2. Always remember that looks are not annoying, and only those who are stupid, hypocritical, rude, arrogant, boastful and don't do practical things are the most disgusting.
3. temperament is the key. If you can't learn fashion, you'd rather be simple.
4. When shaking hands with people, you can shake hands for a while. He will appreciate your sincerity.
Don't lose your temper, life is not a TV series.
6. Don't complain in front of others. It is so boring. The more boring you say, the more boring others think you are.
7. When taking a taxi with someone, please sit next to the driver first.
8. When someone speaks ill of someone in front of you, you just smile.
9. Drive your own car and don't stop to say hello to your colleagues who ride bicycles. People will think you are showing off.
10. Visit your colleague when he is ill. Sit naturally in his hospital bed and wash your hands carefully when you get home.
1 1. Don't let everyone know the past. It won't do you much good to look like a blank sheet of paper.
12. Respect people who don't like you.
13. When others criticize you, be sure to let him finish, even if you are right. If you choose to argue, you will be in big trouble.
14. Respect those who criticize you, because they can make you make real progress.
15. Self-criticism always makes people believe, but self-praise is not.
16. Nothing can improve your bowling performance like a bystander. So, don't be stingy with your cheers.
17. Don't take others' kindness for granted, but be grateful. No one is born to wait on you, not even a nanny.
18. The myna on the banyan tree is talking, just talking but not listening, and the result is a mess. Learn to listen. Talk about it after you understand it, and get to the point, then you are a first-class negotiator.
19. Respect the host of the reception room and the cleaning aunt, throw the garbage into the trash can and give your seat to the old man on the bus, but these little things can greatly increase your charm.
20. Remember that when you speak, you always start with us. Will bring us closer.
2 1. Give a hand to everyone who sings on stage, and he will be particularly touched by you.
22. Sometimes you should know perfectly well that your diamond ring is expensive! Sometimes, even if you want to ask, you can't ask, for example, what's your salary?
23. If you talk too much, you lose. There are many people, so you talk less.
24. Change the one that has no exit to: It takes time. I'll try my best. I'm not sure. I'll call you when I decide. This is a sign of maturity. (It is also a skill commonly used by employers. When our graduates are employed, most of them encounter the time when the employer says to go back and wait for the phone call, so you can consider changing companies. )
25. Don't expect everyone to like you. It's impossible. Making most people like you is a sign of success.
26. Of course, you should like yourself.
27. If you are performing or giving a speech, if only one person is listening, you should continue with your heart, even if no one is cheering, because this is the road and cradle of your success. You should not let the audience succeed, but you should succeed by yourself.
Three sentences that make you realize the truth are so classic.
If you don't know enough, you worry too much.
Lack of knowledge and difficulties in decision-making can lead to over-thinking, worry, doubt and insecurity. So sometimes, the thoughtful and fearful life is not given to us by the outside world, but caused by our own shallow knowledge.
If you want to change this situation, you must enrich yourself and broaden your horizons. Read classics, read history, read more excellent books of predecessors, learn from the wisdom and experience of predecessors, and naturally understand what happens and know how to deal with it.
If you are weak, you will be angry.
Wade gets angry easily if he can't convince the public. Some people use anger to establish prestige, but it will actually be counterproductive, because anger will expose the shortcomings of virtue. Prestige comes from virtue, and the power of morality can conquer the masses. A truly learned and moral person must show humility, respect and approachability. Where do they use anger to attract people's disgust?
If you don't believe it enough, talk more.
People with insufficient credit usually spare no effort to talk more when others don't believe them. There is a saying in the Book of Changes: Lucky people talk less, impetuous people talk more. Talking too much sometimes shows a person's lack of credit, so it is very important to keep your promise.
The six sentences that make you mature and benefit your life are so classic.
It is not easy to meet noble people in one's life, and it is not easy to understand the truth of being a man. The following sentences will definitely benefit you for life.
The first sentence: don't calculate too much, just let nature take its course.
Don't think too much about being a man. As long as you work hard enough, don't beg desperately. Sometimes, the more you think, the more anxious you are, and the less you get in return. When you don't want it, it will belong to you unexpectedly. Some hidden rules, things that can't be grasped, let it be. Human progress and development are relative. What should be yours will eventually be yours. Don't force it.
