't come to puppy love under the signboard of dating. Blind date love is true love, and puppy love is the bitter fruit of youth. At best, it is a game, a waste of irresponsible feelings for yourself and others for temporary novelty, and an irrational and immature choice. Because we middle school students are not qualified to fall in love; When you are qualified to date, you must meet two conditions: a certain economic career foundation and a mature and healthy psychology. The minimum standard of a certain economic career foundation is that you can support yourself and each other; Mature and healthy psychology can distinguish love from friendship, distinguish true love and deal with sweetness and friction in love; One of the two conditions is missing;
Second, Sister Xianglin said: puppy love is my amao, and she died before she grew up. And I want to say: puppy love is a thorny rose, and we are often attracted by its fragrance. But because everyone's psychology and physiology are immature, once they can't help touching, they will often be stabbed mercilessly. In the process of puppy love, their study and life are affected by impulsive irrationality, and even lead to crime. For example, there have been news reports that middle school students fight and even kill people because of puppy love failure and puppy love with a third party. So here I advise our dear classmates, especially female classmates: puppy love, you can't afford to be hurt;
Every stage of life has its mission, and we can't waste summer in spring. So how can we correctly handle the communication between the opposite sex,
(1) Natural communication. In the process of communicating with the opposite sex, words, expressions, behaviors, feelings and thoughts should be natural and smooth, without exaggeration or avoidance; The best embodiment of the natural principle is to establish heterosexual relations like homosexual relations and conduct heterosexual exchanges like homosexual exchanges. The relationship between classmates should not be uncomfortable or unnatural because of the opposite sex.
(2) Moderate communication. The degree and way of heterosexual communication should be just right and accepted by most people. Be natural and moderate, and have a clear conscience, that is to say, the communication between male and female students should be in public, not alone; We should get along occasionally, not frequently, but be civilized and don't go out of line.
Students, we should learn self-esteem, self-love, learn to protect ourselves, respect others, not interfere with our study and life, and not affect our beautiful life. I hope my suggestion can sound the alarm for some students who are puppy love and light up the red light for those who are ready for puppy love. Thank you!
Middle school students' early love education speech 3
We walk in the campus of Jingjing, which is full of scholarly atmosphere, but we can often see some students wandering in the corner of the campus ... When it is time to work hard and create the future, we choose comfort; When my classmates study hard, work hard and actively meet the exam, they choose to stay put. Rousseau, a French thinker, said: "A calm lake can not make a thin sailor, and a comfortable environment can not make a great man of the times." We are in the most important period in our life, so we should work hard to write tomorrow and build the future. If your mind is not single-minded, you can't concentrate on your studies, and you will certainly swallow the bitter fruit of ease and enjoyment.
It is true that we are at the age of love seeds, and we have a vague feeling. Just looking at her eyes, smiling and her hair flying like an egret, I feel uneasy. When I am alone, I think this feeling is just like mountains and seas. I am afraid to catch up with my heart, but I have left my achievements. In the end, my heart was exhausted. How should I face my eager parents? How to face a serious and responsible teacher who cares about everything? How to face the college entrance examination? How to face a life full of unknowns? After all, we are young and can't grasp this specious emotion. After reading two novels and chasing two online dramas, I think I know what feelings are and what love is. I think I will never forget it until I die. If you should be calm and steady in high school, but choose recklessness and temporary comfort when studying quietly, this is undoubtedly irresponsible to yourself, your parents, your teachers and your future.
High school seems long, but in fact it is fleeting. The college entrance examination is not far from us, so students need to put away their mentality and correct their attitude. Instead of looking around and standing still, because of specious feelings, I wasted a lot of time, consumed a lot of unnecessary energy and added a lot of unnecessary troubles, which led to my inability to concentrate on my studies. If both of them fail to achieve the desired results and goals in the college entrance examination because of a hazy relationship, it is undoubtedly not worth the candle.
I hope the students can devote themselves to the intense and orderly study in senior high school, forge ahead and accumulate wealth and development. Create the best tomorrow with the purest feelings and the greatest efforts. My ambition is exhausted, and I hold the scroll, hoping that the moon will win the laurel. Put away your mentality, correct your attitude, hand in a perfect answer sheet in high school for three years, and draw a satisfactory conclusion.
Middle school students' early love education speech 4
Dear teachers and students:
Hello everyone! The topic of my speech today is "Don't let the emotional boat dock too early"
The fruit can only be picked when it is ripe, and the flower buds can only taste the fragrance when they bloom; Only when the wings are full can the ship fly, and only when it reaches the dock can it dock; These are all the beautiful things that nature has given us, and we must also follow this natural law; Immature fruit is bitter and astringent, and the budding buds are lovely, but if they bloom too early, they will still miss the flowers. Incomplete wings can only soar when they grow up. There are many reefs on the sea, shoals are easy to find, and docks are hard to find.
