Winning or losing is not important, but participation. It means competition or competition. It is important to participate in the competition and experience the process of the competition, rather than paying too much attention to the results. Focus on participation. The next sentence is: focus on meeting you. What matters in life is the process. If you have participated, winning or losing is not important. What matters is the people you meet in the process.
Cherish fate:
Almost everyone has heard a saying: "You can achieve your ultimate goal only if you don't forget your active mind", but few people know the next sentence: "It's easy to get it at first, but it's always difficult to keep it". Actually, the past is the past. If we can leave one or two things worth keeping, people will probably learn to let go of the past, be kind to the present, cherish the present or expect better people.
It is enough to have a bosom friend in life. Maybe some people have bosom friends, and maybe some people don't. Therefore, bosom friends are hard to come by, because they are in tune with others, and even more because they are not met. So learn to cherish fate!