Some developed countries have long realized the importance of carrying out will exercise and hard-working education for children, and have designed various methods to enhance their hard-working spirit and anti-frustration ability. Japanese children began to exercise their will at the age of two. From kindergarten to primary school, even in snowy winter, boys only wear pants and girls wear short skirts to hone their will and perseverance to fight the cold. In South Korea, parents put down jackets on their children, let them stay in the ice cave for a while before coming out, and let them know the taste of "cold"; In China, this kind of education is not enough. Therefore, as parents, we should change the original attitude of parenting, let children go out of the "protection circle" of adults, let go of their hands and feet, don't be afraid of children falling, bruised and hungry, and encourage them to get up by themselves if they fall. For children who are picky eaters, partial eclipse and anorexia, it doesn't hurt to be hungry for one or two meals. Let them do their own thing and solve it by themselves. Wear your own clothes and pants. In family life, you should arrange for your children to do something that you can. You must not solve all the difficulties in your child's growth and remove the obstacles to his progress.
Second, let children learn to solve problems by themselves.
In daily life, it is necessary to cultivate children's ability to solve problems by themselves. Parents should not do what they can, or even use their potential to do what they can. They should let their children do it when safety is guaranteed. Parents should give more affirmation and encouragement, so that children can improve their ability and spirit of overcoming difficulties and being diligent and enterprising. Even if some things are not done well, parents should affirm their children's efforts, objectively analyze the reasons for their failure, and put forward the direction and motivation for their children to continue their efforts. Only in this way can children gradually develop the spirit of not being afraid of hardship and failure when encountering difficulties, so as to learn to bear and deal with all kinds of difficulties and setbacks and become an active lifestyle.
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Third, start with small things.
For example, when children don't want to get up in the cold winter; When it is difficult for children to finish a handmade work; When the child jumps rope to the last exhausted moment; When the child is about to finish the housework, the little friend comes to ask him to go out to play; When the child has a cold and fever; These are occasions for exercise and hardship.
At this time, children need encouragement, induction and encouragement from parents and family. Ask children to persist in doing what they are doing, and ask children to persist in fighting difficulties.
In fact, the spirit of suffering comes from this last courage.
Attention should be paid to the ways and means of educating children about suffering. Tiger mother, wolf father and eagle father are not enough.
Parents need to measure their children's ability to bear hardships in order to teach them to bear hardships; It is necessary to respect the wishes of children, but not to force orders; You need to set an example, not just talk about it.
Fourth, long-term persistence.
The long road of life depends entirely on him (her), and the difficulties must also be solved by him (her). Especially for boys, for a future man, hard work is the foundation of his life. Without the spirit of hard work, he is doomed to face increasingly fierce social competition.
Letting children suffer a little is to prepare for their future life journey smoothly, so that they can fully realize their value in the stormy life after entering the society.
The above are the knowledge points that I prepared for parents and related to the cultivation of children's hard-working spirit, hoping to help parents. Children who are afraid of hardship will not succeed, learn well, retreat when encountering difficulties, treat life pessimistically, and find it difficult to adapt to social competition.
Question 2: How to cultivate children's hard-working spirit is a glorious tradition of the Chinese nation. However, it is worth pondering that most students nowadays are only children. They grew up in greenhouses, and most of them lived a life of "clothes to reach out and food to open their mouths". Most of them don't know the joys and sorrows of life, and have never suffered the hardships of life. Nowadays, it has become a top priority to cultivate the fighting spirit of secondary vocational school students.
First, analyze the current situation of secondary vocational school students.
At present, there is a great demand for secondary vocational students, and some of them have been pre-employed before graduation. But the biggest headache for teachers and enterprises is that quite a few graduates quit after working in enterprises for a few days. They can't stand any hardships and have no firm will. Lack of the spirit of hard work and hard struggle, poor labor quality, low thinking, unable to do great things, unwilling to do small things, unwilling to do work seriously. Some parents are also complaining about the school, and the negative impact of employment has also affected the enrollment work. The cultivation of students in secondary vocational schools should meet the needs of the talent market, improve the efficiency of running schools, attract students by employment and ensure their survival by enrollment.
Nowadays, employers put forward higher requirements for secondary vocational school students. They should not only have excellent skills, but also have high comprehensive qualities: hard work, adaptability to employment and professional ethics. As can be seen from employers, education is no longer the first choice, and whether students can bear hardships and stand hard work is paid more and more attention. It can be seen that our secondary vocational schools pay attention to the cultivation of students' skills, and at the same time, it is urgent to strengthen the cultivation of students' hard-working spirit.
Second, correct ideological understanding and understand the importance of hard work.