The second sentence: there is no need to suppress yourself or flatter yourself.
It is impossible to be equal between rural areas and cities, between subordinates and superiors, and between the poor and the rich. There is absolutely no need to suppress yourself. No matter how much you respect a cocky man, he will not treat you equally. Therefore, there is no need for flattery. He will never give you charity out of sympathy. No matter how humble you are, or how difficult you are to get along with, don't expect others to be polite. Only by maintaining the due strength of personality, facing life directly, saying when it is time to say and doing when it is time to do, and not being timid, will we not be easily looked down upon and win more equal opportunities and people's respect.
Don't be particularly good or bad to anyone at work, let alone be bad to anyone, and don't cause public outrage and become an unpleasant object for the public. People can be divided into any unit, any group and any interpersonal relationship structure without the three-thirds system. Specifically, one-third of people are average to you, one-third are not interested in you and one-third are good to you. It varies from person to person. The good should be maintained, the neutral should strive for it, and the hostile should be tolerant. Never be used by a few people.
The third sentence: there are three ways to look at life: one is far, the other is wide, and the third is light.
Look into the distance. Looking far is looking for a goal, eager to fly and thinking about the realm. Find a reason to believe in yourself. Vision shines in the field of vision, goals grow in traction, flying is full in life, and the realm enhances people's image. To give your mind the wings of association, you must open the doors and windows of your mind, walk up the mountain, stand tall and look far away, and be indifferent and open-minded, then you can realize that other mountains are short under the sky. From near to far, from here to there, from outside to inside, explore amazing discoveries.
Second, we should broaden our horizons. That is, broad thinking and magnanimous mind. Look at the width. It's head-up. Looking at people head-up is a kind of character for the noble and a kind of backbone for the humble; To do things head-on, is to cut into reality, shoulder to shoulder with the times, and listen to the music of the years. Here, we need to be more open-minded, have more thinking space, be broad-minded and tolerant, and our eyes will be brighter.
Third, look down. Indifference is not lack of desire. What belongs to me, I will do my part. If it doesn't belong to me, a thousand dollars can't move its heart. It is a state of mind of life, an attitude of sticking to the duty of life, an unhurried insistence on life and a yearning for truth. Therefore, people who are calm live long, calm and healthy. Calm, is to insist on their own income, cherish their own happiness, otherwise, simple happiness.
The fourth sentence: believing in yourself is more important than relying on others.
To be a man, you must be thoughtful and have a sense of social responsibility. Believing in yourself is more important than relying on others. Different people must do things differently, and the boss usually sees it. As long as you try your best, you won't be buried unless you doubt your ability. The key is to keep a correct attitude and have the opportunity to do more for the society. When there is no chance, remember to work for yourself, accumulate more tangible and intangible capital, and do more for yourself. No matter what life gives you, there is nothing wrong with working hard in time. Yes, no matter how hard you try, it is better to do things quietly. In particular, doing more things that can reflect our own value will benefit us for life.
The fifth sentence: Hold your breath, bend over and look up.
Hold your breath. It's hard to hold your breath in real life full of temptations and traps. If you can't hold your breath, you may lose your mind, even become hysterical and fight, or you may give up on yourself and be cynical. In the journey of life, there are inevitably valleys or peaks, as well as setbacks or victories. In different situations, blaming others and cursing the injustice of fate are all manifestations of impatience. Because holding your breath is a sign of wisdom, a precipitation of reason and a sign of maturity. People in the universe, like a boat in the vast sea, can ride the wind and waves and be invincible only by calmly controlling, facing the stormy waves ahead and keeping calm.
Bend down. Be a low-key and humble person, tolerant and flexible. Han Xin, an ancient man, devoted himself to Dahan's 400-year inheritance. Sima Qian chose to bend down and write a swan song that spread in history. It can be seen that bending over is a gesture and an inner self-confidence. Bamboo is persistent because of bending, and rice ears are rich because of bending.
Hold your head up. No matter in adversity or prosperity, people should keep an optimistic and enterprising attitude. The ambition of teenagers is not alarmist, but the confidence of youth, which the strong must have even if they die. However, holding your head high is not arrogance or arrogance, but humility and equality; Not that you are shorter than others, but that you should face yourself and see Si Qi clearly; Not because of his stupidity, but because of his self-knowledge.
