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Love is a kind of dedication.
Love has given everything, but it is still rich. outer city wall
△ Love is not taking, but giving to Van Dyke.
△ Love exists in the desire to give, and regards the happiness of your lover as your own happiness. Fort Sweden
Love is giving, even if he has a bad life, you want to help him and make him have a good life; He has a good life. You want to share his troubles with him and make him live a better life. A stingy person will not be stingy with his lover. \
He has a bad life, so you want to help him and make him have a good life. He has a good life, and you want to share his troubles with him and make him live a better life.
Love you. So I will think of you in everything I do. I miss you at dinner. I miss you when you sleep. I want to buy something for you, and I'm still guessing the cute and happy expression when you receive something. If there is something bad, you will always think about what harm it will do to you. The most insignificant but subtle thing is that at the end of hanging up the phone or dating, no matter who says goodbye first, I will always be the one who puts down the phone and turns around. Before you do something, think about whether you will like it or not. Try not to do anything that will make you angry. Even if I really want to do it, I will try my best to resist it.
Scene 1: (Love is selfish vs. Love is selfless) Mainly talk about the argument.
Positive argument: the statement debate should be a factual debate, not a discussion of what we should do. It is believed that human beings have selfish nature by seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages.
Expand the basic argument
First, start with love. The yearning for love is originally to satisfy personal desires. People can't fall in love with others, nor can they be perfect.
Our love only exists in novels.
Second, from the maintenance of love. Love is possessive and exclusive, and being kind to each other means keeping each other around. (Take jealousy as an example)
Third, from the end of love. It is selfish to abandon others, and it is even more selfish to hate from love (time is up)
Objection: Love includes three aspects: commitment, intimacy and affection. Selflessness means that the starting point of doing things and thinking about problems is not yourself, but the other side. Love is selfless,
Is in the process of love, the first thing to consider is each other's feelings.
First of all, from the essence of love, love itself is a kind of dedication. (To quote Bing Xin)
Secondly, from the expression of love, we can see that all kinds of love, whether vigorous or flat, start from each other and are selfless love.
It doesn't need to be noble. (Take Yuji and Liang Zhu as examples)
Third, from the perspective of selflessness itself. Selflessness doesn't mean it's not good for you. The essence of selflessness lies in the starting point of the other party. And is the result for yourself?
Profit cannot be used as a criterion to judge selflessness or selfishness.
Debate stage: at first, I asked if it was for reward, and whether knitting a sweater for my boyfriend would make her feel satisfied. The opposite answer is that knitting a sweater is really possible.
I am satisfied with myself, but the starting point is for the good of the other party, so I am still selfless. Zheng Fang said that knitting is mainly to satisfy oneself.
Now is selfish; The opponent asks, is it selfish to consider yourself as long as the result is? Time for diamonds is up. There is no answer. The opposing side finally explained
He is happy, so am I.
Positive arguments: First, analyze the example of "Liang Zhu" to show that the love between life and death is still selfish. Then take Duan Yu's pursuit of Wang Yuyan as an example to further illustrate that any love is.
Have a purpose. Explain that selfishness and noble selfishness can achieve a win-win situation. Finally, it is concluded that love is selfish in both development and form.
Yes
The opponent retorted that it was unreasonable to criticize "noble selfishness" first. Then point out that the other party said that the debate was a factual judgment but could not give an example. And then attack each other
The definition of selfishness, it is biased for the other party to judge selflessness and selfishness by using the theory of human selfishness as an argument method, indicating that if it is beneficial to oneself, it is ... >>
Question 2: Love is a selfless debate. I am selfless. Give some classic questions, you ask each other first; Can you think of true love? The other party must answer: Yes, then you argue, no matter what is mutual, you are not even willing to pay for each other, then I tell you, there can be no true love in your love world, and there can be no everlasting love.
