2. If you don't eat the bitterness of learning, you have to eat the bitterness of life. Reading is an investment with the lowest life cost and stable income.
3. When you are excellent, you meet all good people, because bad people are afraid to get close to you; When you are weak, you meet bad people, because good people don't want to associate with you. These can't be blamed on others, but on the attraction of your magnetic field energy.
4. Don't punish yourself or your family with other people's faults. Never go home and lose your temper with your wife and children because you have been wronged and suppressed outside. This is the most incompetent and filthy behavior. Don't forget, be kind to your family and repay you with infinite love and tolerance! And you cater to others outside, and all you get is ridicule and irony! The gain and loss is up to you!
Don't envy others just because they are glamorous. Maybe, they are not as relaxed as you. People in high places are in more trouble than you think. It's too cold at the top, only people at the top can understand it, but there is no solution, only a sigh! All the glamour and flowers and plants can cover the eyes of outsiders, but they can't cover up their real frustration and giving up.
6. Some people attribute the failure to "bad life". Don't forget, all bad life is that you don't work hard enough. Sixty-four hexagrams are said to have changed their minds. "Changing divination" means completely changing from the inside out, thus "innovating". So are people. Don't make so many excuses for your failure. As long as you completely change from the inside out, not only will your life get better, but your appearance will also change with you. It can be seen that everything has variables, and it can be changed as long as you keep working hard. It's up to you to get better or worse.
6, understand the truth of 10, it is better to practice it yourself. However, the more many people know the truth, the more confused, anxious and even insomnia. Knowing is just knowing, staying on the surface, not being implemented, thinking more and doing less, but losing yourself more and more.
7. There is no shortcut in the world, just like a sentence in the Tao Te Ching: The road is easy, and the people have a good road. If there is a shortcut, it is to bend down and work hard!
8. Always compete with the same hobby, not with fools. There are not many people in Chinese pencil style. If you meet them, just say "You are right" and leave with a smile. Otherwise, others simply can't tell who is a Chinese pencil.
9. Learn to recharge your batteries and don't overindulge. People's "spirit" is so much, just like water in a water tank, with a spoonful missing.
10, people who can't sort out their emotions will never achieve much. You might say, "All capable people have personalities." Don't forget, personality and emotion are completely different. Character can make or break a person; But if you are emotional and don't tidy up, you can ruin what you have now.
1 1, don't live in other people's mouths and don't let others control your life. Even if many people understand this truth, it is a turning point in reality. For the sake of face, for the length of a sentence, for a compliment from others, I hurt my closest relatives. There are so many fools, and there are many every year.
12, don't ask others to help you for free. Don't always think about freedom, don't always ask others for help, and don't repeat this endless request.
13, merciful. There is an old saying in China: raise rice to support kindness, and fight rice to support enmity. Promoting Mien means that if you give someone a little help when he is in danger, he will appreciate you; If you give too much help to others, it will make them dependent. Once you stop helping, it will make people jealous. At this time, the great kindness turned into a deep hatred.
14. In life, if you have less routines and more sincerity, you will gain a lot, otherwise, you will get stuck in your own routines. Finally, Lao Wang warmly reminds: Don't treat others as your trash can, whether in the workplace or in life. If you don't vomit, you can use it if you don't want to use it.