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How to be a good role model for children? Experience 1: A friend traveled to Korea this Mid-Autumn Festival and saw many Chinese speakers walking in the street. There are many Chinese warning signs posted on the streets of South China, which seem to be specially set up to remind the people of. She said she was not feeling well.
When the computer is turned on, a set of pictures pops up: a Chinese mother who is traveling to Japan urinates on the grass with her child in her arms, a couple crossed the road without waiting for the traffic lights, and a young man stood in the middle of the road to take pictures. ...
Whenever I see China people traveling abroad, there are many uncivilized behaviors that are looked down upon by foreigners. I always think helplessly: Why do people who travel abroad don't know the customs and habits of the country they are going to, at least know the manners of others, and also take their accustomed ugly behaviors abroad to show to the world? This is a disgrace to China people!
I read an article today entitled "The most difficult risk to control". The writer is Wang Jishi, general manager of Shanghai Branch of Hongkong and Shanghai Banking Corporation. When he first arrived in Shanghai, many phenomena made him unable to understand, for example, playing golf without rules and dressing casually; There is no order in the car. When people saw the car coming, they rushed up and even squeezed the old, the weak and the sick. The sanitation of public toilets is very messy, and mosquitoes and flies are flying around in public toilets. Look at the wall, there are slogans everywhere, such as "it is everyone's responsibility to keep clean", "one small step, one big step for civilization", "the city is my home, and civilization depends on everyone" and so on. It has no practical function, it is only used to decorate the wall and go for a walk.
In order to cultivate colleagues' awareness of civilization and hygiene, Wang Jishi decided to pay special attention to bathroom hygiene. He asked the cleaner to stand at the door. Whenever someone comes out of the bathroom, the cleaner cleans it immediately, and everyone just cleans the environment every time they go in. Seeing that the bathroom is so clean, everyone is embarrassed to get dirty again. Over time, the bathroom will be as clean as new.
Seeing this, I fell into thinking: as teachers, what should we teach our children? What kind of example should be set for children? Adults urinate everywhere on the roadside, and children will follow suit. Adults litter and spit everywhere, and children will get used to it. These children will become new uncivilized citizens when they grow up.
I think schools should not only teach children knowledge and help them form the habit of loving learning and reading, but more importantly, cultivate them to form the habit of being civilized, hygienic and polite from an early age. Only in this way can children's behavior not be despised and criticized by others after several years.
How to be a good role model for children? Experience 2: My son has a new course: technology. He said that technology includes information technology and general technology. I have been exposed to information technology in junior high school, and general technology is a brand-new course. Because I didn't understand, I casually asked my son: What does general technology learn?
Last week, I finally got the assignment of general technology. After my son finished his homework, he showed me his homework and books together to let me know what he had learned. Actually, I'm not interested in this kind of knowledge, just curious.
After reading my son's homework, I foolishly praised his son's three-dimensional painting, which was very good. He had no ability to judge whether his homework was right or wrong. I took a photo with my mobile phone.
Woke up the next morning. When talking with his father about the general technology that his son is learning, he showed his father the pictures drawn by his son. Seeing this, the father immediately discovered his son's mistake. Homework requires three lines of sight according to the three-dimensional picture. So he looked down from question to question and found two mistakes. Let me remind my son to think again. If he really doesn't understand, please ask plasticine for help. I am ashamed and have no imagination. I am tired of doing this kind of problem. I really don't understand.
Before his son got up, his father had cut a three-dimensional picture on the exercise paper for his son to observe after getting up. Smart dad, using the rice cake in the kitchen, cut out a three-dimensional picture exactly like the exercise paper with a few knives. As soon as the son saw this picture, he immediately corrected his hunger mistake, but his father explained that his son had understood his mistake. The other mistake was the same, and it was corrected immediately.
Dad never checks his son's homework. This is a new subject for my son. I accidentally showed him the photo and my father found the problem. After the father found the mistake, he didn't immediately blame his son, but showed it to his son to let him know the reason for the mistake. I just didn't do it well.