Sixth sentence: To achieve great things, we must rely on: master, noble people to help, confidant support, opponent encouragement, villain supervision.
Experts are open-minded. Every successful person has experienced enlightenment, even direction. To solve the key problems in people's life such as wisdom, consciousness and direction, we need the guidance of experts. In the process of human growth, it should be the lowest cost and the most critical step to be enlightened.
Help from the nobility. In the process of people's growth and pursuit of success, there will always be several turning points or low valleys. At this time, if you can get the sincere support of the nobles, it will be easy to get out of the predicament.
Confidant pillar. This truth is self-evident. That is, behind every successful person, there is an outstanding confidant to build a harbor for you. Harbor is a spiritual symbol. It plays the role of spiritual rest and spiritual pillar.
Opponents are encouraged. Without opponents, people can't keep creating and exploring. So if you want to achieve something big (even if you don't have a big goal), you must find your opponent. Encourage your career through your opponents. The highest state is to have no opponents and focus on training.
The villain urged. If you only want to do small things, the villain must refuse. But to do great things, you need small people to make you. The villain keeps you alert and awake at all times. People who don't have little achievements are usually prone to complacency, arrogance and loss. Therefore, God created little people, and little people are used to achieve great people.
Excellent people who can achieve great things always find and cherish these five kinds of people in the process of struggle. More importantly, thank them, thank the superiors, thank the nobles, thank my wife, thank my opponents, and thank the villain who tortured you.
Woman, the eight sentences you have to remember are too classic.
1, woman, remember, don't accept any man's property easily unless you want to marry him. In a word, don't take advantage of him, otherwise you will suffer sooner or later. They all have a purpose. You must know: every rich man has an investment concept in his mind. If you are not careful, he will invest in him, and then.
2. Remember, women must control their communication range. You can't treat everyone as good friends like a man. Even if your profession is public relations, you shouldn't have tea with this boyfriend after work today and have dinner with another man tomorrow. After such a long time, everyone will think you are frivolous. Yes, you have many acquaintances, but you have no real friends.
3, woman, you have to remember, never buy low-grade clothes and shoes, of course, you don't have to buy any expensive brands, it is best to buy regular goods. It can also be cheap, but it is not a fake on the stall. Because you can't change your appearance and figure, but you can always dress tastefully, so that you can change your temperament with appropriate clothes. No matter what others think, you should dress better to show that you love yourself.
4. Woman, you should remember that you attach great importance to your usual behavior image. You should stand, sit and even walk like a woman. You should never be just lazy or familiar with the people around you, just stay at home with the closest people.
Woman, you must remember that you must not be hurt by the concept of equality between men and women. Gender equality is the slogan of politicians and the goal of the development of human civilization. This goal has never been achieved in our society. Whether in the West or the East, society is still dominated by men.
6, woman, you have to remember, you must have your own specialties. It doesn't matter if you are not beautiful, as long as you have temperament. It doesn't matter if you have no temperament, as long as you are smart. It doesn't matter if you are not smart, as long as you are virtuous. It doesn't matter if you are not virtuous, as long as you are diligent. It doesn't matter if you are not diligent, as long as you have the ability. It doesn't matter if you don't have the ability, but at least you should keep your position. Anyway, you have a 10 pot in front of you. You can't guarantee to boil the water in every pot, but you must burn at least one pot.
7. Woman, you should remember that marriage is more important to your husband than anything else. You must remember this sentence: men are afraid of going into the wrong business, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong person. Maybe you have understood this truth for a long time, but the question is, how do you weigh talent and property, personality and status, ambition and birth? The local boss driving a BMW and the poor scholar riding a bicycle courted you at the same time. Which one did you choose? Are you going to marry someone or something owned by that person? There are many kinds of men's success, and there is only one kind of women's success: marrying the right husband.
8. Woman, you have to remember that a beautiful woman, you have to know that all beauty is instantaneous. All good things will never stay for anyone, and your face will lose its luster one day. Never let the beautiful appearance miss life. Take the time to enrich yourself while you are still young. If you have enough knowledge and cultivation, your beauty will make you more beautiful. Similarly, if your mind is empty, then your beautiful appearance is your greatest misfortune. Therefore, virtue is the most important decoration for women!