If life is like seeing a composition for the first time 1, there is no broken friendship, no pure friendship, only meeting. There are too many fragile friendships in this world.
I have a friend who has known me for more than half a year. We parted because of a joke. Isn't this friendship ridiculous? I hope that the ideal world will have no earthly noise, worldly thoughts and fragile friendship. Only "friends walk together all their lives and don't think about trivial things." Without pure friendship, there is no ideal.
Rain, do you remember me? I am your dawn. After graduating from primary school, I have more than 50 memos in my hand, but one person is missing, that is, you. I miss you very much, but I dare not go to you.
I still remember that before, we laughed together, played together, played together and didn't care about anything. Because of friendship, sincerity and fate, we play together. Enjoy the moon with you, fish with you, and write with you.
It's very kind of you, dreamy and gentle. I am willing to languish for you. I will live up to you in this life. I am willing to study hard, to do what I want, and to be safe in the years to come. You still smile so sweetly that it breaks my heart.
I really wanted to play with you before, because I know you very well, because we both know each other very well, and nothing can hide from each other. We always report the same name with one voice, secretly comment on each teacher, tread water together under an umbrella ... miss the happy time before, if life is just like the first time.
Looking back on the past 500 times, we have such a good friendship. If we hadn't met first, we wouldn't be here now. Do you remember how we met? At that time, we were all very introverted and afraid to say a word. Every time I see my classmates go out to play, only the two of us stay in the classroom, and we can only laugh at each other and stop talking. Because no one dares to take the initiative to talk to anyone.
Silent rain is better than sound. That rainy day, the rainy day when we met. Occasionally, "I don't listen to things outside the window, just read sage books." Such a sound. It's getting dark outside, and people can't help shivering. I have no umbrella. What should I do? All kinds of consequences in my mind: running home and getting soaked? Call your parents and get home at 7: 00? Don't go back until the rain stops, and you can't see the road? The more I think about it, the more scared I am, and I have been shaking. It's you, holding an umbrella and lifting me up, crying and circling in the corner of the corridor. Running in the rain is another point of our friendship. At that time, we were stupid enough to say to each other, "We will be good friends for life." I hope so.
At this time, I made up my mind to come to you, and at this time, you also made up your mind to come to me. Smile at each other, we are still best friends.
May the ideal world always be like that.
If life is just like the first time, you don't have to draw a fan in the autumn wind. -Qing Nalan Xingde
If life is just like the first composition 2 Xun Ziyun, "If you don't learn manners, you can't stand, and if you are rude, you will be uneasy." Civilization and etiquette are the foundation of our study and life, and the arm of our healthy growth. However, being a civilized person and creating a civilized city is not a slogan. It needs to be implemented in life and everyone's efforts are needed.
"If life is just like the first time" comes from a sentence by Nalan Xingde, which means "If there is no beauty and indifference at the first time and no resentment later, then everything is better to stay at the first time." So make a good impression when you meet for the first time. If life is like an act of seeing civilization, an educated word and a kind smile.
If life is like the first time on the road: cars come and go, red lights stop and green lights go, obey traffic rules, drive in a civilized way, stop in a civilized way, and offer your seat to the old and the weak, in exchange for a sincere "thank you", you will smile like a spring breeze.
If life is like the first time in the community: actively participate in healthy and beneficial cultural and sports activities in the community, cultivate a healthy interest in life, and help the community write blackboard newspapers everywhere; Pick up the garbage that is not "harmonious" in the community; Write a proposal; Participate in the social "English corner" or "Tai Chi clan"; You will feel that life is extremely fulfilling. When you see your family clean and tidy, and when your elders cast admiring eyes on you, you will love your home and life even more.
Life is like seeing it on the Internet for the first time: don't visit illegal websites, and don't do things on the Internet that are not conducive to society, the country, others and yourself; Wouldn't it be best to use the network to sublimate our lives, broaden our horizons and enrich our knowledge? When we see separated relatives reunited under the power of the Internet, we thank the Internet. When we see someone walking on the Internet and making false statements, we spit on the Internet. But this is not the fault of the network, but the fault lies in the people who use the network, go to the civilized network, be civilized people, and establish a new style of civilized network. Can make our life more harmonious.
