In today's society, in an impetuous society full of headline parties, it seems that as long as some key words, such as "gender discrimination", appear in the headlines of the media, a group of blind followers will comment on the major media. What I want to say is, those who follow the crowd, please ask you: "What is sexism? What is equality between men and women? " If your answer is only twos and threes, neither salty nor light, which is similar to the slogan of the title party, please read it before you speak!
In fact, I said that I may not be able to explain these two topics in detail, but in today's China society, these two topics should definitely not be hyped by the mass media in the form of heartless headlines. On the contrary, whether you are a man or a woman, you should understand the significance of gender equality in today's society!
First, the basis of equality between men and women is a clear understanding of the objective existence of men and women.
Because gender differences exist objectively, so do a series of physiological problems. Therefore, for different sexes, they do have different rights and obligations in all fields of society, and they are born with responsibilities, which cannot be changed. For example, gender determines that women should have a physiological period and should produce and reproduce, which is the obligation and responsibility of women and the special care of women in the period when these men do not have it; Similarly, as a man, his strength is naturally greater than that of a woman. Therefore, whether it is the hard work at home or the setting of social positions in today's society, it should be a man's obligation and responsibility, which is determined by his physiological structure.
From the psychological point of view, there are also some differences between men and women in psychological changes, thinking angles and ways of thinking. Gradually, these psychological differences will become a cultural difference exclusive to men or women, which has been formed step by step through the role of time since human civilization. The gender difference between men and women is also objective.
Second, the premise of rejecting gender discrimination and promoting gender equality is mutual respect between men and women.
If I ask you, what kind of behavior of the opposite sex is the most unacceptable to you? As men, some people may not stand women smoking, tattooing, smoky makeup and other behaviors. As women, some people may not accept men's unsanitary and male chauvinism.
As a man, I used to sneer at some behaviors of women, but with the maturity of my mind, I found that smoking, tattoos and other heterosexual behaviors are acceptable to me, but what has always been hard for me to accept is that women curse, especially women curse men, which I can't accept until now. Apart from the problem of upbringing, it is more important that this woman does not respect men. In my opinion, the premise of rejecting gender discrimination and promoting equality between men and women is mutual respect between different sexes.
This reminds me of something I did in college, and I have never regretted doing it until now. I remember, it was a sophomore sports meeting. As a student cadre in the news editorial department, I was called to take photos by a female minister in my junior year. It is difficult to track these photos in the scorching sun. The junior female minister is always dissatisfied with the quality and quantity of my photos and keeps criticizing me.
Actually, I can accept her criticism of my work. At noon, everyone was very tired. She called me, and I couldn't take it anymore. At that time, he asked me to return to the designated position of the college. When she was about to continue cursing me, I walked up to her and severely criticized her product without a word of swearing.
Until now, when I think about it, I always feel that I did the right thing. She thought, even if I have resentment in my heart, on the one hand, she is a woman, on the other hand, all the administrative teachers in the college are on the scene, and she also expected that I would not go too far. As we all know, this is the most unbearable thing for me.
After the incident, I deleted all her contact information. Similarly, my reputation among her classmates has completely deteriorated. Never mind, I don't care. My purpose is to let her know that as a woman, you should win the respect of others, especially the opposite sex, and don't put yourself in a position where you are willing to be discriminated against, but my bottom line is that I can guarantee that there is no dirty word when criticizing and refuting her. This is a respect for her.
So I think that gender equality lies in giving the opposite sex equality and even more respect!
Third, forget about gender, there is no gender discrimination, and men and women are naturally equal.
As for how to achieve gender equality, there are often many headlines in front of this topic in today's society. These headlines discuss too many trivial things, but fail to explain how to achieve gender equality.
For example, some positions, such as "strong woman", "male nurse", "female mayor" and "male midwife", and some identities, such as "domestic chef" and "male girlfriend". If you think about it carefully, the keywords in these titles themselves have certain bear discrimination. They have fixed a certain occupation and special identity in a certain gender, which undoubtedly led to their entry into film and television dramas.
Excluding the objective existence of gender (as mentioned in the first point), I think how to put forward gender discrimination and achieve gender equality requires everyone to forget gender. When there are only "business strongmen", "nurses", "mayors" and "midwives" in society, when some identities are not fixed on a certain gender, when all title parties and all media no longer regard these as gimmicks.