This is a sensitive topic for all of us. I think you may already know what it is. By the way, it's about heterosexual intercourse. (1) What is puppy love? Let's take a look at what "puppy love" is. The so-called "puppy love", as the name implies, is puppy love. Middle school students' falling in love belongs to puppy love, mainly because the economy and life are not independent yet. Love is not divorced from reality as some of our classmates think, but a castle in the air. We need economic independence, self-reliance in life and the ability to take responsibility. It is too early for us middle school students to take responsibility for love. Furthermore, every stage of a person's life has its main task, and our main task in middle school is to enrich ourselves and lay a good foundation for the next stage of life. And love is the preparation for marriage, and it is our life task after economic and life independence. Eat your food bit by bit, and live step by step, don't you think? If the apple is picked too early before it ripens, then we will never realize its intoxicating fragrance when it ripens.

Some people say puppy love is a fruitless flower. Not only that, puppy love also has a great influence on the study and life of middle school students. It is very helpful for teenagers to realize the harm of puppy love, sound the alarm at all times, prevent delaying the opportunity and avoid improper love. It is generally believed that puppy love harms teenagers' study, life and physical and mental development from the following aspects:

1. Puppy love is harmful to the physical and mental health of middle school students. First of all, from the health of middle school students, because of puppy love, students often fall in love and spend most of their time in love, thus ignoring physical exercise. Middle school is a period for students to grow up. With the development of various organs of the body, corresponding physical exercise is needed. Otherwise, it is prone to diseases such as weak heart sound, insufficient blood supply and dizziness. Puppy love students lack physical activities, so the number of people suffering from this disease is much higher than other students. On the other hand, students who fall in love are emotionally unstable, impulsive, emotional and have poor self-control, which often leads to anxiety, irritability, doubt and jealousy. Under the influence of these emotions, it is easy to produce symptoms such as loss of appetite, general weakness, dizziness and nausea. Over time, diseases such as digestive tract diseases and hypoglycemia will appear. From the psychological point of view of middle school students, puppy love students have an extremely complicated psychological process, during which there are both inexplicable and unspeakable joy and unspeakable depression. The love of these students is under the pressure of parents and teachers, the students' "white eyes", the picky and deliberate criticism of lovers, all of which make the students with poor psychological endurance unable to maintain normal and stable emotions. At the same time, it is difficult for middle school students who are puppy love to meet their lovers after class, but they can't help but miss each other. At this time, some students often indulge in fantasy, seeking comfort and satisfaction in fantasy. Then came the idea of being tired of life; Some students put aside the morality and responsibility of society. Because of these painful feelings and unhealthy thoughts, these middle school students' moral sense, life values and world outlook are seriously distorted.

2. Puppy love greatly interferes with middle school students' study. Puppy love has a great influence on middle school students' study. Thousands of examples tell us that most students who are addicted to puppy love are moving along the track of "feelings plummeting and grades plummeting". However, some middle school students who yearn for or fall in love with each other think that as long as two people in love have the same interests, it will not affect their study. They even summed up a formula called "male+female = the combined force of two people". A large number of facts show that this view is naive, chaotic and wrong. This is because the puppy love of middle school students is both a sunny spring and a biting winter; In the river of puppy love, there are often waves piled up, resulting in whirlpool-puppy love middle school students often encounter jealousy and failure! All this is an "overload" for middle school students who are inexperienced, weak-willed and impulsive. Under the overload of puppy love, which almost crushes all young minds, it is very natural and common to have no intention to study and have a decline in grades.

3. Puppy love may lead to crime. According to the investigation results of relevant departments, middle school students' early involvement in love will also bring social instability. The occurrence of social phenomena such as hooliganism, fighting and theft is largely related to students' puppy love. Middle school students are angry and unwilling to suffer easily, especially in front of their girlfriends, and even more unwilling to lose face. They often lose their minds because the other party said rude words and made indecent moves to their girlfriends, and even fight with others, display their skills and even commit crimes. On the other hand, middle school students still need material consumption in falling in love, but they have to rely on their parents or other people financially and cannot stand on their own feet. During a "marathon" relationship from first love to marriage, they need a considerable sum of money. The little pocket money that parents can provide often fails to meet the demand. In this way, middle school students can easily go astray, induce the idea of stealing and robbing, and finally go to jail.

Above, we talked about the consequences of puppy love among middle school students. Generally speaking, puppy love among middle school students has a wide influence and great harm. Young students should cherish their youth, don't set foot in the field of puppy love prematurely, and don't be confused by the impact of the opposite sex. What is especially needed is reason and calmness. Remember: "puppy love is a bitter fruit wrapped in sugar!" " " .