This reminds me of the story of my son checking his homework in primary school. Whenever I check my son's homework and find a mistake, an impulse, I always want my son to correct it at once. For this matter, I have been accused by my father many times, saying that I have cultivated children's dependence by doing so. Even if he can correct all his homework at home, who can guarantee that he won't make mistakes in school class? Wrong, let him bear it himself! I seem to be deceiving myself by checking my homework and letting him finish it perfectly.
In fact, my heart is quite contradictory. I always want to find a high-quality homework for my son. If I think wrong, let him be wrong. I have always been entangled in my heart, and I believe that many mothers have the same ambivalence as me. After a period of adjustment, basically from the fourth grade, I can not accompany him to do homework and let him be responsible for right and wrong. Sometimes it's really hard to see the dazzling red cross on the exercise book. But, it doesn't matter, the wrong thing is to do it right next time! Always comfort yourself like this. Although the quality of the exercise book is not very beautiful, it is his own level, which makes me more aware of my son's weak links and prescribe the right medicine. This is the key. If you help your children treat their homework like this every time, then the exam will be as you expected!
I always remember a sentence in Yin Jianli's "A good mother is better than a good teacher": No matter what is the best management! In other words, on the way to parenting, it should be said that it should be suitable for children's management. There is no right or wrong in raising a child, only whether it is suitable or not.
"If a child has a fundamental problem, it must be a problem of family education; Just like the roots are rotten, it is useless for the gardener to take good care of the crown. " Obviously, the importance of family education.
Whether we are happy or not depends entirely on ourselves. If we have a strong and optimistic heart, even if we are on a cliff, we can laugh as brightly as summer flowers. No matter how miserable and wronged life has given us, we must make ourselves clear, so that a heart can bravely go on; In this way, our short life will be happy! Facing everything with this positive and optimistic attitude will affect my children. Practice and be a good example for children! Try to make our children better!
How to be a good role model for children? Experience 3: Every parent knows that he is the first teacher of his child and that "the power of example is infinite".
If parents are asked to talk about how to be a good first teacher for their children, it may be unclear. Some people think that the first teacher is to urge children to learn their lessons well. If the child doesn't understand, tell him and teach him what not to do. Children have shortcomings and mistakes, so we should criticize education. Children should be praised for their advantages and progress.
Of course, these are all things that new teachers should do. Is there anything more important?
As for setting an example for children, it is not necessarily clear.
First, decent and enterprising.
Most parents are decent. Today, with the development of market economy, the upper class is corrupt and the lower class's morality is declining. It's not easy to be decent. This requires a correct outlook on life and right and wrong. It is necessary to clearly distinguish the ugly phenomena in society, but also to dislike evil, opposition from the opposition, the exposure of the exposure, and the boycott that can be resisted. If someone pulls you into the water, you will never go along with it. This attitude should be clearly manifested in life, so that children can see and hear, which has a great influence on children.
It is reported that a child is riding a bus with his mother. The child found a thief reaching for someone else's purse. The child said to his mother, "Mom, that man is stealing someone else's purse!" " "Mom took a look at the thief and said to the child," Don't talk nonsense, that uncle is joking with others. "Mother said this because she was afraid of the thief's revenge, but she couldn't tell right from wrong, good from evil. What effect will it have on her children?
Progress is not only reflected in work attitude, but also in ideological style. Although parents are adults, they can't do without self-improvement. Parents' constant pursuit and progress have a great incentive for their children. Children will learn the true meaning of being a man from their parents' mental outlook.
Second, be diligent and self-disciplined.
Diligence is the foundation of the country and the body.
Diligence and thrift complement each other. People who are not diligent don't understand the hard-won material wealth and often don't cherish the fruits of labor. Every parent should inherit and carry forward the traditional virtues of diligence and thrift of the Chinese nation in himself and his family.
According to our survey, the family economy is relatively difficult, and the performance of children's diligence and thrift exceeds the family economy. This reminds us that the richer we are, the more diligent we should be, and the more diligent we should be in educating our children.
After painstaking research, Madame Curie, a famous scientist, extracted grams of pure radium from tons of asphalt oil residue.
At that time, the value of 1 gram of radium exceeded 1 ten thousand francs. Madame Curie's husband died in a car accident, and it was suggested that Madame Curie sell the radium to raise her children. But Madame Curie resolutely gave the radium to the Radium Institute in Paris for free. She thinks: "Being poor is inconvenient, being rich is redundant and annoying. It is only natural that children must make their own living in the future."
