The general preface of Disciples Rules teaches us as follows: Disciples Rules, Sage Training, First Filial Piety, Second Honesty. Love others, but love others. Learn literature if you have spare time. Starting from the root of human beings, it educates us to shape our own virtue from these aspects. The first filial piety is that a person must first have love in his heart and honor his parents. If a person can't even respect his parents who raised him, then he will lose the foundation of being a man, let alone respect his elders, leaders, colleagues, brothers and friends from the heart, and his actions will be hard to be recognized. Next time, I sincerely believe that we should live carefully and keep our promises, that is, we should be honest. From a small person to a big enterprise, if he can't be honest with others, what does he rely on to stand on the society? Love others, but love others. Learn literature if you have spare time. It means to be equal and kind when interacting with the public, to be close to people with kindness and to learn from people from time to time. These are the foundations of learning and must be done. If you have already done it, you still need to learn some other knowledge to enrich yourself. This is to teach us how to communicate with people and how to learn. We should always learn from others' strengths to make up for our own shortcomings, restrain ourselves from all aspects, and improve our quality and self-cultivation.
To learn disciples' rules is to implement the teachings of saints in life and in words and deeds. Learning disciple rules is not only a process of improving personal accomplishment, but also a process of ideological sublimation. Love the people around you and love the world. Only in this way can this society become a harmonious society.
After learning the disciple rules, I understand a lot of truth. Facing it, I have a feeling of seeing each other for a long time. Among them, "filial piety when you enter", "filial piety when you leave", "sincerity", "faith", "universal love", "kindness" and "spare no effort to learn literature" constitute a complete moral system, the core of which is the "Tao" of being a man. When I was studying Disciples' Rules, I repeatedly read Happy Life written by Cai Lixu, and the more I read it, the more I felt that it was really a treasure trove of life wisdom. Teacher Cai's "Tao" is a natural operation law that transcends time and space. "Virtue" is to teach human beings how to abide by the laws of nature without violating the principle of being a man. Its essence is five relationships: father and son are close, monarch and minister are righteous, husband and wife are different, old and young are orderly, and friends are trustworthy. It teaches us how to cultivate self-cultivation, according to the order of cultivating self-cultivation and governing the country. Without self-cultivation, it is impossible to rule the country and level the world.
China is an ancient civilization with 5,000 years of splendid culture. It is famous for its kindness, respect for the elderly and love for the young, and sincere treatment of others ... These fine traditions are widely known from ancient times to the present. When you read Disciples' Rules, you seem to be in the moral path of civilization and being a man.
Zhu Dexiao comes first. Filial piety is the duty of being a son, but I often pay attention to filial piety with big lines and never pay attention to smallness. Disciples' Rules only tells us that filial piety must start from small things, and it should always be there, not just for a moment.
"If you want to repay your kindness, you will forget your resentment, and you will repay your kindness for a short time." These are enough to convince me. The ancients said: "The kindness of being dripped by people is rewarded by a spring." Disciples' Rules let us know how to be grateful. Thank those who give us life, knowledge, food, clothing, shelter and criticism. Always keep your love for others in mind and learn their virtues. Improve yourself and touch others.
After reading Disciple's Rules, I found that what I used to take for granted, or what I thought was correct, was deficient in one way or another.
In ancient times, "Disciple Rules" was the principle of being a man, but it still influenced more people and taught us how to be a man. What matters in life is not the appearance of life, but the essence of life. The most important thing in life is character. If you want to do something, be a man first. Civilized and healthy conduct and noble moral sentiments are the real self-destination and the eternal sunshine that shines on the soul! While reading Disciples Rules carefully, it also took away the dust in my mind.
I remember who once said such a thing.
If you:
Sow the seeds of thoughts and you will reap the words;
Sow the seeds of words, and you will reap the deeds;
Sow the seeds of behavior and reap the habits;
Sow the seeds of habit, and you will gain individuality;
Sow the seeds of individuality, and you will reap the fate.
