How to make friends after work? The second part introduces the methods of making friends.
This article will tell you how I feel about joining non-profit organizations and making friends over the years.
It is an accidental coincidence that you start making friends by helping others after work.
The turning point of making friends was that I joined a non-profit organization on 20 14. At that time, people kept asking me, are you free? (Is it stupid? ) What did you get? Why do you do public welfare? What's your purpose? At first, I didn't know how to answer, yes, for what? I'm still confused about my career development. There are so many things to do every day. What qualifications are you to help others? At that time, I didn't realize that joining a non-profit organization can not only give love, but also make good friends.
After doing public welfare for several years, I can probably answer the above questions. In fact, I really didn't feel anything when I first joined a non-profit organization to serve. My friend asked me to join, so I joined. However, after continuous service, I feel happier. I made more friends and saw a world I had never expected before. Although I am serving others, in fact, I am the biggest beneficiary when my partners and I are carrying out various service activities.
People who can join non-profit organizations to help others generally have the same three views. In such an organization, you can better find friends with the same frequency. Doing public welfare is not only doing things, but also creating people. It was a blessing for me to have such an opportunity.
Let me talk about the social organization I joined first. 20 14 joined the Shenyang Member Management Committee of the Lions Club of China, mainly providing poverty alleviation and elderly assistance services; 20 15 joined the fir tree program in the first half of the year to serve the growth of college students. In the second half of 20 15, he founded his own community organization Magic Bean Plan, which mainly provides growth and development services for teenagers.
I really can't imagine what my life would be like without these social organizations. In the past three years, my life has been completely integrated into these organizations. If I hadn't started the service, I wouldn't have met those who pushed me (see the previous article and thank the person who pushed you behind my back); If I still shrink back in the old circle and live a life of three points and one line, I can't find the way forward; If I hadn't met you, I really didn't have the motivation to stick to my dream.
Look at it from another angle. Doing public welfare only means that you open your own boundaries and are willing to establish a broader cycle with others. You give your care and love to others, others pass it on, and then give it back to you through more people, forming greater strength and love. All you have to do is keep giving and waiting. Of course, public welfare is not blind altruism, you don't need to give up yourself. What you have to do is to do your best, give full play to your advantages and establish a virtuous circle between you and others.
If you have the opportunity, you can choose the non-profit organizations around you to serve, regardless of the form, but you will meet more and more fellow travelers and make more intimate friends on the road of non-profit service.