After coming out of society, I am grateful for the strict education of teachers! Because society is far more complicated than you think, it has experienced the washing of mind and body, and it knows better than ordinary children that doing something wrong will pay a heavy price! In everyone's mind, what have you finally portrayed in these years? What's left? It should have different degrees of influence on future life.
Wrote many different stories. Looking back now, I can understand the teacher's good intentions at that time, because the educational concept is definitely different because of different time and space backgrounds. So when parents send their children to the teacher, they will say, "If you don't listen, help us. It doesn't matter. But the current educational background and environment are different.
After having children, I don't want my children to be educated like this. We won't pick up bamboo and rattan to attack children again, but, but, but you will know when you have children! In fact, there are many ancient artifacts at home, such as shirt stickers! So in this way, the burden of love and sweetness is endless.
Many successful athletes and soldiers still excel in business and other industries after retirement. Including many pianists, they all have a common feature, that is, they have received very strict education since childhood. They may not be talented, but very strict education made them understand when they were young.
When faced with great difficulties and boring environment, they can only solve them. As they grow older, they naturally learn to embrace difficulties and pressures and get a sense of pleasure (accomplishment) from them. Nowadays, education is always afraid of giving children more pressure and causing them to jump off a building. But in fact, when they grow up, they are all under pressure.
It was easier to jump off a building at that time. So the present "happy education" is very dangerous. If the teacher doesn't punish, the students will be fearless. Self-discipline is almost impossible when the mind is still immature. When I was young, I did something wrong and couldn't stand the teacher's punishment. When I grow up, I face a more ruthless and severe test of society.
It will be more dangerous! It is true that insulting or even committing illegal acts (such as sexual assault) under the guise of education is of course strictly prohibited. But the disciplinary mechanism for students must also be established. On the one hand, the punishment for mistakes is to establish a sense of rules from an early age. On the other hand, let him know that everything has "boundaries".
Otherwise, parents' endless doting will eventually lead to children's endless and unrestrained demands; The teacher's endless concession leads to children's fearless and even misguided.