Diligence is the secret of success, and it is the basic quality and condition that everyone who is eager to succeed should have. No matter what industry or field you are engaged in, it is essential to work hard if you want to achieve good results. There is no pie in the sky, no pains, no gains. Only by working hard can success be appreciated by you. One of China people's favorite inspirational words is "Only after suffering can you become a master". This long-standing wisdom brilliantly sums up the inevitable relationship between hardship and success: hard work is the secret of success.
People who can bear hardships and stand hard work seldom fail. This is because, if you are used to suffering, you will no longer regard suffering as suffering, you will be able to accept it calmly and take the initiative when encountering setbacks; Afraid of hardship, it is not only difficult to develop a positive and enterprising spirit, but also to adopt an evasive attitude towards difficulties and setbacks. Such people are certainly difficult to succeed.
Third, cultivate students' hard-working spirit.
Make use of class and school activities to create an atmosphere in which everyone should work hard. In class activities, students should be encouraged to take part in some hard work as much as possible, be willing to bear hardships in activities, consciously struggle with difficulties in study, life, labor and physical exercise, and be brave in self-challenge, so that students dare to bear hardships and are willing to bear hardships. The specific way is as follows:
1. Cultivate students' fighting spirit in military training
Although the days of military training are bitter, you can taste the thick taste like coffee. The content and intensity of military training are better accepted and deeply understood by students, and they learn the perseverance of persistence and hardship. I think the time schedule is 15 to 20 days. During the military training, all students are strictly required to stick to it, temper their will and enhance their perseverance in hard work.
2. Cultivate students' fighting spirit in learning.
If you want to get good grades, you must pay tears and efforts. Learning needs hard work, and whether students have the spirit of hard work is the premise of doing a good job in learning. Therefore, our school attaches great importance to cultivating students' hard-working spirit. Our specific methods are: first, educate students to set lofty learning goals and understand the importance of learning; Secondly, through emotional education, stimulate students' interest in learning and enhance their internal driving force in learning; Third, cultivate students' diligent and persistent study perseverance; Finally, students should listen carefully and do their homework carefully to cultivate good study habits.
3. Cultivate students' hard-working spirit in the process of training.
The training process is an important link for vocational school students to cultivate their skills and professional quality, and it is also a good opportunity to cultivate students' hard-working spirit. The school has formulated a strict training management system, which clearly requires students to attend training classes. During the training period, each student must stick to his training post, practice seriously and complete the training task, and can't relax his requirements because he is afraid of being dirty and tired; Schools should implement a strict assessment system, and students' training results are composed of training effect, discipline, attitude and performance. In practical training, students are required to seek truth from facts.
Question 3: How to cultivate children's spirit of suffering? Instead of providing superior living conditions, it is better to take him to remote mountainous areas to see and let him feel and exercise.
Question 4: How do foreign countries cultivate children's ability to bear hardships? This is an article about how to cultivate children and how to cultivate their self-care ability. In the eyes of domestic parents, foreign children always have strong self-care ability, in fact, it is also the case. In families in developed countries, parents generally attach importance to cultivating children's self-care ability and self-improvement spirit from an early age. This is because the developed market economy requires foreign children to always have strong self-care ability in the eyes of parents in China, and in fact, this is also the case. In families in developed countries, parents generally attach importance to cultivating children's self-care ability and self-improvement spirit from an early age. This is because the developed market economy requires members of society to have this ability and spirit. Please see how foreigners cultivate children's self-care ability. American American parents let their children know the value of labor from an early age. In order to cultivate students' independent survival ability, some state schools in the southern United States specifically stipulate that students must earn a living independently for a week without any money before they can graduate. The conditions are almost harsh, but the students have benefited a lot. Parents fully support this activity, no one is dragging their feet, no one is going through the back door, and no one is making small moves. American middle school students have a slogan, "spend your own money." Since childhood, American teenagers, no matter how rich their families are, after 12 years old, boys will mow the grass and send newspapers to their neighbors or parents to earn some pocket money, while girls will work as nannies to make money. German parents never arrange or replace their children. The law also stipulates that children should undertake some housework at home when they reach the age of 14, such as shoeshine for the whole family. This is not only to cultivate children's working ability, but also to cultivate children's sense of social responsibility. There is a famous saying that Japanese parents educate their children, except that sunshine and air are the gifts of nature, everything else must be obtained through labor. Many students go out to work to earn money in their spare time. Work-study program is very common among college students, even children from wealthy families are no exception. They earn their tuition by serving dishes and washing dishes in restaurants, selling goods in shops, taking care of the elderly in nursing homes and being tutors. When children are very young, their parents instill in them an idea that they will not cause trouble to others. When the whole family goes out to travel, no matter how young the children are, they will always carry a small backpack. Others asked why, and parents said, "Take your own things." . China's parents spoil their children so much that they are all in junior high school. They will be taken to cram school or learn musical instruments by their parents, and they are not allowed to do any housework. As long as the children study well and have any requirements, their parents will agree. Some children go to college, change clothes and bring them back to their mothers for washing. There is a common bad habit of using clothes to get enough food. Some college graduates are not in a hurry to find a job, they can't make big money, and they don't want to make small money. They sleep during the day and surf the Internet at night, and they have developed the bad habit of "willing to work for the elderly". Watching their parents work from morning till night every day, they don't feel guilty at all. They think it is right for their parents to support them, but don't they want their parents to support them all their lives? Why do foreign children have better self-care ability than domestic children? Because parents don't spoil their children, they develop their own things and make them themselves from an early age. We should learn from others, educate the next generation and stop doting on children.