If life is like meeting someone for the first time: in public, "civilization" is even more obvious. Don't throw rubbish anywhere, don't swear, and leave a good impression on people who meet for the first time. Can you do it? In public, when you see violations of laws, regulations and ethics, can you do whatever you want bravely?
Friends, join hands with your family and friends, starting from the creation of a civilized city, taking doing civilized things as the fundamental method and becoming a modern civilized person as the ultimate goal, let's move forward together!
If life is like the first time, I hope it will be gentle and civilized for the first time!
If life is just like the first time, I have summed up a rule through many things, that is, the development of things is often not as good as people expected, just like a sentence by Nalan Xingde: "If life is just like the first time."
Many such things happened to me, and I have never forgotten them. Because some of them have become the laughingstock of the whole family, I feel guilty every time I think about them.
I remember an incident that happened when I was a child. It was a Saturday night. Mom and dad came back late from work, so I'm going to cook for them and let them praise me. In fact, my ultimate goal is to get them to buy me a toy that I have admired for a long time. I washed the pot first, then washed the rice several times, and finally added water, so I cooked it. I went to watch the TV series by myself. At first, I thought I would do well, because the steps were the same as my mother's, but you never know. Because it was late, I had a crazy day outside and fell asleep unconsciously while watching TV. When mom and dad come back, they are going to cook. When they entered the kitchen, they saw that the stove was full of overflowing water and the bottom of the cooking pot was burnt. Ask me what's going on and I'll tell you everything. Alas! Not only did I not get the compliment I wanted, but I was also quarreled. It is conceivable that toys are hopeless. I really regret why I didn't insist on falling asleep. If I don't fall asleep, the pot won't burn out, I won't make noise, and I won't be able to afford toys, right? If I knew this, I wouldn't be able to cook. It seems that no matter what you do in the future, you must stick to it, don't leave anything behind, and consider the consequences.
Another time, it was before the Chinese New Year. My brother and I like to play. We bought some firecrackers and are going out to set them off. But as the lighter was running out of gas, we came up with a solution to this problem. Click one person's first, and then put the other one on that one, so that both of them can ring. At first, I thought we could do this and it would be very successful. But his first few were broken, and we didn't find anything wrong. Finally, all our guns were on fire. I was just about to throw them away when the gunfire rang. Even though I'm not hurt, my hand still hurts. We were too scared to go home because our ears were a little tinnitus from firecrackers. We stayed outside until the weather improved before we dared to go back. We dare not tell anyone. It's really dangerous.
You never know! Nothing is better than the original idea. If life is only the first time, how can there be so many unpredictable things?
If life is just like the first sight, 4 "If life is just like the first sight, why is the autumn wind sad?" An accidental meeting may lead to a different life; A casual look back may find that life is different and beautiful.
There are encounters everywhere in life, and the first time I met a book is since I can remember. At that time, I used to smell the faint book fragrance, follow the pace of my predecessors and explore different affairs in the book; Everything comes from the first meeting, which can bring you the most authentic experience. The first encounter with the book seems to have washed the mind of the words, washed away the lead in the world and faded the bustling shell, leaving only the original love for the book and the yearning in my heart, just for the first encounter; Because of the meeting, I have a yearning for things around me. Life is like this, where can there be endless sadness?
The first encounter with books has cultivated our hearts and sublimated our lives. It is like a bright light to lead you to visit a different new world. Will the encounter between people lead to different lives? Will it make your life glow differently? Mr. Qian Zhongshu, a famous scholar and gifted scholar, met the translator Jiang Yang by chance. The first meeting of a golden couple, a gifted scholar and a beautiful woman seems to have made unspeakable promises to each other. By chance, they met love, which became a story circulated among people. An accidental meeting, they created a different life; Because of an accidental meeting, they lived a happy and beautiful life.
