1. Parents should update their educational concepts: respect their children's personality and self-esteem, do not deny their words and deeds at will, treat their mistakes correctly and carry out appreciation education.
2. Pay attention to children's needs, especially psychological needs.
3. Learn the methods and skills of communicating with children.
As far as parents are concerned, they should show active listening to their children. The nonverbal behaviors that show active listening mainly include:
① Use positive eye contact.
(2) Show a nod of approval and appropriate facial expressions.
③ Avoid distractions.
4. Treat children with an equal attitude: the key to communication is not to judge the right or wrong views, but mainly to talk and guide.
5. Diversified communication forms and methods: adopt formal, informal, oral or written communication methods.
6. Strive for opportunities to get along with children.
7. Pay attention to emotional communication: First of all, we should respect and trust children as the basic principle and treat them equally in real life.
What should students do if they are tired of learning?
Students' weariness of learning can be adjusted by the following methods. First of all, we should encourage students, especially parents or teachers. Children should be more active and interested in learning. We should actively communicate with students to find out what causes the problem of weariness. Let students vent their negative emotions instead of hiding them in their hearts, which will eventually affect their academic performance. Let students combine work and rest, and don't be too tired, otherwise it will easily lead to lack of energy and affect their study. Efficiency declines and even students are tired of learning to let students go out to sit after study fatigue. Students' weariness of learning can be adjusted by the following methods. First, give more encouragement, especially parents or teachers. With verbal encouragement, children can be more active and interested in learning. We should actively communicate with students, understand the reasons for being tired of learning, prescribe the right medicine, and let students vent their negative emotions instead of hiding them in their hearts. It will eventually affect students, so the academic performance should not be too tired, otherwise it will be easy, because of lack of energy, which will lead to a decline in learning efficiency and even a feeling of weariness. Students can go out to play games, play table tennis and watch movies after study fatigue.
How to solve the problem of students' weariness of learning?
To solve the problem of students' weariness of learning, we should start from the following aspects: First, after in-depth understanding, go to the hearts of students and find out where the real weariness of learning lies. Will you learn or don't want to learn? Do you think learning has no future, or do you think learning is useless? Wait! Secondly, in view of the root of learning weariness, teachers adopt the strategy of putting facts and reasoning, moving with emotion, understanding with reason, and tirelessly inculcating. Cooperate with parents to convince them! Furthermore, teachers actively help students solve life learning obstacles and praise students' bright spots. Put aside the shortcomings first, and then help them overcome them when they are tired of learning! Finally, teachers should pay more teacher love and sprinkle it in the hearts of children who are tired of learning! Actively mobilize the whole class to unite children who are tired of learning! Let them feel the warmth of the class!
1, understand why.
Talking to children alone is because they don't like going to school, because their grades can't keep up, and they are under great pressure, but they still listen carefully in class, but they still don't understand enough about the contents of the textbook! Is it for family reasons? It doesn't matter if the family conditions are not good and there is no financial support, or if the parents don't care!
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If you are studying, give your children more time after class, because you must be a responsible teacher if you can ask such questions, and I hope your children can pick up their studies again. Fun! If it is because of family economic reasons, talk to the child alone, because the child's self-esteem is particularly strong now, and the child's consent should be obtained. If the children agree, they can donate money under the call of the class. If it is for parents, it is recommended that the teacher talk to parents. After all, children are born responsible. Busy business, family disharmony can't affect children!
Children don't like studying, which is not the answer. There may be many reasons. On the one hand, it may be necessary to know what children's own abilities are, because some children are really weak in learning and intelligence, always failing to learn well and always being criticized. Of course, they don't like studying. This is a natural reason. In the process of learning, did you help your child find the fun of learning? Although learning will be difficult and requires hard work,
Students are tired of learning. Is there any solution? Yes, the answer is yes. I think we can start from the following aspects:
1. Change the external environment.
There is a proverb that says, "If you are near Zhu Zhechi, you will be black, if you are near Mexico". This sentence illustrates the importance of cultivating children's external factors, and "Three Movements to Meng Mu" also illustrates this point. Children have poor ability to distinguish right from wrong and love to imitate everything. Under the influence of bad behavior, they are likely to imitate. For example, truancy, unfinished homework, and not attending classes. Parents are advised to screen their children's circle of friends, make friends and choose students with excellent academic performance.
2. Optimize the internal environment.
At home, we should create a good learning atmosphere. After finishing housework, children study and parents study. It can be the content of their respective fields, or it can be the learning content of children. Some parents don't pay attention to this, except watching TV, just watching mobile phones or playing computer games. Imagine that you are surrounded by excitement and your children are thinking hard. Can he study with peace of mind? As we all know, parents are children's first teachers. At home, words and deeds play an exemplary role. If parents are immersed in the fun of learning, it is not difficult for children to put it down.
