"It is better to marry well than to do well" means to emphasize women's independence and independence from their husbands. This is not only a respect for women, but also a contribution to society, and it is also a requirement and embodiment of social development and progress. The specific views are as follows:
First, forcing women to do as well as men is disrespectful to women. Some people always emphasize unilaterally that "women can do what men can do", which is a serious violation of the law of human social development. Women are women because they are physically different from men. Let women do the same job as men, ignore their physiological characteristics, unilaterally demand equality between men and women, and let women face the cruel competition of society like men, which is precisely discrimination against women.
Second, there is nothing wrong with marrying well. It is understandable that women want to marry well just as men want to marry well, which is the embodiment of equality between men and women. Both men and women have the right to choose their own way of life freely. Women are free to choose a "suitable" lifestyle, which in itself reflects the improvement of women's social status.
Third, in daily life, if women do as well as men, they will be more tired than men. Now both husband and wife have jobs, and both have the obligation to earn money to support their families, which has become a common phenomenon. However, this, this just contains the factor of inequality. In real life, women are as busy as men when they are pregnant, have children, take care of children and do housework.
Fourth, proceed from reality and face up to the objective reality of gender inequality. If a man "does a good job" and a woman "marries well", what's wrong with having a good woman as a "wife" behind a man? In fact, in developed and relatively developed countries such as Europe, America, Japan and South Korea, women's good marriage is a great contribution to the whole society.
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How do women improve their status at home?
1, we must be strong on big issues. Although women have always regarded gentleness as virtuous, the occasional strength does not mean that we are not gentle. We can ignore the small details in life. If it involves some decisive issues that affect your long-term life or are potentially dangerous, you must make your own decisions. Even if this decision is wrong, just pay for it yourself, because paying for your own mistakes is more acceptable than buying others' mistakes.
2. Learn more and charge more. After getting married and having children, women, especially stay-at-home mothers, sometimes lead a more casual life. Eating, drinking, sleeping, taking care of children, doing housework and cooking have almost become the whole of life. Although such a woman plays a pillar role in the family, she may not be able to be her own master in many cases, and she often has nowhere to talk when she is wronged. So you should continue to study hard, at least it will help you when you come back to work.
3. Have a certain amount of savings. If a woman has no money in her bag, no money in her card and no money anywhere, then she has absolutely no position to wait for her family to spend money everywhere. I always feel inferior when I want money from others. I always look like an old man when others give me money. Even if the money is spent in this family, you can only bear this grievance silently.
No matter how much, there is income. Even if there is no chance to go out to work, there must be more or less income, even if it is a few dollars a day. These small amounts of money seem insignificant, but you don't have to ask questions when you want to make a decision. I hope someone will pay for your decision. For example, you want to learn to drive, for example, you want to buy a certain brand of bag.
5. Make good use of your leisure time. Although I can't go out to work, I always have leisure time. There may be several hours of leisure time every day. At this time, we must find ways to accumulate wealth. With money, there is decision-making power and status. Unless your husband loves you very much and respects you unconditionally in all decisions, many ordinary small families still have the right to speak.