It would be great if life were like the first time. Su Shi's infinite nostalgia for his dead wife wrote an eternal famous sentence, "Ten years of life and death are boundless, and I never forget it." If life is just fixed at the first meeting, then everything has its own different forms. The beauty they had because they met for the first time sealed the gap between people; Open the window of the soul between people. All that is left in the world is the impression of first acquaintance. ...
When we meet a different life, a casual encounter will make us fall into an infinite fantasy. What chance encounter can give us is the self that has faded away from the lead and the arrogance. Just like when Xiang Yu and Yu Ji, the overlord of the first generation, experienced life and death respectively, if it weren't for that exciting encounter, how could it lead to infinite feelings and helplessness of "Yu Ji Yu Nai" and how could it leave a beautiful love? It all started with that meeting.
There are encounters everywhere in life, all that is missing is a pair of eyes to explore and discover it. Pay attention to everything, and encounter is all in it. Understand the vastness of everything in the encounter, taste the warmth and coldness of the world in the encounter, and let us meet different moments in the long life with the name and surname of the encounter.
If life is like the first time, I don't know how many sad and happy stories there are in just seven words.
Can't help but leave. The wandering heart is unforgettable and I can't touch it. It ended quietly in the precipitation of time, and my paradise could not be found in the evening. It's just an illusory sketch, ups and downs, but nothing can be done. Everything is gone, but it is so far away in July, with a wry smile.
Everything is fine in July. See you in July and leave in July. "A Dai" is the name I gave him. At first, he was shy and didn't like to talk much when he saw me. He looked a little silly. However, I am the kind of person who is naturally familiar. I call him A Dai despite his reluctance, of course, because of the first influence. I always like to ask him all kinds of questions, but I am a little surprised that I can tell the answers I want every time.
Then because of fate, the teacher asked us to sit at the same table. Three years at the same table is three years. I don't know, in these three years, I have been involved in a short period of my life, a short period, which is unforgettable.
He doesn't like English and math, but his grades are equally stable. He loves writing. Every time after class, I either bother you or watch him start writing with a notebook. I once asked him why he liked writing so much, and his answer was beyond my comprehension at that time. The article brought me what I sought, what I expected, and what I once owned. I'm different from him, the article is very messy for me, and he is also disgusted. Well, the expression on his face is obvious.
I hope it will continue like this, but I don't know that life can't fall in love at first sight, and there will be a world of difference, but I don't know that it will come so soon.
The time is set on June 18, the day when graduation photo was filmed. He still stood beside me like a quiet child. There is no superfluous expression on our faces. This is just a photo of graduation photo, but we clearly know that graduation is not far away. Once a classmate asked me: You two have such a good relationship that you study together in junior high school? I just shook my head, not really. Why? I know, deeply understand that your home is not here.
On June 20, the teacher asked junior high school students who were not in the original school to stand up. I, he stood up slowly. Didn't talk at that school, didn't ask. Everything is as usual, but something else is on my mind.
On July 2, graduation day, I didn't seem to say anything that day, so I was alone and silent.
After the exam, we didn't even say goodbye. I walked out of the campus alone, out of this place where we used to laugh.
If life is just like the first time, you don't have to draw a fan in the autumn wind.
Goodbye, A Dai deskmate.
In order to cultivate my interest in reading ancient poems, my sister recommended me an easy book this holiday. I was attracted by it as soon as I took it out. On the right side of the pink paper cover, there are seven simple and beautiful words: If life is like meeting for the first time. This classic book, like a woman fascinated by the countryside, hides sadness in her eyes, so I can't help holding her delicate hand and talking to her.
Every famous sentence in this book has a beautiful love story, and every story has a sighing ending. Its uniqueness lies in the combination of poetry and appreciation. The official history and unofficial history, as well as poetry and love history, can be regarded as reference books for reading poetry, but not just notes. It is precisely because of An Yiru's extensive knowledge that in the book, she can feel poetry and poets with her heart, and rely on her strong imagination to keenly capture the moments of youth.
