However, in primary school, children have a certain academic burden, and children still like to play mobile phones as usual, so homework is often not finished, and their academic performance is also affected to some extent. Moreover, children are also very dependent on mobile phones, and it is difficult for friends to correct them.
Parents' general attitude towards children playing mobile phones
It can be seen that the friends in the above article didn't care about the children playing mobile phones at first, and even sought after them. However, when children form habits and affect their study, they find that it is not so simple to correct their behavior.
1. Leave it alone and ignore it.
When children are immersed in the state of playing mobile phones, parents' parenting tasks will be easier. When parents need to do their own things, or are too busy to play games with their children, parents are very tolerant of their children playing mobile phones, and even say that as long as their children have needs, parents are happy to meet them.
2. Appropriate entertainment and time limit
Some parents think that children can get some information by playing mobile phones, which is also beneficial to their growth. At the same time, these parents pay great attention to the time limit for their babies to play mobile phones. Timely remind and urge children to avoid some adverse reactions caused by being too addicted to mobile phones.
3. Forcibly stop children from playing mobile phones
Parents who choose this way of education are very resistant to their children playing mobile phones, but although this behavior has been effectively controlled for the time being, the one-size-fits-all approach has brought certain limitations to their children's growth.
When parents find that their children will still have this demand after repeated warnings, it is necessary for parents to communicate with their children and let them understand the adverse effects of unlimited use of mobile phones on their growth.
Forcibly stop children from playing mobile phones, causing adverse effects 1. Aggravate children's rebellious psychology.
Parents' too strong coping attitude makes children have psychological conflicts with their parents' education, and parents' forced intervention makes children have rebellious psychology and cannot communicate with their parents smoothly. Then it affects the output and feedback of parents' educational ideas.
2. Make children more curious about mobile phones.
Parents have no patience to guide, but simply and rudely stop, which will arouse children's greater curiosity. When you have the opportunity to contact the mobile phone again, it is easy to have retaliatory games. When parents are not disciplined enough, children are easily immersed in it.
3. It has an impact on children's eyesight
Authoritative data show that children play mobile phones for more than half an hour every day, the average number of blinks per minute will exceed 7 times, and the average tear film rupture time is less than 5 seconds. Playing mobile phones is also easy to cause visual fatigue, which is also the most direct cause of affecting children's vision.
During holidays, there will be a peak when children wear glasses, which has a lot to do with children's irregular work and rest and excessive addiction to mobile games.
How do parents correct their children's habits? When parents find that their children have bad behavior habits, it is necessary to pay some attention and guide them in an acceptable way. It is not difficult to get rid of children's habit of indulging in mobile phones.
1. Transfer children's concerns and let them contact the external environment.
When children are addicted to mobile phones, parents may wish to intervene by diverting their children's attention, such as taking them out for a walk. With more contact with the external environment, children's dependence on mobile phones will be reduced.
2. Control children's behavior from the time when they play mobile phones.
Parents can gradually reduce the frequency and time of children playing mobile phones, so that children's excessive indulgence is limited. Parents consciously help their children make rules and guide them to obey them. Let children know the contents of mobile phones properly, so that children can accept part of their studies and lower their expectations of mobile phones.
3. Cultivate children's more hobbies.
In normal life, parents pay attention to the cultivation of children's hobbies, so that children's hobbies are more extensive and reduce their love and dependence on mobile phones. At the same time, hobbies have also opened up a new path for children.