2. Children and grandchildren in the clan, etc. Do something wrong, have a dry teacher, don't wait to be an official, first rectify in the temple.
3, porridge and a meal are not easy to think about; It is difficult to keep thinking about material resources.
4. Pay attention to moral cultivation, strict sentiment and character; Help justice and reject evil.
5. If you want to be tall, you should be good, and your children and grandchildren should study.
6. Those who have the virtue of immortality must be guaranteed by the descendants of immortality; Those who have the virtue of ten generations will be guaranteed by their descendants; Without the latter, thinness is a virtue.
7, a porridge and a meal, when thinking hard; It is difficult to keep thinking about material resources.
8, a person can be diligent and respectful, although fools also have the taste of wisdom.
9. One ring is (late); Second, quit being lazy; Three commandments of luxury; Under the temptation is pride. Observe under temptation and observe four rules: First, study hard; Second, it is right to respect teachers; Three righteousness and love for the masses; Fourth, we should eat carefully.
10, students should have three diligence: hand diligence, brain diligence and reading diligence.
1 1, don't be suspicious, don't listen to the words of alienation, don't do things that identify with each other, and don't specialize in public interests.
12, marching and fighting, soldiers are most afraid of arrogance, and arrogant soldiers will fail; Children are also most afraid of being spoiled. If they are spoiled, there must be something wrong. & gt
13, honor the elderly and strictly educate children and grandchildren; Respect the old and love the young, and be kind to Mu.
14, filial piety should be done, loyalty and courage show Dan Cheng; Brothers help each other and have boundless compassion.
15, don't be small evil, don't be small good.
16, I see that there is love in the world that does not teach. Eat and drink if you can't do it, do whatever you want, and don't win prizes. You have to laugh and be knowledgeable. This is called law.
17, my family has been eating Song Lu for more than 300 years. Don't forget that future generations are not officials.
Question 2: What are the good family styles? What is family style?
Family style is simply the ethos of a family, including the attitude and code of conduct in dealing with people. Family style is created by the attitudes, behaviors and atmosphere of family members. It exists in family daily life and is manifested in people's attitudes and behaviors in dealing with various relationships in daily life. They are deeply felt by people like magnetic fields, prompting people to obey and obey from the heart.
The wind at home has worked.
Good family style plays a key role in the process of people's growth and is the wealth of people's life. Under the influence of good family style, teenagers will be influenced by it, shape their behavior according to the content of good family style, form good living habits and achieve a better life.
Pay attention to morality, honesty and trustworthiness.
Morality is the foundation of a person's foothold in the world and the core of family style. Noble morality can make people form a rich and elegant spiritual life and develop good living habits. Honesty and trustworthiness is a person's business card. Teenagers develop an honest character, and they are more likely to succeed in their future study and work, thus winning long-term honor and respect and bringing long-term happiness and peace to their families.
Attach importance to learning and advocate knowledge.
China has a tradition of advocating learning since ancient times. Parents should set an example, attach importance to learning, advocate knowledge, edify their children with their own words and deeds, make the family full of learning atmosphere, cultivate children's morality through learning, and enhance their intelligence and ability. When teenagers grow up in a family full of learning atmosphere, it is easy to form a good habit of conscious learning, which will affect children's interest in learning and thus improve their academic performance, which is hard to buy.
Diligent housekeeping, respect for labor.
Diligence is a spiritual force that inspires people to forge ahead, and it is also a magic weapon for personal healthy growth. Diligence and family style can prevent teenagers from feeling superior and consciously overcome their femininity. Labor is the source of all happiness. Influenced by the family style of respecting labor, teenagers will establish the concept of self-reliance, cultivate self-reliance ability from an early age, and develop perseverance and enterprising character.
Family harmony and reasonable parenting.
Harmonious family relationship will create a good family atmosphere for children. Only when children live in a harmonious and warm family and are influenced by a positive and healthy spirit can they be happy, enterprising and develop good behavior habits. Parents should also educate their children scientifically, actively listen to his opinions and negotiate on an equal footing, so that their children can grow up healthily in a harmonious, warm and loving family atmosphere.
Respect the old and love the young, and help each other in the neighborhood.
Respecting the old and loving the young is a traditional virtue and one of the most important family styles, which helps to promote family harmony and let teenagers live in a good family atmosphere. We should live in harmony with our neighbors, help each other, sympathize with, care for and help neighbors in trouble, and create harmonious neighborhood relations.
Question 3: What does a good family style in contemporary society include? Family style, also known as family style, is the sum of a family's stable lifestyle, lifestyle, traditional habits, moral norms and ways of dealing with people. Existence has many different connotations from China people's daily life.
1, "family style" The tradition, ethos and demeanor of a family.
Family is the home of every family member and the organizational cell of social stratum. Historically, China people have always attached importance to the education and inheritance of family traditions. Whether it is the feudal era that emphasizes farming and poetry, or the ceremony, filial piety, loyalty, honesty and frugality advocated by contemporary society, it is like a solid link between traditional culture and family inheritance, which closely solidifies and shapes the inherent "family style" of China people. In his daily behavior, treating people and other behaviors, whether intentionally or unintentionally, he will have the shadow of his family to some extent, and these influences are formed in the subtle influence of his personal living environment and his parents and relatives. It is this intentional or unintentional inheritance that makes the "family style" continue in the family, but it does not mean that this way of inheritance is a tradition that exists in ordinary families.