"If life is just like the first time", how many people will say from the heart, I still want to be your friend, your bosom friend, be honest with you, treat each other sincerely, support each other, share weal and woe, and go through fire and water. I think we are still young now, and when we grow up and understand this sentence, we will have different charm.
"Gambling books have to pour tea. At that time, this was just a normal phenomenon. " Friends sit in pairs and chat, some light and some deep. People get old and panic.
"When the wind changes, the snow changes, and the dream of breaking the hometown fails, so there is no such sound in the garden." In the twenty-first year of Kangxi, Rong Ruo, who was only 27 years old, went out with his entourage. His bitter description described the scene of the fortress. In March, the weather is still snowy, and the boys are lying in the camp listening to the roar of the snow and homesick leisurely. Under the explanation of An Yiru, the place where Nalan Rong Ruo was at that time was clearly reflected in front of my eyes.
"There should be countless bitterness in the past. Ma Tiejin Pavilion, Qingzang Dusk Road. " Zhao Jun's story is familiar to us, but we didn't feel much before. We didn't really understand Zhao Jun's sadness until we read the book Zhao Jun's Complaints. Through the comparison between butterfly lovers and Yong Huai Bei, this paper sublimates the resentment between Zhaojun in my heart forever and his hometown-Zhaojun sleeps alone in Zhong Qing, not because she can't go back to her hometown all her life, not because she has no love with Emperor Han Xian, but because of her.
Poetry is sadness, sadness, joys and sorrows, and everything in the world. An Yiru, on the other hand, interprets the incomprehensible things affectionately and vividly, as if we were in the same era as the poet, savoring the joys and sorrows of his life, feeling his secular desires and experiencing his vicissitudes. Poetry is like an entrance, and An Yiru is the guide that takes us into the poet's inner world!
If life is just like the first time, if life is just like the first time, forget the suspicion and disputes, and smile indifferently, leaving only the first surprise, what a wonderful realm.
"If life is just like the first sight, what is the autumn wind sad painting fan? It is easy to change, and it is also easy to change. Lishan language is clear at midnight, and the rain bell doesn't complain at night. What's it like to be lucky in brocade? It is better than being a branch on the same day. "
Nalan's graceful words conveyed his good wishes to the world. How nice it would be if life only had the first time! It took 500 times to look back before this life passed by. It was amazing at first. That shallow smile, that quiet touch, rippled in my heart. Meet in the endless wilderness of time, two hearts collide in the still air, and both smile and bloom pure flowers in their hearts. That kind of excitement, that kind of germination, like dew after a long drought, is like a touch of sunshine in spring. At this time, the state of mind is amazing time, that is, there is a desire to win the heart, and there is a commitment to hold your hand and grow old with your son.
If life is like the first time, this beautiful state of mind and this simple feeling will make two simple hearts happy with each other.
However, after meeting for the first time, people have so many complicated emotions that they turn into a sigh of "May the same day". Amazing is no longer, but there are more suspicions and disputes. From then on, the original "if she turns her head and smiles, there will be a hundred spells" became "so she excitedly took out his oath" The original "self-protection" has since become "two or three virtues." At the beginning, we fell in love, but it became a parting, leaving only a sigh of "Tao is so changeable". If only life were like the first time!
Nalan's other words are like "seeing the sun through the clouds", "I am amazing at first sight, but goodbye is still there". He believes that when we meet again, the feeling of seeing each other at first sight can still sprout. The first sight is only a moment, such as fireworks, leaving only a beautiful moment. The beauty is gone, but the feeling that makes me feel heartbroken still exists in my heart. White clouds and pale dogs, however, when moved by the scenery, revisited the old place just to arouse the good mood of love at first sight.
Although time dilutes memory, beauty depends on it. The first sight of beauty played down the contradiction, calmed the dispute and brought each other back to their original happiness. A drop in the ocean can still leave a cloud of Wushan. Perhaps it was once melancholy, but all kinds of this process have witnessed the magic of life.