She often teaches her children: "Don't waste your time, work voluntarily and persistently like a silkworm, and always work patiently towards an excellent goal." Madame Curie demands herself and the next generation with the virtue of diligence and thrift.
A person needs a strong spirit of self-discipline to be diligent and thrifty, and any success and progress can not be separated from the spirit of self-discipline. Parents can be strict with themselves and persevere, and children will see it in their eyes and remember it in their hearts.
Self-discipline is the embodiment of human will quality. Both parents are strong-willed people, and they can ask their children to manage themselves. It is impossible for parents to educate their children well if they can't resist the temptation of the world of flowers and flowers and often relax themselves and keep their words.
Third, seek knowledge and think hard.
Hungry for knowledge and good at thinking are the prerequisites for people to broaden their horizons, establish a good knowledge background and creatively solve problems. People who are too lazy to study and think will not be creative.
If parents are such lazy people, I'm afraid it won't help if you tell your children to study hard and use their brains more. Because, in his parents, he can't see the power of knowledge and the effect of using his brain.
At home, I often hear some adults say, "I'm exhausted and bored to death." I'm too lazy to think about it. " Some adults think that the study stage has passed, and now it is the work stage, and they are indifferent to reading and learning knowledge. This not only affects their own development, but also affects the development of children.
Tagore, a world-famous writer, was expelled from school because of his poor study when he was a child. Tagore's father educated his son well and influenced his son with the power of example.
Every morning, my father wakes Tagore, and father and son recite ancient poems together. After breakfast, my father sat Tagore down, listened to his chanting quietly, and then went for a walk together to talk about all kinds of knowledge during the walk. Go back to the house and teach the children to read English. In the evening, the father and the daughter studied together, and they also talked about elementary astronomical knowledge with Tian as a book. Tagore's pursuit of knowledge is getting stronger and stronger. His father showed his children his books, and Tagore appreciated his masterpiece and wrote his first poetic drama.
Under the careful guidance of his father, Tagore became a world-famous writer through his own efforts.
We should be inspired by Tagore's father's example of "seeking knowledge and thinking" and be a parent who loves learning and thinking.
Fourth, be civilized and friendly.
Parents are civilized and polite, and children will learn to be civilized people like their parents.
Parents are friendly to others, unite relatives, friends, neighbors and colleagues, and are ready to help others. Children can also learn to get along with others and do more good deeds.
Some parents are not polite, they only care about themselves and are indifferent to others, which is very unfavorable for their children's growth. No one likes uncivilized and unfriendly people in society.
Society is like a big family. Civilized and friendly people are respected and welcomed, and people are willing to associate with them, which creates more favorable conditions for his success.
Regrettably, some parents say to their children: "Whoever hits you, you will hit him; You will scold anyone who scolds you. " After a child was slapped by another child, a parent led the child to the school to find the child who hit him, slapped the child in public and said, "Remember, son, that's it!" " "There could have been a better solution. Why do parents do this?
Fifth, democracy and optimism.
Parents should talk about democracy, as we wrote before. Parents should respect their children's independent personality, give them the right to participate in family affairs and give them the right to speak.
Parents and children have the relationship between education and being educated, as well as democracy and equality. Schools emphasize democracy in education and teaching, and families should also implement the spirit of democracy. If children talk about democracy, they will be more motivated. Talking about democracy is not all about children, but all about children will go to laissez-faire. One parent said, "Temper justice with mercy."
Optimism is a quality, which is a comprehensive expression of broad-mindedness, courage to face reality, correct treatment of adversity and adversity, full of confidence and sense of humor.
In the rough life, optimism is not easy and needs constant training. Parents' optimistic quality will be passed on to their children imperceptibly, which is good for life.
Let's explain 20 words first, and parents will have a richer understanding. Although there are only 20 words, it is not easy to really do it. This is the direction of efforts. The process of parents setting an example for their children is a process of continuous learning, continuous reflection, continuous adjustment and continuous development. I hope all parents are encouraged by this.