In fact, there are many stories that prove love. Butterfly lovers and Romeo and Juliet all prove the greatness and selflessness of love. Although the ending was not very happy, they all paid a lot for love and even gave up their lives. Wait, we hope to fly in heaven, two birds grow together on the earth with one wing, two branches of a tree. If two people have been in love for a long time and still get along with each other day and night, etc., all these show that love is selfless, great and even disdainful of family and friendship. I think love is not only the relationship between men and women, but also family and friendship, so love disdains family and friendship. But on the contrary, I once witnessed a man slap his wife with his noble hand. Is this love? The former fragment shows love so pure and pure, and the latter fragment defiles love, which is selfless, great, sacred and pure.
What does love look like:
Sometimes, I know it's a mistake to fall in love with that person, but I still love it with all my heart!
Sometimes, I know it's not good to do this, but I still stubbornly do it!
Sometimes, when you know that her heart is not with you, you willingly give it to her!
Sometimes, I know I can't get her back, but I still pay without regrets!
What is this? This is the power of love, this is the greatness and selflessness of love! Students, love is like this, selfless and without resentment, even if there is no result. I remember someone said that if a woman loves her, she must be responsible for her and take care of her. It is also said that there must be a lovely woman behind a successful man, which shows that he uses his attitude towards work in love and is responsible and caring for his lover!
I wish you a successful debate.
Question 3: Love is a selfless debate (our side). The selflessness of love lies in the willingness of both parties in love to accommodate and share with each other, so love is selfless; The selfishness of love lies in that true love cannot be interfered by any third party, so love is selfish.
Ask questions about sacrificing for each other in love.
Question 4: Debate: Love is selfless. 40 points in all directions: the reason why human beings are superior to other creatures lies in their wisdom. Avoiding the instinct of reproduction and rationally paying for the relationship between the two sides is precisely the reason why human sexual relations are more noble than those of other animals. Looking at nature, it is very rare for monogamy and a couple to have such a long-term relationship, and human love can maintain this because of selfless love. Selfish love follows the instinct of animal reproduction and is the embodiment of possessiveness and * * * *; Selfless love was born in the evolution of human society for thousands of years. It represents intelligent, rational and efficient social relations.
Question 5: Love is selfless. Debate summary: Love is selfless. At the beginning of the argument, I argued that love needs to be paid-
Love is not a feeling created out of thin air, it is a natural fruit after people pay and sacrifice. The more they give and sacrifice, the deeper their love will be. When you pay a lot for love, even if you want to love your lover or not, you can't stop. Love is water under the bridge, you can throw it out with your life. When you pay a lot for your friends and colleagues, you will find that you are like two trees, and the branches are getting closer and closer until they are intertwined. That contribution can infect each other, and finally become an interaction, an energy conversion, and a * * * nature. When you pay a lot for your major and work, you can't help falling in love with it. If you love it, you will pay more for it. In this beautiful cycle, you will constantly improve, progress and enrich your life. Therefore, stingy people must have no love.
Love is not being loved or waiting. Love is a flower. Give it to yourself before you get it.
Love needs expression—
We have to get along with our lovers in order to get the collision of hearts, the blending of feelings and the communication between thoughts. We have love in our hearts, we are experiencing or will experience love, we are excited about love, we are burning for love, and we are troubled by love. Undoubtedly, our love needs to be expressed, and at the same time, we need to express our feelings with tokens. The expression of love is not only words, but also actions. We should not only learn to express love, but also be good at discovering and understanding other people's ways of expressing love in different ways.
Love should be moderate-
Motherly love is the most selfless, but if you spoil your child too much or be too strict, you may turn your mother into a model for your child's growth and make your child too weak or stubborn, which is very unfavorable for your child's future social survival and life. The same is true of a woman's love for her husband. If she lets herself go, she will spoil the man. If she holds it too tightly, it will make men too tired. Pigeons are released every day and fly back every day. Once the bird is released, it will never come back. Love is the star at night, and our life is bright and eternal because of love. We should keep a certain scale between love and non-love, and be moderate. This is a kind of communication.