Tagore's poem "Life is beautiful like summer flowers and death is beautiful like autumn leaves" may be another interpretation of the first encounter and goodbye in life. Life can't be gorgeous forever, and then it will return to calm, but there are gorgeous figures in calm.
If life is just like the first time, this faint feeling makes people calm and warm. Maybe we should let go of our obsession, the past and return to the original beauty.
I hope that when I see you, you will still be as beautiful as ever.
If life is like seeing for the first time, composition 8 "Life is like seeing for the first time" is the work of writer An Yiru. Only in her works can I feel the intersection of classical and modern.
The life experiences of ancient poets and poets are rarely savored, but they are like a pot of mellow and refreshing tea with natural beauty. I really feel it.
In this book, what impressed me was that "people are there and the lights are dim". "Looking for him in the crowd, I suddenly turned around and the man was there, dimly lit." I mentioned this sentence from the beginning. This sentence is undoubtedly the most classic sentence of China. Some people think this is just a meaningless sentence, but I think it is full of philosophy.
This sentence vividly describes Xin Qiji's life. The recovered surprise appeared in the Lantern Festival, and the hibiscus never slept. Xin Qiji, also known as Xin Jiaxuan. At the beginning, he still had the ambition of "making the road fast, the bow is like a thunderbolt, the king is the best in the world, and his fame is not dead", but later it changed. Xin Jiaxuan proved himself with a jade case.
Anyway, one can't have good luck all one's life. If you don't grasp what you have now, looking back may be empty. Often a person doesn't know how happy he is to have it until he loses it; Often do not know how to cherish when you have it, and later regret it; Often when I finally lose something, I still think it is accidental or ignorant.
I once saw a micro movie "Lunch in Heaven". Movies are sobering. Don't not cherish what you have, but honor your promise when you lose it later. It was when his mother was alive that the son of the film said that he would cook a meal for his mother when he grew up. Finally, his mother died suddenly, and he regretted it and cooked a "paradise lunch" for his mother.
A person, don't put it off forever. When it is time to act, we should cherish the opportunity we have now, otherwise everything will be empty and the lights will dim. If a person does not know how to grasp it, after all, that pot of tea with endless aftertaste will lose its fragrance, and even the most enjoyable taste will disappear. Perhaps the worst result is that even the teapot will be knocked over. In other words, the lights are no longer dim and there is no sea of people. In the end, only myself stood in the dark. The so-called wahoo silver flower is just a decoration.
Finally, I wrote: a vast sea of people. When I suddenly look back, are we lucky enough to see the person waiting in the dim light? We often see it. The result is that when we finally understand who we are looking for, the lights are dim and no one is there.
Yes, luck is luck, not everything in the future. If a person can keep his promise after a long wait, he can save everything he almost lost and the lost fragrance.
If life is only like the first sight, 9 if life is only like the first sight, what is the sadness of autumn wind?
When I first saw you, I was dressed in white and stood in the distance calling me in a low voice. Since then, I have a hunch that my life is closely linked with you.
If, if that person is the same as the first time, it would be great. This is what you whispered when you swam with me across the broken bridge and came back to look me in the eye. At that time, I was too young to understand the meaning of your words and the sadness behind you. But you don't seem to want to explain it to me, but you say I'll understand when I grow up. Finally, when I grow up, I understand the meaning of this sentence and the deep sadness when you say this sentence. You are a strange girl in my eyes, a strange girl whose poetry never leaves my mouth. But why did you make it sad? Maybe you are. You always like to chat with me in your spare time, and I learned about your past in many small chats. Past events like gardenia.
