It is important to live in the present, not to rush to a result. For example, when girls choose a spouse, they are eager to finalize the right one from the blind date market or other channels. It is better to pay attention to this matter and look for it, but every day and every moment, she must do what she can and enrich herself. Maybe some girls will say, "but I'm old and I'm going to be 30 soon" ... so what?

Is it useful to worry when you are old? When you are in a hurry, you will find a person holding your energy in a daze and having no place to cry. Between men and women, emotional harmony, harping and singing are just two people's [energy matching]+mutual attraction to each other. And this world is ignorant, take advantage, want to take advantage, always want to talk about feelings. The unwilling party likes to measure by conditions. There are so many feelings and conditions.

One by one, day by day, I don't understand the law of male and female collocation at all. Since ancient times, people are not as good as Heaven. Heaven will help you when you are together. We shouldn't be together. Calculation is useless. Everything has a process, the acceleration is out of control. What should be done can be done if we take it step by step. If you hurry to take ten steps at a time, what you can do becomes impossible.

Every major event is calm. In the face of major changes in life, whoever is calmer, more stable, more strategic, and more determined is more likely to climb this ladder. Do something that helps you, instead of asking for the results yourself, just ask for the efforts, not the gains. The result is not up to you. Everything you get and deserve is just a manifestation of your inner energy.