3. Cultivate interest and lead the way.
In the case that children are tired of learning, parents must not force them, otherwise they will have rebellious psychology and cause greater educational mistakes. There is a saying that interest is the best teacher, and parents can easily and happily cut into the subject of learning. Such as telling stories, reading cartoons, listening to recitation, playing games or observing exercises. Turn the cold knowledge in books into lively and interesting activities, open the door of knowledge from fun, turn passivity into initiative, and stimulate children's enthusiasm for independent learning.
4. Set low goals and let children find self-confidence.
Parents should set goals for their children and measure their current actual situation. Setting a jump can achieve the best goal, and for him, it may be more executive. If his success is praised in time, he will be full of confidence.
The growth of children needs the nourishment of sunshine and rain. I believe that you are full of selfless love and scientific management methods, which will definitely make your children fall in love with learning, study hard and grow up healthily with books!
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In the face of children's weariness of learning, parents should restrain their nagging and scolding, which can only make children have greater fear and dislike of learning and school, which is often counterproductive.
Parents are the best teachers for children and the most direct learning objects for children. It is very important for parents to create a harmonious and cordial family atmosphere at home. Parents should adhere to principles and think about using appropriate methods instead of compulsory discipline. Starting from the dribs and drabs of life, inspire him to express his thoughts and feelings, solve contradictory things, and emphasize that his parents' love will not be reduced by one point, but we need to communicate this matter and guide him to take responsibility for his own life. At the same time, parents should continue to learn and grow and make progress with their children.
Generally speaking, solving the problem of children's weariness of learning mainly begins with cultivating children's interest in learning and building self-confidence. For example, if he does well in other aspects, he must be more sure of his efforts and let him know that everything will change as long as he works hard. Establish his self-confidence and butterfly effect from the side, and let him gradually become excellent. Excellence is actually a habit. Don't always pay attention to academic performance. Discover the child's bright spot and inspire him.
I have my own experience in these aspects and have the opportunity to communicate with you more.
Make friends with students. Only by becoming the best friends can we have a heart-to-heart talk about everything and get to know students. Only in-depth understanding can we solve the problem. All the problems are not problems. It's not that you don't have the ability to solve problems, but that you don't know what the problems are!
In view of different psychological phenomena, effective educational countermeasures are taken to alleviate students' weariness of learning.
Correct attribution-parents should help their children analyze the real reasons for "weariness", which may be the tension between teachers and students, problems with classmates, bad parent-child relationship, or learning difficulties. All these may lead to boredom.
Proper guidance-giving children too much pressure will cause their fear and disgust. At this time, parents should lower their requirements for their children and don't often compare their own shortcomings with the advantages of others. It is necessary to set appropriate learning goals, put forward reasonable requirements under moderate pressure, and make them easy for children to accept.
Clear goals and form habits-let children know their daily learning tasks, and it is best to list the learning schedule and study regularly, which will help children develop good habits of "consciousness".
Encourage and appreciate-parents should be good at discovering their children's achievements in learning and giving them praise to build up their confidence in learning.
Of course, each child's personality characteristics are different, each child's learning ability is different, and the situation of each family is different. I hope parents can implement and choose different family education methods for your children according to their own specific conditions and grow up with them!
Second, the main performance of weariness
Learning weariness is different from general learning weariness. Its main characteristics are that it has no interest in learning, regards learning as a burden, regards learning as a painful thing, can't engage in normal learning activities, often plays truant or truant, which will seriously lead to dropping out of school.
At present, high school students are generally tired of learning. Diagnostic criteria of learning weariness: losing interest in more than two-thirds of subjects and unwilling to study, being in a passive coping state and muddling through in learning; I don't care if I don't get good grades in most culture classes. Students with this kind of performance are also tired of learning.
Third, the main reasons for weariness
There are objective reasons and internal psychological reasons for being tired of learning.
The objective reasons involve examination system, educational concept, educational system, educational content, curriculum, teaching objectives, teaching methods and teaching evaluation, as well as the negative influence of family education environment, community education environment, social environment and mass media.
The most fundamental reason is that students' internal psychological factors play a decisive role. Specifically:
Lack of motivation
When students lack sufficient learning knowledge and demand, it is impossible to love learning, and they are often in a passive state. These students know how to study, but their views are negative and even wrong. They accept some misconceptions from family or society that reading is hard work and useless, and they can still make big money in business without reading. Parents with low education, self-employment and strong financial resources often mislead their children inadvertently, prompting them to be tired of learning and pursue pleasure.
