"I like the accurate understanding of natural science", which is your cognitive feature. This feature can easily lead people into a dead end.

You are good at science, so you like to make things clear. This is reasonable for you, just as it may be reasonable for people who are good at other fields.

For example, you have a small iron magnet. You two like to do anything together. You are used to it, and so is she. You go to the same school, work in the same company and work in the same department. Go shopping together and choose clothes together. You also talk about friends, have a wedding together, and choose the same community as a wedding room. After a year of marriage, you are pregnant. Out of habit, you asked her to check with you. She was very happy at first, and gradually she was reluctant. So you have two choices. One is to let nature take its course and forget it if you don't want to accompany it. The other is to ask questions. According to your thinking characteristics, you decided to make things clear. So you asked around. But the more you ask her, the more you avoid you. Finally, she left the company and moved out of the community, and never contacted you again. You just want to make things clear, but the result is not what you want. Well, let's think about it. Is there anything wrong with the pursuit of "understanding"?

In fact, the question you asked is black and white. Is there no other form of value except right and wrong in the real value system?

Take the above example as an example. Your girlfriend was willing to accompany you to the physical examination at first. You often do the same thing together. There is no right or wrong in itself. However, only you are pregnant and she is not. She felt abandoned by you. Anyone will feel this way, there is no right or wrong. So she secretly tried, but failed. The doctor said she couldn't have children. She feels more like a flawed person, especially in front of you. She alienated you because she didn't want to affect the mood of your expectant mother and because she didn't want to hurt herself. You are stubborn. Seeing that her privacy is about to be exposed, she finally has to choose to leave you.

Who is right or wrong about the whole incident?

She shouldn't keep it from you. You shouldn't probe into her privacy?

No one is right or wrong. Only the application of the spirit of physical science in the field of non-physical science has caused the separation of a pair of good friends.

There are all kinds of laws in the world, all of which have their own fields of application. A certain law is true in its own field and needs to be re-examined outside this field. Your spirit of exploring natural science is worth learning, but it is not the only truth.