I found that my mother felt 1 after reading this book. As a mother-infant consultant and a mother-infant nursing training teacher, I deeply felt my responsibility. "Skin blind date, breastfeeding, mother-child empathy, uterine psychology, ectopic pregnancy, fatty skin personality". This series of parenting principles need us to spread.
Growing up, I always believed that I would be a good mother when I grew up. After careful reading and pondering, I understand that being a good mother is more than just giving birth to a child and feeding the child. A mother can't just hold up her child with her hands, but also hold up her child with her heart. Mothers should not only feed their children with milk, but also feed their young hearts with their own spiritual accomplishment.
I read it and found my mother's thoughts. Only when saplings take root in the land can they grow up. The sapling is the child and the land is the mother. How long and high the saplings can grow depends on whether the land is nutritious enough. There are no towering trees in the desert. In the process of children's growth, a mother who lacks wisdom and mind can't educate a smart child with spiritual accomplishment. Without maternal love, children are like flowers in a vase. Although the color is fragrant, it has lost its roots.
I am glad that I can understand the importance of mothers to children before I become a mother.
Mother gave us life and educated us into adults. What did we give them in return? All they have accumulated now are white hair, wrinkles and hunchbacks.
When I came into contact with this book, I was deeply shocked by its content. This book is worth reading by every woman. It is also a book that everyone in the world should read, not just mothers.
After reading it, people can't be calm for a long time, because education is closely related to each of us and every family, and is inseparable from the rise and fall of the country. "Jiangshan is silver and mother is gold." Mother is not only the source of fertility, but also the first teacher to shape personality and quality. "You may not be a genius, but you can be the mother of a genius", "The hand that pushes the world is the hand that shakes the cradle". These two sentences run through the center of the book and are the most valuable findings of the author. After reading this book, these two sentences echoed in my heart for a long time. As a teacher and the mother of a child, I deeply feel my responsibility.
Reading is like visiting a museum about women's education. The author, like a commentator, explained in detail the role played by women as mothers in the development of human education history. And how modern women should shoulder the responsibility of educating their children, and also analyze some problems in modern education. In this book, I deeply realized the importance of being a mother to my children. I also learned some theories about education from this book. Cattle, birds, fish and flowers need to know special methods, but what about raising children? Teacher Wang's rhetorical question points out the disadvantages of China's parenting. When do we think of calling to inquire about our upcoming life, buying a book and visiting an educated mother?
Today, everything is talking about brands, but who has noticed the essence of this world, and who has noticed the essence of this world-mother? Children are alive, so is education. It should grow up with the children, and the kite line that the children grow up should be firmly held in the mother's hand. Sending children to boarding school turns out that you have no time to take care of them, or you are too busy making money to send them to boarding school. This not only does not show that you attach importance to children's education, on the contrary, it shows that you are ignorant of children's education. If you don't have time to educate your children, that means you don't have time to be a man.
Because being a man is a textbook for educating children. It's so well written. After reading this, I thought of the reality of our school. How many parents leave their children's education to schools and teachers instead of sending them by themselves? No matter how clever a teacher is, she can't take the place of her mother!
The more I read it, the more I want to suggest that parents and friends in my class, even our school and the whole society should read this book.
Thinking about finding a mother 4. Seeing the plot in Looking for Mom, many parents' high demands, strict and stingy love have caused many tragedies. What should be the closest mother and son, father and son, have become sworn enemies and ghosts in their hands. What should we reflect on? Tiger poison doesn't eat children.
Why do parents kill their children themselves? It is worth pondering for each of us as parents. What's wrong? Education? Whose education? Where is the education? I think it is still our family education, and the children's first teachers are parents. I once saw a speech that children went to middle school, and the middle school teacher said how did your primary school teacher teach them? In high school, what did the high school teacher say about your junior high school teacher? What did the university teacher say about your high school teacher when you went to college? Tracing back to the source, or how did our parents teach us?
When I was very young, I heard from my grandfather that I was three years old and seven years old. If parents can't teach well before the age of three, it will be a bit tricky. If you don't teach well from the age of three to seven, it's hard to change. But aren't we going to correct it? No, we are parents. We have the obligation and responsibility to help our children get rid of bad habits and put them on the right track. This process requires parents' patient, meticulous and intelligent response. We can't treat our beloved children simply and rudely.
First of all, I sincerely thank the school leaders for giving our teacher a valuable book, Looking for Mom! Discovering Mother is a book about mother and education written by educator and social psychologist Wang Donghua in ten years. Reading makes people feel angry; After reading it, people are filled with emotion.
Discovering Mother is one of the most influential original works in contemporary China! You may not be a genius, but you can be the mother of a genius! The hand that drives the world is the hand that shakes the cradle! Wang Donghua put an important issue of education in China before the people of China. If there is indeed a book in human history that has changed its course, then this book is likely to be a good planning book for the development of women and children in China in the next century! If "Looking for Mom" is just a sensation in China, it means failure; Finding Mom may become a must-have book for every family in China.