Question 5: How to cultivate children's ability to bear hardships and stand hard work and send them to boarding schools? Leaving parents is a kind of exercise for children, and it is a training for children's ability to live independently.
Question 6: How to cultivate college students' hard-working spirit? Diligence is a spirit and a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. Diligence is a habit, a manifestation of people's will and moral cultivation; Diligence is the only way to success, and many successful people have this excellent quality throughout the ages. Contemporary college students shoulder the historical mission of building the motherland and need to have the spirit of hard struggle in order to be competent for the needs of future development.
First, create a hard-working cultural environment among college students.
(A) to carry out arduous publicity
Colleges and universities can establish a three-level publicity network of schools, departments and classes to publicize the spirit of hard struggle and instill in students the importance of cultivating the spirit of hard struggle. Schools can set up special publicity offices and publish special newspapers and posters. Set up special publicity areas in departments and classes, and hold regular class group meetings to give full play to the role of class collective learning and peer influence. Each class chooses an information liaison to regularly summarize and report the students' participation in diligent study and hard training activities, which can be recorded in the students' files.
(2) Establish a typical spirit of hard work.
In colleges and universities, the practice of hard struggle is widely carried out, and educators should pay attention to choosing and establishing the model of hard struggle spirit. Let the typical students around you actively participate in the work and cultivate their spirit of hard work. Typical tree selection must be representative. The selected tree must have a high degree of enthusiasm for participating in practical activities. They should see their own gains and growth in the activities, show the changes before and after the practical activities more prominently, and let people around them really see that the spirit of hard struggle has been rooted in the typical study life of the selected trees. [ 1]
Second, establish the communication mechanism of the three universities.
Communication between schools
The communication between schools can have two directions: horizontal and vertical. Horizontal refers to the communication between colleges and universities, which can exchange experiences and good practices in cultivating students' hard-working spirit. Vertical communication refers to systematizing students' hard education, and universities should continue the training objectives of primary school, junior high school and senior high school students and formulate a training mechanism suitable for college students. Let students experience hard-working activities in the whole learning process, and let them get full exercise before entering the society. Only after entering the society can they see the role and effect of hard-working education.
(B) communication between schools and society
University is a small society, in which students' various abilities can be exercised. However, universities are not a society after all, and schools should open up and establish opportunities for students to get in touch with society. Let students participate in social practice activities and establish contact with nursing homes, welfare homes and sanitation departments, so that students can feel the joy of labor and the glory of workers in the process of participating in social practice, truly understand the hardships of workers, and subtly carry out hard struggle education. The employment of college students has become an important standard to measure the quality of teaching and training in colleges and universities. Let students get in touch with society in advance and establish contact with society, which can effectively improve students' ability and enhance their employment competitiveness.
Communication between school and family.
Family education plays an important role in people's growth, which can profoundly affect a person. Parents are children's first teachers, and they also talk about the importance of family education. As college students, although they have to live on campus most of the time, we must never ignore the influence of family education on students. Schools should communicate with parents in time to better understand students, teachers should coordinate with parents, and there can be no inconsistency in educational standards. Teachers and parents should provide students with as many opportunities for labor exercise as possible. Nowadays, college students are all born after 90, so they are outstanding and avant-garde, and most of them are only children. As parents, remember not to spoil children too much, give them more opportunities to exercise and let them learn to be independent.
(4) Communication between schools and employers
Nowadays, the talent training in colleges and universities points to the market demand, and it is the goal of talent training in every college to cultivate students with high quality and excellent professional ability that meet the market demand. Then, in order to train students and make them truly meet these requirements, schools need to build a platform to link students with enterprises. Let students feel and learn in the enterprise, and complete the transformation from theoretical study to practical study before graduation. Colleges and universities should strengthen contact with employers, contact more students and contact some good employers, which can not only solve the problem of lack of people in employers, but also enable college students to get better exercise before entering the society. [2]
Third, broaden practical channels and cultivate college students' fighting spirit.