Love needs to get rid of the heavy-
All love has a heavy side. In order to love, we must get rid of heavy love. For love, we need to give up love. Otherwise, love will become a burden, which will affect our ideal pursuit and career progress.
Love is the witness of life-
Only love is the witness of life, and only the language of love is the most beautiful witness in life. Love is the whole meaning of life. It is because of love that love will win, and life will be meaningful if you ignite the love of others with your own love. Love is a selfless debate. Love is an eternal topic. Love is great. I can sacrifice my life for love, stay away from my family and give up my life for righteousness. As long as he is happy, I have no regrets. The seven fairies are willing to come down to earth for love, Romeo takes revenge for love, and Liang Shanbo is not afraid of the secular for love, which shows the greatness and selflessness of love!
Question 6: Debate: Love is selfless and incisive. When a person falls in love with another person, he will give everything (including life) for the other person. He can't give it, just because you haven't really fallen in love with the other person.
This sentence can't be excused. Your excuse is wrong.
Question 7: Argument about the argument that love is selfish: It is stated that the argument should be a debate about facts, not a discussion about what we should do. It is believed that human beings have selfish nature by seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages.
Start the first point of the basic argument, starting with love. The yearning for love is originally to satisfy personal desires. People can't fall in love with others, nor can they be perfect.
Our love only exists in novels.
Second, from the maintenance of love. Love is possessive and exclusive, and being kind to each other means keeping each other around. (Take jealousy as an example)
Third, from the end of love. It is selfish to abandon others, and it is even more selfish to hate from love. Argument: First of all, analyze the example of "Liang Zhu" to show that life-and-death love is selfish. Then take Duan Yu's pursuit of Wang Yuyan as an example to further illustrate that any love is.
Have a purpose. Explain that selfishness and noble selfishness can achieve a win-win situation. Finally, it is concluded that love is selfish in both development and form.
Positive argument: First of all, it shows that the argument is not about what love itself should look like (such as perfection), but this is exactly the starting point of opposition. Should start from
Considering this problem from a realistic point of view, it is only a manifestation of selfishness to explain again the so-called selfless example. The starting point of attacking the opposite, determinism,
Think that what should be considered is the result or what the result is.
Love is a selfish argument;
Love is a broad thing, including feelings and body. Love her soul and body ... and so on. Who wants to share their lover with others? Love is waiting, love is desire, love is loving her bit by bit.
Because I love someone, I think that person is good at everything.
Even if he did something very wrong, he thought it was no big deal!
Love him, and you will tolerate his many shortcomings.
Selfish people think he is the best.
Love in real life is very selfish. If you become selfless, it is not called love, it can only be a kind of promiscuous love!
There are many kinds of love. Love is just a kind of love. In real life, love is of course selfish. Because in the ocean of love, it is not easy to love someone, but one in ten thousand. I finally found someone I love and love. Would you like to share it with others? If you will, it is love divorced from reality. If you are willing to share your she (he) with others, then your love with her (he) is not enough to sublimate into love.
See how many people fight for love and jealousy. Regardless of love, people are selfish ~ who says he is selfless? Let me see your hands!
I don't believe in love that only seeks the process without seeking the result. I don't think it is true love if you really love someone and don't expect to get along with him day and night. (Of course, because of work and livelihood, it is another matter to want to get along with him day and night. )
Love is a kind of concern, a kind of worry, a kind of unfounded wild guess, a kind of selfishness that doesn't want anyone to get close.
Love is selfish. Love is the privacy of two people. This is a very selfish feeling. It is different from affection and friendship. Love only belongs to two people. Selfishness means that two people care about each other very much and want each other to belong to themselves!
Some people say that love is selfless, so please ask: "Why do you love someone?" The answer "want to be with each other" is to let the other person live with you for a lifetime. Although he is happy, he is possessed in one way. Possession is for oneself, and for oneself is selfishness. Self-preservation is the first law of nature.
Who dares to say that living is for others? You tell me what you are doing for others. You can't answer. It's just that you are saving your face and your happiness, .........................................................................................................................................................! !