In modern society, too many young people give their children to their mother-in-law or their own mother at birth, and it is very dangerous to abandon motherhood from now on. What woman can be so busy than work that she can't even care about her children? If it is a wrong choice to give up the education of children because of work, more people can do your work, but no one can make up for the ruined life of children. For mothers, children should take care of both work and children. If not, don't hesitate to choose a child. Since giving birth to a child is responsible for the child and the country, it is more important to send a qualified person into society than to work for yourself. There is a passage in Suhomlinski's book "The Pedagogy of Parents" that may be very enlightening to us: "There are dozens, hundreds and many kinds of trades, occupations and jobs: some are building railways, some are building houses, some are planting crops, treating patients, sewing clothes and so on. But there is a kind of all-encompassing, most complicated and sublime job, which is the same for everyone.
There are many cases in this book. The ideas in the book are novel, original, practical and shocking. In order to deepen everyone's impression of this gobbledygook, I specially selected a passage from the preface of "I hope you can read it" and read it to you:
"Unfortunately, our past pedagogy was the pedagogy of' teaching', not the pedagogy of doing. I don't know that' doing' is more fundamental than' teaching'. Therefore, parents should not only know how to' teach', but also know how to' be a man'. Their correct' life' is more important than their correct' teaching'! That's right. Being a man is not something after marriage and having children, but also something they have to learn since childhood. This is the third meaning of changing "parents in the world" to "people in the world", that is to say, "parents" and "parents" are closely related, and "parents" are just re-examining, proofreading, improving and further perfecting their own behavior in front of the children's mirror. Therefore, you should never start to correct yourself after becoming a parent, and don't work so hard after becoming a parent. Instead, you should have become the' best me' before becoming a parent, so that your parents' adopted son will be linked to your own' being a man'. "
It should be mentioned that many of us may feel sorry after reading the sentence "I became the best person before I became a parent", because we are already parents, because we did not receive a comprehensive "life" education before we became parents, because we still have some shortcomings and incompleteness. It doesn't matter. From now on, it's not too late to mend. As long as you have a heart that really loves children, as long as you work hard, you will still be the best and most conscientious parent, and you will still educate healthy and useful people to society.
May all mothers in the world remember this sentence: "You may not be a genius, but you can be the mother of a genius"! May all children in the world remember this sentence: "All mothers in the world are greater than the Pope and more selfless than saints"! Don't forget to honor your parents while educating your children.
Thinking about Looking for Mothers 6 Looking for Mothers is a book written by Wang Donghua, an educator and social psychologist. It takes ten years to teach women how to be excellent mothers. In this book, the author reveals a secret: the success or failure of education lies not in the school and society, but in the family. Family education, especially the mother's educational literacy, is related to success or failure. The author believes that educating children is the biggest and deepest knowledge in the world, especially in the first few years of a child's life, the most essential and important things in his life are given by his mother. This kind of education not only affects children's own life, but also strongly affects the growth of the next generation in the way of social inheritance. No education has more profound and lasting influence than mother education.
"Jiangshan is silver and mother is gold." Mother is not only the source of fertility, but also the first teacher to shape personality and quality. The author reminds his mother: "You may not be a genius, but you can be the mother of a genius", and "The hand that pushes the world is the hand that shakes the cradle". The mother is the chief designer of the child. He called on people not only to care about mothers, but also to create a mother's environment for mothers, so that every mother can become the cradle of children's success. After reading this book, as a teacher and a mother, I deeply feel my responsibility.
We often say: "Children are the future of the motherland, the flowers of the motherland, and the sun at eight or nine o'clock in the morning!" But this future can not be separated from our mother, and the opening of this flower can not be separated from the watering of our mother. The morning sun still needs her to hold it up! The art of education is the art of kite string. Even if it is far away, the kite string is tightly held in the hands of mother and teacher. As long as we pay a little attention to the growth experiences of great men and celebrities we are familiar with, it is not difficult to find out how important the influence of mothers on their children is. The most important responsibility of a mother is to make herself an educator and educate her children. If every mother can not only raise her children, but also educate them, it is the greatest contribution to society.
Some parents think that when their children go to school, all the responsibilities are handed over to the school and teachers. When children encounter problems at school, parents naturally accuse the school teachers of incompetence and lack of dedication. Yes, it is difficult for school teachers to get rid of their responsibilities, but don't parents have responsibilities? The current education situation in China is that a teacher has to face dozens of students, and it is impossible for a teacher to focus on only one student. Children entering school is not the end of parents' responsibility. On the contrary, we should pay more attention to children's behavior, and family education still cannot be relaxed. Only the perfect combination of family education and school education can make children develop better.
In the book, the author also emphasizes that example is better than words, and family style is more important than example. Each of us comes from a different family and carries the imprint of our own family. To make an inappropriate analogy, a nation has a inherited culture, and a family also has values cherished by the family. Children who grow up in a family are unconsciously marked by a family. We often communicate with parents of some children. In the process of communication, we will find that parents' behavior has the most obvious influence on their children. Some parents have no education, and his children must be stubborn and difficult to teach. We all know that this is not heredity, but that parents' words and deeds have been exposed to their children. On the contrary, a responsible parent, even if the child is in a very unfavorable environment or the family encounters major changes, can also resolve the unfavorable factors with the responsibility of a parent and let the child grow up healthily under the care of his parents.