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Question 7: How to cultivate children's hard-working spirit? Parents should educate their children with correct views from an early age. Use the positive side of society as a teaching material for children, not the negative side.
Question 8: How to cultivate children's enterprising spirit, not striving for progress and not making progress, is the most terrible mentality of children. Parents should do everything possible to encourage their children to form the habit of positive attitude.
After the exam, parents are most concerned about their children's grades. Parents may often hear children say, "There are still many people who are worse than me in the exam." This conversation has happened more than once. If children say this, parents must attach great importance to it.
In fact, this is a child who has no ambition, no motivation to learn, no motivation to achieve, or no motivation to learn. It should be said that children have this enterprising personality, although there may be congenital factors, but more is caused by the influence of the acquired environment. Children's superior living conditions, parents' comfortable life, grandparents' influence and other factors may unconsciously form a child's enterprising character. Parents have no or weak requirements for their children, or teachers have no suitable requirements, which may be the direct factors for children to form lack of progress.
How can parents help their children to form the habit of being positive and enterprising?
First of all, parents and families should set an enterprising example.
A positive family style has a great influence on children. Because role models will silently influence children.
One of our teachers stayed in Tsinghua after graduating from technical secondary school. In just a few years, I was named as an associate professor all the way, leading graduate students, presiding over department work, presiding over large-scale projects, and completing many works. He relies on enterprising spirit. Results His 12-year-old son not only excelled in culture class, but also developed in music, physical fitness and beauty in an all-round way, and went directly to the middle school attached to Tsinghua University. The reason is that intellectual factors are one thing, but parents' role models are endless. In such a busy situation, my father went to Peking University to study for a doctorate, and my mother was a class teacher and also a graduate student. When mom and dad are writing in front of the computer, when mom and dad are receiving academic visitors again and again, this gives the children a silent call.
In an ordinary family, parents can't write books every day, but their pursuit of work and a better life, as well as their enterprising faces, will set an example for their children to make progress silently.
Second, we should give positive guidance, set goals and strengthen children's initiative.
Most of children's progress is transformed from external requirements into their own wishes. Therefore, target education is necessary. Goals may establish children's ambitions, and ambitions can guide children to pursue them. Napoleon said that "soldiers who don't want to be marshals are not good soldiers" is actually an incentive.
1, set long-term goals
If you are admitted to a famous university in the future, you will go to the university to study for a master's degree or a doctor's degree. Among them, some film and television works, especially those that introduce ups and downs and characters' situations, arouse children's desire to establish long-term goals.
For example, the documentary version of China Capital will be shown first, and then some outdoor scenes such as Peking University and Tsinghua will be shown to arouse children's yearning for Beijing or a better future, and then for these universities or a better life. Therefore, it is natural to draw a conclusion that we must study hard, lay a good foundation and learn math, science, culture, Chinese and foreign languages well.
There are many such examples. The great rivers and mountains of the motherland and the ancient cities are all good materials to arouse children's feelings ―― of course, parents should be interested first, even if they are not interested, and they should do so when they want to train their children ―― and then guide children to go to these places only after they have learned the skills well.
The problem we should pay attention to is that parents may not be as effective as others when talking about the future. If parents imagine the long-term goal as the happiness of tomorrow, then this happiness is attractive to children. The goal of "tomorrow's happiness theory" can be higher than the actual level of children, and the level of motivation is super high, and the greater the motivation may be.
Step 2 set short-term goals
Short-term goals are the goals of one month, one semester and one school year. For example, it is stipulated that children should be 65,438+00, top 5 in the first semester, or get excellent grades, or write a composition every two days and keep a diary every day. It should be noted that the short-term goal is today. If it is too high to be achieved, it will dampen naive enthusiasm and thus affect self-motivation.
The most suitable short-term goal is a little higher than students' ability, which students can achieve through hard work. For example, students took the exam 15-20 before, so the short-term goal can be set at 10- 15.
3. Promote good and suppress evil, and promote bright spots.
Even children who don't make progress have many bright spots. Find out the bright spots and carry them forward, and children may enhance their enterprising motivation from the bright spots. For example, playing chess, Go, table tennis, calligraphy, dancing, playing the piano, giving speeches and writing poems. , always possible ... >; & gt
Question 9: How to cultivate your hard-working spirit? First of all, you should have a good living habit, such as doing some sports, practicing boxing, standing piles and so on from six in the morning. Then try to focus on one thing and see if you can integrate into one thing. The important thing is to stick to it every day and start from small things.