Interest transfer
The growing interest of high school students is characterized by vacillation. As long as the interference factors are strong, it will shift. From the object of interest transfer, most students who are tired of learning are obsessed with games, videos and surfing the Internet. Some students who originally loved learning gradually abandoned their studies because they were obsessed with computer games. Those pornographic images are more harmful to students, ranging from depression to fighting against the law. Once students' interest changes from learning to unhealthy social activities, they are not only not interested in learning, but hate learning and resist learning.
Hopeless study
Students who are pessimistic and disappointed in their studies and have no self-confidence are also prone to weariness.
Some students have worked hard and sweated, but no matter how hard they work, they often fail, and rarely even feel the joy of success. Repeated failures ruthlessly shattered their enterprising spirit, prompting them to make incorrect attribution, thinking that they were born stupid, weak and mentally retarded, so they gave up their efforts and raised the white flag. This is a typical learned helplessness phenomenon; There are also some students who have worked hard and achieved what they think they can achieve, but they are often not as good as others, so they rarely get praise from teachers. After being neglected by the teacher for a long time, he gradually lost his self-esteem and became broken. Among students who are tired of learning, such students account for a large proportion.
For example, a sensitive female high school student said: She will do anything as long as she can stop her father from heartache and her mother from crying. But her parents don't need her to do anything, just hope that she loves learning as much as her cousin, and study hard! As for her, she thinks that the only thing she can't do at present is to like learning and make progress in learning. There is a female classmate, because she knows that her family's economy is not very affluent, but her parents do not hesitate to scrimp and save, and worry every day in order to let her go to a private middle school. She knows very well that the only way to repay her parents is to study hard and get good grades. However, she can't do this anyway. She works hard every day, but she can't. As a result, she is pessimistic and disappointed, and often has the idea of suicide and running away from home.
Emotional hunger and thirst
Some students often seek emotional compensation because of family changes, parents' divorce, emotional loneliness and lack of warmth, and learning is a hard thing, so it is difficult to play the role of emotional compensation. Therefore, they often get psychological satisfaction from other channels by making friends and pursuing excitement to make up for the incompleteness of family feelings, which also easily leads to the phenomenon of weariness of learning. There is another girl whose parents are divorced and live with her father, who is busy with business all day and has no time to take care of her daughter. Therefore, the student made friends with some irresponsible young people in society, fell in love prematurely and often didn't go home at night, which eventually led to the consequences of playing truant and running away.
Many examples show that parents are divorced and their children are emotionally incomplete; Family changes, children's emotions are withdrawn; Family education is rude and children are depressed. These can be said to be the fuse of students' weariness of learning.
High expectations
Many parents, anxious to see their children get rich, put forward unrealistic demands on their children. When their children don't meet the standards, they will take inappropriate measures. Some children can bear it, and some simply "can't touch the cold with a dead mouse", but in any case they can't meet the requirements and simply give up their pursuit. China Youth Daily once reported that Xiaoyu, a girl from No.1 Middle School in Tongling City, Anhui Province, had excellent academic performance from primary school to junior high school. After entering high school, her grades declined. Her parents had high hopes and took pressure measures. As a result, the student ran away from home because of the pressure of study and family.
Utilitarianism consciousness
Some parents' utilitarian thoughts are particularly serious, which are manifested in: first, vanity. Neighbors' children or classmates' and colleagues' children have better grades than their own children and are psychologically unbalanced, so they desperately ask their children to live up to their expectations. The second is adulthood. Strengthen children's adult consciousness, and ask children to regard learning as an adult's thought. Only after studying well can they be admitted to a good university and find a good job. In fact, the strengthening of these utilitarian concepts is difficult to produce the expected results, but it makes children insensitive and even bored. Because their psychology is not mature enough for adults, it is impossible to live according to the ideas of adults, and haste makes waste.
If children are tired of learning, they should be solved in the following ways:
1, stimulate children's interest in learning, and use various methods to make children fall in love with learning. For example, in the process of picking up children from school, we can ask them what courses the teacher is talking about, and they will want to tell you. For example, children's learning tasks should be properly decomposed, so that they can complete their daily learning tasks better and more easily, instead of making very distant and grand learning tasks that they are difficult to complete.
2. To improve children's other hobbies, children can't concentrate on their studies all their lives. Only by combining work and rest and having a wide range of interests can children have more motivation.
