But when the passion recedes, all the feelings are not as sweet as before, and the other party is a little impatient or helpless. You never talk about everything. This process is a long running-in process.
When you are sulking, keep a cold or depressed attitude, hoping that the other party will coax you and yearn for his care and warmth. But you will find that he either doesn't know your mood or turns a blind eye.
You told yourself more than once that you should keep a cold attitude, don't let the other side coax you, and forgive you instantly. However, a thousand times in my heart can't compare with his sweet words. Until later, all your emotions were caught by the other party, and your weakness made the other party master your fatal point.
Later, we suddenly woke up, only to find that unconsciously, we have lost ourselves and lived completely under the control of others. Sadly, I will find that everything is done by myself. Take medicine when you are sick, and cry when you feel uncomfortable. You are doing everything at home, changing light bulbs and repairing toilets.
The other party turned you into an omnipotent woman, which is his pride, but it is your sorrow.
Some people say that only crying children can eat candy, and crying women can be happy. Those who are sensible can only make people feel distressed quietly.
In this era, there seems to be a saying. Since ancient times, you can't keep your feelings, and you have to win the hearts of the people. Why is this happening now? Because of hypocrisy and vanity.
When you are used to saying nothing, others will really think that you are nothing.
If you are used to not disturbing others, others will think that you don't need to care and are strong enough to do anything.
Accustomed to tolerance, accustomed to being sensible, don't cry or make trouble when things happen, others will think that you won't have pain and sadness.
This is the saddest thing. You obviously need these things yourself, but because of that hypocritical understanding, you have turned yourself into a woman who doesn't need a man. Pretending to be invincible when you need pity is not what men need.
Not everyone can read your mind, and not everyone can read your mind. Who really cares about what their hearts want now? The realistic society, realistic thoughts, everyone is so conscious, why do you have to tie yourself up because of these things?
People are saying something comforting. Now the separation is for the next beautiful love encounter. There will always be people who know the cold and the hot. There will always be the right person at the right time. One day, someone will understand all your worries and the sadness in your eyes.
Is it possible? We can't grasp the future, so don't be too dreamy about it. If we live in the present, we must seize the present. Don't use those comforts to heal your wounds.
As long as you can be as wonderful as live high, make yourself stronger and exude mature charm. Then your marriage will come uninvited. On the contrary, the more you complain, the more unrealistic dreams you have every day. How does your Prince Charming appear every day? Then, you may never meet the right person in your life.
In fact, women should be both hard and soft, and don't let others control their thoughts easily. First of all, you are an independent person. Marriage brings us life, not shackles.
Women will cherish it more if they are properly spoiled and have a little temper, rather than being arrogant. Because men are full of male chauvinism in their minds, they like women who are feminine and unpretentious, like being dependent, and like letting you rely on them. Not the pressure your strength brings him. That kind of power comes from the suppression of the aura, which makes people tremble.
It is difficult to be a woman. You have to go to the kitchen, to the lobby, to fight for a mistress. Then all mistakes are rooted in women. If you ask me, the worst thing she did was to meet you and marry you.
This kind of thing will always be both sides. As much as you can do, the other party will do, even more than you. Of course, when you can't do it, you just want to enjoy it without asking for anything in return, then you can't ask others to do it well.
Selfishness is a terrible thing, which can make people paranoid and irrational. So don't let a selfish person disturb your life. Women should be loved, not married for shouting or for being a nanny.
In this life, we will meet many different people, some will teach you to be mature, some will teach you to be sensible, but some will teach you what love is, and he will understand your grievances and your strength! He will understand your weakness and your willfulness.
People who really love you don't need you to be so strong. If you have become invincible and powerful as a woman, what do you need a man for? So make yourself an innocent girl and make yourself weak. You deserve better pity.
Everyone wants to find someone who can shelter from the wind and rain and ask questions. But how many people are disappointed, they have already been forced into women by life. Accustomed to a person's life, accustomed to having a family and living a single life.
Don't pin all your hopes on others, you can live a wonderful life yourself. Take a trip and reward yourself with a small gift. When you are tired, you will go to Samui Impression to enjoy the delicious snacks in Meizhou. When you are bored, you will go to the seaside to see the sea.
The rest of your life is so long, don't live for others, and don't live what others want.
You are you, no matter ugly or beautiful, fat or thin, rich or poor, you are the only one out of print in this world.
The greatest happiness is not living like an invincible warrior who walks through thorns, but that someone has become an omnipotent general for you.
May you be light and fearless, and your clothes are full of songs.