Cheating is caused by many reasons, such as:

First, psychological compensation

One of the husband and wife has physical defects, is not satisfied physically, or the relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious, and takes the initiative to find a third party or is willing to accept compensation from a third party, thus forming an extramarital affair. Sexual life is not the whole content of husband and wife's life. As long as husband and wife strengthen contact, communicate more emotionally, and miss each other in their hearts, life is still very full and there is no need for compensation.

Second, lack of emotion.

Some lovers finally fail to get married, and both parties get married separately, or after one party gets married, the other party still secretly loves the other party. When one partner's life is difficult or the relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious, the other partner feels that he still owes the other partner's affection, and actively throws himself into the arms of his old lover, and the old love rekindles and produces an extramarital affair. Lovers are not always good, since both sides have their own families, or the other side has a family, we must face the reality and cherish the feelings of husband and wife. When the other person's life is difficult or the relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious, it is useless to repay each other's feelings with extramarital affairs instead of helping each other.

Third, greed.

Some people covet each other's money, regardless of their own personality, and take the initiative to commit themselves to each other in exchange for a few copper coins, thus forming an extramarital affair.

Fourth, appearance psychology.

Some people take the initiative to show their love for the beauty of the woman or the bodybuilding of the man, thus having an extramarital affair. Appearance beauty will naturally disappear with age, only spiritual beauty is eternal, just like fine wine, the longer it gets, the more mellow it becomes. Therefore, the most important thing is to be good at discovering the bright spot of your spouse and give yourself a true feeling, so that beauty will naturally appear in the eyes of your lover.

Verb (abbreviation of verb) gratitude psychology

Some people have to sacrifice their bodies because of difficulties in life, or because their husbands are away for a long time, and their families have been taken care of by each other for a long time, and they have nothing to repay, thus resulting in extramarital affairs. In fact, since the other party sincerely helps you, it doesn't want your return. The other person is good to you, just keep it in mind. Why give your body? If this affects the other family, it is not a good intention to do bad things.

Sixth, revenge psychology.

Some couples have extramarital affairs because one of them refuses to listen to persuasion, and the other takes the initiative to find a third party in retaliation for the other, resulting in extramarital affairs. It is wrong to know that the other party is having an affair. Why are you looking for a third party? Besides, marriage is free, so is divorce. If the relationship has really broken down and there is no possibility of reconciliation, it is better to divorce and be friends than to retaliate against each other.

Seven, curious psychology

Some couples live an ordinary life and feel unremarkable, while the hero and heroine in the film and television are madly in love with their lovers, making waves one after another and enjoying themselves. They also wanted to experience this kind of life, so, driven by this curiosity, they had an affair.

Eight, hedonic psychology

Some people think that people should eat, drink and be merry in time when they are alive, so they promiscuously engage in extramarital affairs with the opposite sex.

Nine, mutual affection psychology

Some men and women help and support each other at work. Over time, the two sides had a good impression on two of a kind, which led to an affair.

X. Mutual benefit psychology

Some people take advantage of each other's mutual benefit and have extramarital affairs because of the constraints of work.

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