Similarly, nature has given us some beauty, such as: youth; Youth is always lovely, lively and full of vitality. A thousand words cannot describe the beauty of youth. Youth is precious because everyone has only one life. However, youth, like a ship in the sea, will encounter all kinds of difficulties in the process of reaching the dock, such as puppy love.
At present, I believe that this word is often heard by everyone. In this network era, even primary school students are not spared, entertainment stars who kiss and cheat in the street can occupy the headlines of all major platforms. In school canteens, groves and study rooms, you can see couples of young men and women imitating the words and actions of adults. At the moment of holding hands, at the moment of mouth-to-mouth, how I wanted to stop them. But thinking of my body that can't hold two fists, I still gave up.
Is puppy love harmful? I don't know, all I know is that some students are deeply in love, emotionally unstable, impulsive, emotional, and have poor self-control, and often have bad emotions such as anxiety, irritability, doubt and jealousy. Under the influence of these emotions, it is easy to produce symptoms such as loss of appetite, general weakness, dizziness and nausea. Over time, diseases such as digestive tract diseases and hypoglycemia will appear.
I also know that puppy love has a great influence on students' study. Most students who indulge in puppy love go along the track of their feelings rising straight and their grades falling straight. However, some students who yearn for or fall in love with each other think that as long as two people in love have the same interests, it will not affect their study. They even summed up a so-called formula, men and women = the combined force of two people. This view is naive, confusing and wrong. This is because students' puppy love is not only a sunny spring, but also a biting winter; Under the overload of puppy love, which almost crushes all young minds, it is very natural and common to have no intention to study and have a decline in grades.
What's more, if you talk about falling in love too early, students are full of energy and refuse to suffer easily, especially in front of their girlfriends, and they are even more unwilling to lose face. They often lose their minds, even fight, show their skills and even commit crimes because the other party said an impolite word to their girlfriend and made indecent moves.
There is an old saying: cross the bridge when you cross it. Why can't you enjoy the scenery along the way on the voyage of the emotional boat? There must be better things like family hugs on the dock. I call on everyone to lock their immature emotional gates with rational and positive sunshine, and don't let the emotional ship dock too early.
Speech on Puppy Love Education for Middle School Students 5
In today's campus, puppy love has become a common phenomenon. Adolescent rebellious psychology leads more and more boys and girls to start so-called "love" without hesitation, ignoring school rules and parents' teaching. At this time, love is immature, not true love, which does great harm to your middle school life. Do you know what harm puppy love can do? Especially for girls, it is necessary to understand clearly.
The first and most intuitive point is that puppy love will seriously affect learning.
This is also one of the fundamental reasons why teachers and parents oppose puppy love, because in middle school, the most important thing for us is to study. Some students swear that falling in love will not affect their studies, but it will be more serious, which is simply an idiotic dream. Puppy love distracts your energy, so that you can't concentrate on your study, and your study will only plummet. Therefore, in order to have a good grade and a bright future, we should stay away from puppy love as soon as possible.
Second, you will lose many friends in the process of puppy love.
When you start to fall in love, there is only him in your world. There is a center in your life. You bother your boyfriend or girlfriend all day, which naturally makes your good friend and girlfriend cold. Over time, your friends will be alienated from you, and friends will have new friends. When your love fails, you will find that you don't even have someone to talk to. Do you still want puppy love after seeing this?
The third point is that it will waste a lot of time.
Middle school time is very tight. In love, you two are tender and affectionate, inseparable, which is really enviable. However, it is almost impossible for him to accompany you to the end now. Instead of wasting precious time on him, let go of love, study hard, make yourself excellent, and meet true love with your better self.
The fourth point is that it will waste money.
The cost of being in love is definitely higher than that of being single, especially for boys. It is definitely wrong to burden parents because of temporary happiness, especially for students with poor family conditions. Instead of raising other people's women with their parents' money, it is better to calm down, study hard and stay away from puppy love.
The fifth and most serious point is that breaking up will do great harm.
Nowadays, students are very fragile inside, because the depression caused by breaking up and the decline of academic performance are very light. Self-mutilation and suicide are very common because it is hard to let go. I sincerely hope that today's middle school students can cherish their bodies, truly love their lives, and don't hurt themselves because of temporary hard feelings. Doing so not only hurts yourself, but also hurts relatives and parents, and puppy love harms others and harms yourself. I hope everyone can stay away.
After reading so many disadvantages of puppy love, I believe everyone has a deep understanding of puppy love. Here, I hope that students who don't have puppy love must control themselves and don't start such unhealthy love. Students in love can grasp the scale and minimize the bad influence.