Life can't cover everything. This is the most profound sentence I have experienced in a short time. It is also the philosophy that I want to tell you most. You never tolerate flaws. So, your life is not easy. Actually, I don't deserve to comment on you. Just because you are my elder, your life experience is richer than mine. Just like the first time I saw you. Wear only white clothes in summer. I don't know why I like white, maybe it's her dust-free, maybe it's her difference. Yunjin is also your love, but you haven't worn it. You said you didn't deserve Yunjin. Its peace is noble, gorgeous but elegant. You said that you are just a little woman and don't deserve the elegance of Yunjin. You have never left Yunjin's hometown, but you have not crossed it. Maybe Yunjin is sacred in your eyes. Just, don't wear it.
The traces of old age are shocking. When I see you again, you are not that peach-faced woman. What remains unchanged is the tone when you call me in a low voice. You never seem to cherish me like a child. But think of me as a bosom friend at your age. Swim across the broken bridge again, and you are like an old man who can see the world of mortals, whispering that life and death are not up to us. When I look back at you, I can see your sad back. When you got back to your residence, you went to bed early. In the confrontation of long and short interweaving, changing and unchanging, an era has passed, and generation after generation is getting old. I looked at the direction of your home. Sigh that life is too short, just like the dew in the morning, it can't stand the sunshine.
No matter which choice you make, you should not rely on a whim. Because I am responsible for the choices I made in those years. So, once again, I'm leaving you. I don't know why there is a sigh in my heart. I wonder what it will be like to see you again in three years. In my memory, you are still the strange girl who ignores poetry.
However, how many times do you meet in life? Who should I say hello to for the first time next time?
If life is like the first time, it is so important.
If life is like the first composition 10, every encounter is a reunion after a long separation.
Another Friday, another sunny afternoon. My mood is as bright as sunshine.
Sitting in the car, through the window, I saw a figure on the side of the road from afar. Vague figure, but I feel hot eyes. The figure is getting closer and closer to me and my heart is getting more and more excited. Finally, the car stopped and the figure left its position. As soon as I opened the car door, I saw grandma's face. Familiar smile and cordial greeting: "Come down quickly, what's the matter?" I'll get it for you. "I smiled, picked up my bag and got out of the car." No, I'll take it myself. "
Grandma went out to pick tea leaves and finally came back. She used to get used to it at home and didn't care. Later, a few weeks ago, my grandmother was going out to pick tea. At first, I didn't care too much. I thought, "Just for a moment, it's okay." Besides, grandpa can cook at home, and he can't do worse than grandma.
But the first week after grandma left, I didn't adapt. Go home on Friday, no one is waiting for me by the roadside. Because grandma was not at home, grandpa stayed in the shop. In the morning, when I was still awake, it was impossible to hear someone shouting "Niya, I'll go to the store first, and the rice is in the pot" downstairs. Because I have to get up early, I have to wash clothes, and I have to go to the small shop to watch the shop after dinner. I really realize that grandma must have a lot of housework at ordinary times, and I have to help share it more.
After the bus left, we went to the shop across the street and put down our schoolbags. Grandma said, "You are hungry. Have something to eat. " I nodded. "Miss me!" Grandma said, I rummaged through things. "Well, I did it." I took a loaf of bread and handed it to grandma as I answered. Grandma didn't eat, so I ate by myself. Then grandma said as usual, "What do you want to eat tonight?" "Whatever." "There are bamboo shoots and roasted fish at home at noon. Do you want chicken wings or chicken feet? " "Well, chicken wings." "okay. Oh! There are some small vegetables at home. Do you want to eat at night? " "good!"
There were people playing mahjong and poker in the shop, so I went home first.
Think of when I was in primary school. One morning, grandma accompanied me to wait for the bus in the shop. It was summer. It was early morning and the sun came out early. Grandma pointed to the sun and said to me, "You are like the sun this morning. This is sunshine. When it's time to study hard, your grandfather and I are like the sunset. If one day you grow up and live a good life, your grandfather's ashes and I will feel warm lying underground. " I smiled and said how grandma was so powerful.
It is right to do and cherish. We should cherish the present. It's no use losing regret.
If you only have one life, don't forget your initiative, so that you can achieve your ultimate goal.