The inheritance of "family style" is not only a tradition existing among the masses in China, but also a unique ethos and demeanor in China. When it comes to "family style", we have to mention China's traditional thought. The Chinese nation still values "ceremony", which is a national character forged by the ideas advocated by the sages after more than 2,000 years of selection and recognition. However, a good "family style" is passed down without exegesis. What is more important is the "practice" of the elders. In the early years of the Western Han Dynasty, Han Ying, a scholar, recorded the story of Meng Mu's "broken weaving": Mencius did not know how to study hard when he was a child, and he often interrupted his studies. In order to educate him, Meng Mu once cut off the cloth he wanted to weave on the loom with a knife, which made Mencius realize the truth of "giving up halfway". There is also a famous passage in Liu Xiang's Biography of Women, because when he was young, his mother told him, "Don't care about your good looks, be a good doctor"-good looks can save the country, and good doctors can save lives. If you want to be happy, you must make others happy first. The importance of family education can also be described as taking the lead. A horse is a gregarious animal, but if you raise a young horse alone from an early age, you won't let it enter the herd until you grow up, because its gregarious instinct never exists. It is easy to become a "black sheep". People are the same. If a child lacks moral enlightenment from an early age, his good instinct cannot be stimulated, and his selfish and indifferent character can hardly be suppressed. Whether due to the accumulation of history and culture or the consideration of people's socialization, the cultivation of "family style" has become the style of China society.
2. "Family style" is a family moral concept.
Parents warned us from an early age what is good and what is bad, what to do and what not to do, which virtually formed our moral concept. This is a kind of concept inheritance, which has been passed on to our parents for a long time, from our parents to our generation, and we will certainly pass it on to the next generation. In this process, the content may have some changes, may be deleted, and may also add content with the characteristics of the times, but the core content is a family's moral concept.
Every family lives in a different environment and faces different people and things, just like the same catty of rice. Farmers, grocery store owners and hotel owners have different ideas. Faced with a kilo of rice, farmers may only think about the amount of a meal. The owner of non-staple food will think about making different snacks with a catty of rice; The hotel owner will think about turning this catty of rice into wine. Therefore, every family has its own moral concept, and different families have different values, which reflects the independence of this family style and reflects the family style's * * * for family members.
3. "Family style" is a spiritual measure. In a specific family, "family style" is not only the slogan of moral education, but also the established standard of family members' self-discipline and supervision by others. It is also the spiritual embodiment, value recognition and honor and dignity of a family. These intangible customs, standards, norms and spirits are constantly practiced and passed down through the specific behaviors handed down from generation to generation by family members. Among historical figures, such as Yue Fei, Wen Tianxiang and Yuan Chonghuan, their life growth and belief persistence are often directly or indirectly related to their families and the "family style" formed by their families. Some historical figures may be ... >>
Question 4: What are the harmony, trust, care, mutual assistance, respect and care of a good family style?
Question 5: What excellent qualities does a good tutor style contain to mention my family style? That is two words: rigorous.
Let's talk about this "strictness" first, which means strictness. Dad is always meticulous and pursues perfection. He is strict with himself, so is he with me. Take my homework as an example. Even if it is done well, dad will find fault with eggs. Once he finds out my mistake, he will never stop talking. I don't know where he got such a good eloquence. His breath almost drowned me. After training, let me rewrite it all. Although I am not satisfied, I know that * * * is invalid. Besides, dad is above everyone else, and I can only speak frankly. But it's also good. Almost all my exercise books are "excellent".
But what impressed me was not those "Excellence", but those "failures", which made me understand my father's painstaking efforts. Dad was on a business trip these days, and I thought I didn't have to do my homework so hard. I cheered when my father left. As a result, I scribbled my homework, not to mention what the teacher taught me the next day. Worse things are yet to come. When I came back from a business trip, my father flew into a rage after receiving the exercise book I handed me trembling, and yelled at me with a voice that was enough to break people's eardrums. After my father finished his training, I said weakly, "I won't dare again." There is a good saying: "If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer." . I finally realized it, and I dare not be careless anymore.
Let's talk about this "caution", but it is also cautious. Mom is a model. "Not afraid of 10 thousand, just afraid of one thousand" is my mother's mantra. Whenever I go to school, I always hear a few words: "Take an umbrella in case it rains?" "Bring water in case you are thirsty?" Wait, there are so many words, I even call her "mom in case". My mother always chooses between the left and the right when buying clothes, and she hasn't bought a dress after shopping for a long time. When I ask her, she always says, "There are so many fakes now. What if I am fooled? " It makes me laugh and cry. And I don't seem to have inherited my mother's caution. I made mistakes from time to time in the exam, and the score was 100. Now, I am trying to get rid of this shortcoming.
I grew up in such an environment and became excellent, so I love my family!