I learned Disciples Rules and was moved by its profound connotation. Because of my ignorance, I misunderstood the teachings of many sages, and even rebelliously regarded some traditional cultures as feudal dross. Before, I never really felt that "we are the pride of Chinese children". Think that's an empty slogan. Only then can we understand the real reason why the Chinese nation has lasted for thousands of years; The real reason why the Chinese nation is loved by people all over the world: because we have profound cultural heritage! Has a fine cultural tradition! Created generations of virtuous Chinese sons and daughters! We are a country of etiquette. Pay attention to etiquette, make friends, be modest and kind ... Thousands of years of culture have created the excellent qualities of so many Chinese sons and daughters. But why is it reported that "Don't speak loudly" in Notre Dame de Paris is written in Chinese? In the toilet of the Thai Palace, you should also write "Please flush after going"; In Pearl Harbor, USA, the trash can impressively reads "Please leave your garbage here" ...... The moral level of our Chinese nation has dropped to the lowest point! It also reminds me of the "Ma Jiajue incident". Why would a smart college student who once won the national championship do such a thing to his roommate who once laughed at him? One of the roommates survived because she offered to help Ma Jiajue cook. This has aroused widespread discussion and concern about the moral problems of teenagers in society.
As an educator, since we are aware of the lack of China traditional culture education in modern family education, we should start with our current school education and make up for it. Let the students we train not suffer setbacks and failures because of the lack of morality after entering the society.
Disciples' Rules is based on three-character classics. Among them, etiquette norms are the foundation of being a man. Just like a big tree, it will flourish only if its roots are firmly rooted. Being a man, only by establishing the most basic morality, a person with humility, respect, kindness and love will be in an invincible position in his future life and work. Just like painting, it is impossible to create an excellent work by letting children with no painting foundation use their imagination. If he doesn't know the basic principles of being a man and acts arbitrarily according to his own wishes, he will not be accepted by others and his life will not be happy. I have never received a formal education in traditional culture. After learning Disciple Rules, I feel that I have the responsibility and obligation to pass on this cultural treasure on the basis of a correct understanding of China's ancient culture. I sincerely hope that every educator can realize this and help every student to establish a correct outlook on life from our class education.
Well, I have been exposed to traditional culture for a year. In fact, this calculation is not necessarily correct, because everyone living in China is influenced by traditional culture at any time. After all, culture is a process of continuous transmission. As one of my Chinese teachers said, "No matter whether it is a noble child or a villager in the mountains, no matter whether it is a little knowledge of words or a word, everything he says and does shows the cultivation of Confucian culture." I feel this sentence more and more deeply. An idea has lasted for thousands of years in China. Where can people here be unaffected? Although traditional culture has suffered many disasters in modern times, it still has strong vitality in China.
In my opinion, Disciple Rules contains traditional concepts such as filial piety and courtesy, especially in action. The so-called disciple rules, that is, norms. At first, this book was used as children's enlightenment reading, and its effect was similar to that of Saint Amethyst. But nowadays people generally lack this kind of education, so it is appropriate to study this classic now. Especially now that social morality is out of order, people with lofty ideals call for repositioning our education, highlighting people-oriented thinking and humanistic care, creating a harmonious society and a harmonious world, and learning classics is particularly necessary.
The process of learning is a process of identification, while the process of influencing oneself is a subtle process. For example, it should be easy for us to remember the discipleship rules, but it takes time to really have a beneficial impact on a person. There must be some principles in a person's life, and the subconscious mind is bound by these principles. To learn disciples' rules is to implement the teachings of saints in life and in words and deeds.
Learning disciple rules is not only a process of improving personal accomplishment, but also a process of ideological sublimation. It is very necessary for a person's growth. Love the people around you and love the world. Only in this way can this society become a harmonious society and this world become a harmonious world.