3. Participate in children's learning. We can use many ideas and methods to inspire children with some important and difficult knowledge, expand their thinking ability and let them learn to think.
In order to help students who are tired of learning correct their weariness, we must first correct their weariness. In the process of education, we should use the key of love to open a rigid mind, love for a long time, care more about and understand children who are tired of learning, and criticism is the first step. We should seek truth from facts to see the slight progress of children's advantages, give them a sense of success in time, and gradually improve their self-confidence.
Second, cultivate children's interest in learning. Interest is the best teacher who can combine students' specialties. In fact, there is no contradiction between specialty and study. Many facts show that students with special skills generally study well because they can influence each other. Because they are interested in their specialties, they are often praised and encouraged by schools and families, and their interests will be subtly complemented in a set of learning, so that students can learn, re-understand self-evaluation and form a good self-cognition.
Third, help students improve their learning ability and create a learning environment. In the process of teaching, we should always have blood test students in our hearts and create an opportunity for them to participate in learning extensively. When preparing lessons, we should understand the knowledge structure of blood test students, and give priority to 5 questions, problems, calculus, correction and counseling in the learning process.
Generally speaking, children's weariness of learning is mainly due to the lack of correct learning goals and motivation. Students don't know why they study. How to study? If your grades are poor, it will bring more pressure from parents and classmates, so you must correct your child's learning psychology.
Cultivate children's interest in learning, create a learning environment, improve their learning ability, and try to reduce their psychological and academic burdens.
What should I do if I am tired of learning?
First of all, dig the root of weariness.
Many people think that they are tired of learning, but they are not interested in learning. In order to overcome the weariness of learning, we should cultivate students' interest in learning. On the surface, this answer seems to be correct, but not interested in learning is not the root of weariness. Because it is human nature to be interested in the unknown. No sense of accomplishment is the fundamental reason why students are tired of learning.
If every teacher and every class can make students learn something, after going home every day, students can recall what they learned today and even test their parents. In this way, he will have a sense of accomplishment every day. This sense of accomplishment is also the motivation for him to continue his efforts, and he will become more and more interested in learning. In this way, children enter a virtuous circle of learning. Weariness will also be overcome.
Second, give students the feeling that "the teacher respects me"
Under normal circumstances, students who are tired of learning have a sense of inferiority in their hearts. His parents, relatives and friends all have opinions about him because of his unsuccessful study. In his own mind, teachers and classmates look down on himself, which keeps him from lifting his head. If the head teacher can make him feel that "the teacher respects me" in some way, it will lay a good foundation for future education and transformation. It can also help students overcome their weariness of learning.
Third, strengthen communication with parents.
With the close cooperation between parents and teachers, any child's development will certainly achieve much better results. How to help students overcome their weariness of learning? I think as long as teachers communicate with parents regularly, we will exchange views on what is good and what needs to be improved, and discuss what measures should be taken. The help of teachers and parents to students with learning difficulties not only needs patience and care, but also is a long-term and repeated process. Our efforts may not have obvious effect, but at least we won't let him fall behind. As long as he doesn't fall behind, there is still hope. Teachers and parents should pay attention to the scale of criticism so that children can feel the joy of success when they succeed. The endurance of students is far less than that of adults, but as teachers and parents of adults, when criticizing students, we should pay attention to occasions and scales, give priority to encouragement, and use less criticism and blame. Any progress made by students in their studies should be affirmed and praised in time, so that children can taste the joy of success, which can overcome students' weariness of learning.
Fourth, try to reduce the psychological and academic burden of students.
How to help students overcome their weariness of learning? For many students, teachers and parents often put pressure on students with wishful thinking, which is not enough. Parents also want their children to burn the midnight oil at home and even threaten students. If you don't get into college, it's over. Don't come to me. When children's psychology and ability can't reach and can't bear it, they will have a feeling of being tired of learning. Therefore, teachers and parents should try their best to reduce students' academic burden, combine teaching with the psychological characteristics of middle school students, and combine teaching with entertainment and rest.
Many students are tired of learning because they can't keep up with their studies. They are often criticized by teachers, accused by parents and despised by classmates. Therefore, teachers and parents, especially parents, should find ways to help students learn in time. If you are busy at work and have the conditions, you can ask a tutor to help students overcome their weariness of learning. Only when students improve their studies will they become confident, and then their interest in learning will naturally arise.
The solution to learning weariness is mainly to let children taste the joy of success; Try to reduce students' psychological and academic burden; Teaching through fun, combining work and rest to help students overcome their weariness of learning; Praise his talent, lower the standard, and gradually improve on some issues. Strive to enhance their self-confidence.