Don't do it overnight, keep repeating your own views and influence men. Only in this way can we really achieve the effect of "gossiping". ② When inducing men to have a bad impression on green tea, the landing site must not be a criticism or destruction of green tea. On the other hand, you must try your best to praise green tea. The nobler and more outstanding, the better. The better you describe her, the more ups and downs a man will feel.
For example, after you quarreled with your boyfriend, green tea immediately relieved him: "Hum, how could she do this to you?" Where are you going to find such a good man? If I had a boyfriend like you, I might wake up laughing when I fell asleep. Why would I want to scold you? "Hearing this, the man will certainly feel at ease, but how do you fight back against green tea? You don't have to try to expose the intention of green tea in front of men. Instead, we should wait for the contradiction between ourselves and men to be solved, find a chance, and then tell him:
"Dear, after the conflict before we ended, I reflected on myself a lot. I know I did say a lot of things wrong. I sincerely apologize to you here. In fact, you don't have to tell me that my sister must have worked hard for us during the period when we were in conflict. She must have said a lot of nice things about me in front of him, right? I knew it. I must have paid this girl for nothing. I will definitely invite her to dinner independently and thank her. Without her, it is certainly not easy for everyone to make up so quickly. " How does a man feel after hearing such words?
Yes, he must feel very guilty. Because green tea doesn't praise you at all, it always says that you are not very good. And men will think, why did green tea say such things at that time? As the saying goes, there is a difference between persuading and not persuading. Is she really full of goodwill? When a person's mind plants a seed of doubt, it will soon take root and sprout. In this case, if you can induce a man repeatedly in a similar way, sooner or later he will completely lose trust in green tea. Bottom thinking: In fact, the best way to deal with green tea around men is to communicate sincerely with men. In the process of getting to know them better, I will gradually fill my shortcomings in their eyes, improve my style, give him a sense of urgency, and will not give green tea a chance.