? I read a lot of other people's tweets about universities, some of which are schoolmasters. How to get all the certificates easily, and then study hard in different environments; Those who are sociable, participate in various societies and student unions, are overwhelmed by daily activities, and are easy to mingle with teachers and classmates; Those with strong ability can make money in many ways, such as writing, taking part-time jobs, and earning a little surplus after supporting themselves every month. I used to envy such people, and I yearned for and planned my high school college life with high morale. Now I will still work hard in these directions, but I am also working hard to learn and accept my public life.
What I want to talk about today is the difference between a freshman and a sophomore. The mental maturity brought about by a year's change is enormous. I don't know if you have similar feelings.
When I was a freshman, I was full of chicken soup. I believe the slogan of "After finishing high school, the university is beautiful" and all the slogans of "As long as you work hard, you will get something". I remember the first time I came to a strange city and walked into the school. I told myself along the long camphor avenue: Great, I can start a new life. I must not let myself down after working so hard for four years. The idea at that time was simple, to have a good result. If you are lucky enough to meet someone you like, that's the best. You have to live a complete day by yourself before fate. Many things in my freshman year are my first attempt: the first time I carefully chose my favorite club, the first time I stood on the stage to run for student union cadres, the first time I participated in volunteer activities, the first time I worked part-time, stayed up with my friends for the first time, and even had a drink for the first time. Because I was a clever boy in the traditional sense before I went to college, I simply opened my eyes to know the new world. Busy days always pass quickly, but such days are also the easiest to forget to think.
Sophomore stopped a lot, no longer want to stay up late to catch up with the drama, no longer muddle along, and began to be quiet unconsciously, without deliberately keeping myself away from the lively activities, but it was as if people would suddenly grow and change at a certain node. Seriously study professional knowledge, start to consider problems selectively, become long-term, and start to haggle over the allocation of time, not wanting to waste too much on others. When you enter the second year of high school, you can obviously feel the changes of people around you. Students began to "birds of a feather flock together", teachers stopped trying their best to instill more activities with rich ideas, and parents even began to discuss the topic of marriage with you.
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? Maybe my experience is a little extreme? The maturity of a freshman and a sophomore may only be in a place that everyone knows. It's not that I'm dissatisfied with college life. I am doing my best and have no regrets, but I really want to share the college life of ordinary people. Freshman and sophomore basically laid the foundation for your whole college career. I envy the campus experience of those great gods, but most people are like me. We can only try our best not to regret it. If you haven't entered the university, I hope I can give you a vaccination. The beautiful love you are looking forward to may not appear after graduation. University is not a place of pure feelings. In this materialistic era, college students are not very simple. Long live the teacher's words. Don't be stupid enough to believe it. You should know that a degree certificate in a university is more valuable than a diploma. You can read a lot of books according to your own interests, but it will change you very little, at least in college. You can't be so poetic; You can take part in many club activities, but don't follow the crowd. Give up when you start to think those activities are meaningless, because they are really meaningless.
I am not a pessimistic person, but a person who knows clearly in many cases.