Qing Qu Jun saw a male friend describe his first night experience like this:
"When I slept with my girlfriend for the first time, out of curiosity about female genitals, I couldn't help but look at the mysterious triangle that fascinated men. However, when I saw my girlfriend naked, I froze. I can't believe her skin is white, but it's too dark here. My desire suddenly disappeared, because I once heard that only women who have frequent sex will become very black. I don't mind that she is not a virgin, but if she is a promiscuous woman, I can't accept it anyway. I'm out of my mind now I don't know if hearsay is credible. Is it really because of promiscuity that women turn black? "
I believe many men will have similar experiences. According to their own life experience, young men take it for granted that the color of adult women's private parts is the same as that of little girls, so when they have sex for the first time, they will have a psychological gap and even a sense of disgust, because they will have all kinds of unwarranted doubts about their partners because of lack of knowledge.
Many people associate the color of women's private parts with virginity, frequency of sexual life, masturbation and leg cramps. Many people are convinced of the rumor that frequent sexual life will make female genitals black. Of course, these are all hearsay, take it for granted.
So what does the color of women's private parts have to do with?
The answer is sex hormones. At the beginning of adolescence, with the increase of sex hormone secretion, women gradually began to have secondary sexual characteristics, and the color of private parts gradually deepened and darkened from pink light color in girlhood, with smooth and full appearance and more wrinkles.
In a woman's life, the color of private parts is not static, and it will deepen or lighten with the change of hormone level.
For example, during pregnancy and lactation, women's private parts will become darker, and the delay of nipple areola will also deepen, which is due to the higher hormone level at this stage. After the baby is born, the colors in these places will become lighter again. Professor Ma Xiaonian once introduced a case in which a 5-year-old boy went to see a doctor because his breast developed and his areola became black after stealing his mother's birth control pills.
Of course, the color of female private parts is also related to family inheritance and race.
It needs to be emphasized again that under normal circumstances, the color of women's private parts has nothing to do with dressing habits, friction, cleaning habits and so on. Many people think that frequent sexual life will lead to the darker color of women's private parts, but they just take it for granted that long-term friction has caused pigment deposition, which seems reasonable, but it is unreasonable. People's hands, arms and elbows are exposed and rubbed for a long time, but they are not darker than private parts.
Why do we care so much about the color of women's private parts?
In fact, the color of men's private parts will change after puberty, not much better than that of women. But why do people only care about the color of women's private parts? This is largely due to the double standards held by men and women in sex, which put forward harsh requirements for women. Private parts are also dark, but women have to bear more pressure from moral and social evaluation.
These factors have influenced women's evaluation of themselves. Many women don't recognize their private parts, and most think they are dirty, ugly, bad and shameful. These women tend to have the same attitude towards sex, which will affect the quality of their sexual life with their partners, and their sense of self-identity in real life may be even less confident.
Qing Qu Jun suggested that women should observe their private parts more, get rid of shame slowly, and learn to appreciate and know their bodies. The same is true for men. A mature man will definitely appreciate his partner's private parts. If you love her, please love her private parts, no matter the color or shape, they are beautiful. Isn't it ridiculous if a man claims to love his partner and wants to have more sexual relations with her, but hates her private parts?
Of course, if it is based on aesthetic connection, or just want to see more tender private parts, then Qing Qujun has no objection, but we must find a safe and effective way, and Qing Qujun will introduce it separately in the future.
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