I have read the book of Yin Jianli, a well-known education expert before, which has benefited me a lot and made me insist on parent-child reading every day. She wrote in the book: "Family education is very similar to a sports competition: a marathon. At the beginning of the competition, if a person is far ahead, we generally don't think he will win the ranking because there are too many variables in the future. But at the end of the game, the leader has a good chance to win the ranking. This is especially true for family education. It pursues the success of children after more than ten years or even decades, such as very critical college entrance examination results and a happy life that is more important than college entrance examination results. "
In an era when the Internet is so developed, there are many things that attract children. Now in addition to offline training courses, there are various online courses, exquisite animation effects and interesting characters, which attract the baby at once. If children's basic reading habits are not developed, they will easily be tempted by these temptations, and may not concentrate on reading, and may stay at the level of shallow reading. In fact, on the other hand, we adults, too, may not have settled down to read a book for a long time and get used to fragmented reading on mobile phones.
Because reading can't produce any visual effect in a short time. It is better to calculate early, and we can test the results immediately. There are too many items to choose from, such as English, mathematics, art, thinking training and so on. Reading is not just needed but ignored by parents. Parent-child reading needs long-term persistence to form a habit.
Some picture books without words, parents simply can't start. When I was a baby, I was not interested in watching it. It is not as good as audio and video to attract babies. Over time, parents lose patience. In addition, reading this thing seems to have little to do with the later primary school. In the early stage of primary school, babies who have attended various learning and training classes have an advantage.
I went to a primary school teacher's lecture before, and he told us that reading is the foundation, because if you don't read and don't understand simple words, you may not even know math problems, let alone solve them. But at present, in many families, parents may be holding their own mobile phones, and children are the easiest to imitate. He thinks that mom and dad are looking at the mobile phone anyway, so I can look at the mobile phone. At present, children's games are very quick to get started.
Because it has always been a maternal and child category subdivided by the e-commerce industry, I am familiar with the maternal and child platform and have contacted many treasure mothers. In fact, they recognize the matter of parent-child reading, but there will always be such problems when it can be implemented. When my baby was 2 years old, I found a platform, Youbei, to study. Their idea made me agree. Parent-child reading is a process in which parents learn to tell a picture book and a story, then accompany their children to read, and then transition to reading by themselves.
Take my daughter for example. At the age of 2, I began to officially contact picture books. At that time, she was more interested in reading books and cave books, especially color picture books. Some people may ask, what books should I buy first? In fact, there is no difference between good and bad types of picture books. Children love to listen and read, and will stay with you. This is a good book. For parents, it is enough for the baby at this stage to have this awareness. Don't choose a book with many words, just tell a story, and finally summarize the central idea.
Looking at the picture book carefully feels almost 2 years old, but it also depends on the child's development level. A little later is not a big problem, mainly because of the reading habits between parents and children.
Even parents should take time to read at home every day, even if they are pretending, they should stick to it for a few minutes. Parents can participate in some reading activities themselves, and many reading communities can participate at present. You can also take your children to the library and bookstore to feel the reading atmosphere. Buy a bookshelf for children and set up a reading corner to make books a necessity like toys and snacks. Under the influence of the surrounding environment, children will naturally want to study. This is a good inheritance of a family atmosphere.
I did something that backfired before. In order to exercise my daughter's language expression ability, I told this picture book several times, hoping that the child would retell the story. My daughter is very annoying and refuses to cooperate. At that time, my husband told me that she must say it. We are all a little eager for quick success and instant benefit. As a result, my daughter couldn't relax after listening to the picture book, because she thought I would have requirements and need her to repeat them, which backfired. Later, I slowly discovered that in normal communication, she would say something in the picture book, so in reading, we must respect the child's preferences. Some parents may tell stories and like to ask their children. What does this story teach us? This problem of refining the central idea. The average child will be more disgusted. In fact, as long as children are willing to sit down and read, everything is fine.
About 4 years old, you can slowly penetrate children's reading. Children's independent reading is the most important accomplishment. Another is that primary school was not hard. When parents read picture books every day, they will naturally "refer" to some simple words. If they mention more words, children will naturally remember them. Remember not to call a spade a spade. If the child rejects at first, don't point fingers. Actually, reading is everywhere. When you go out every day, you can refer to the words on billboards, license plates and product packaging to communicate with your children. Children who read too much can make their own sentences.
Reading should make children feel happy in order to persist. Every child has individual differences and different hobbies, as long as he is studying. The purpose of reading is to accumulate, and it will definitely break out in a certain period of time. Be patient with children and wait for flowers to bloom.