Reflections on Finding Mom 7 The first time I came into contact with Wang Donghua to find my mom, I saw the recommendation in China Education News. I was immediately attracted by the ideas in the book, so I wrote down the title in my notebook. Later, I heard from teacher Liu Ying that he had this book in his hand, so I borrowed it before the Spring Festival. After reading it, I can only describe my ignorance of education with shock.
This book uses the word discovery to express his thoughts on education. Later, I also found that many education experts use the word "discovery" the most frequently. On Saturday, I went to No.47 Middle School to listen to a lecture on the new curriculum reform. Zhao Guixia, president of Weifang Wenguang Middle School, made a report on the stage. The three-hour report in the morning used at least 20 "discoveries", many of which were: discovering courses; The discovery of a photo; The table was smashed and the school leaving course was found. Discovery is a reflection on every educational action, a flash of educational wisdom and a profound understanding of education. The book says: in modern society, everything emphasizes learning and assessment. Without enough practice, no one dares to play the piano on stage. No one dares to start a car and drive to the city without an assessment. But has there ever been a well-designed nursery for feeding children?
Our society needs to train all kinds of people who work with children, such as teachers, doctors and nutritionists in kindergartens. However, they turn a blind eye to their mothers, who shoulder important training tasks in their children's life and growth, without giving any special training or even minimal reminders. As for our teachers, many old teachers who have worked all their lives have won numerous honors and certificates, but they have never found such things. Accurately speaking, he is an excellent teacher who teaches knowledge, not a really excellent teacher, because they don't know what education is. Why is this happening? Simply put, it is lack of study. If our teachers have received dedicated and strict training, it is also in universities. After work, they are engaged in the study and research of teaching knowledge, not real educational research. This reminds me of a passage in the introduction of the famous American mother, Mrs Steiner: China was the first country to establish schools, but its civilization was backward. This is because they don't realize the necessity of female education. In the past, people in China thought that women should not be educated, so most women in China were illiterate and had no family education. A citizen who can't get a mother's education will never be a great citizen. Not to mention our teacher.
Originally, I always thought that women would suffer from different degrees of depression because of the lack of an element after giving birth. This kind of depression basically disappears at the age of three, and they often have a fierce collision with their husbands and mother-in-law, which is also the fundamental reason for the disharmony between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in China. After reading this book, I realized that this is not the main reason. The book said: "Because people are animals born three years in advance, these three years after birth are extremely important. Although the human organism is separated from the mother, it is still not separated from the mother, and there is still an undifferentiated period. The mother and the baby are still one, as if they were conjoined babies. " What does conjoined twins mean? It means that they are all children, and children are not sensible. If they are unhappy, they will cry and lose their temper, and then they will laugh.
This result gives the husband the feeling that he is not like his original lover, and gives the woman the feeling that this daughter-in-law is unreasonable, but it is really great for the child to have a partner who knows, loves and understands him so well. At this time, children and mothers are in a state of empathy, and they are in harmony with each other. This is why many children always listen to their mothers and nothing else. After school, many children regard the teacher as their mother. One of our inspirations is that if our teachers want to educate their children well, including improving their academic performance, they must enter the children's world and establish relationships with them, and the children will naturally enter the track of "learning from their teachers and believing in their ways".
Last semester, the school bought an educational book for each of our teachers, entitled "Looking for Mom". During the winter vacation, I used all available time and with great excitement, I finished reading this book written by Professor Wang Donghua in one breath. After closing the book Looking for Mother, I have a deeper understanding of the great image of mother.
In the book Mother's Discovery, the author profoundly expounded the theme that "the hand that drives the world is the hand that shakes the cradle, and the quality of the mother determines the future and destiny of the nation" with unique insights and novel examples and a deep sense of responsibility for society, especially China society. As a woman, a teacher and a mother, I deeply feel the great responsibility on my shoulders. I want to say that my mother is great, but this greatness comes from her selflessness and dedication. How many hardships and tribulations did a mother go through before giving birth to her children, and how much bitterness and hard work did she have to go through to raise them one by one. How long and difficult this process is! But for the sake of children, for the sake of children's future, to be more profound, for the sake of this society and all mankind, my mother always persists in obscurity and endures hardships, from young beauty to white hair ... Obviously, how great my mother is! How respectable! In front of mother, people feel that everything becomes small. ...
Here, let's call together: from now on, let all the children in the world and all the members and people in society honor their mothers!
After reading "Looking for Mother Workbook" written by Professor Wang Donghua, I read the first book "Looking for Mother". I'll tell you what I think after reading it.
Professor Wang Donghua said that motherhood is a profession, and every woman should live up to her mission and earnestly perform her duties. I used to worry about taking care of my children. I am glad that I met and finished reading this book, which made me cherish the time with my children more.
Last night, I woke up in the middle of the night and found my son curled up beside me, tucked him in and pinched his sleeping face. Suddenly my heart moved, and I couldn't help asking myself, "How many years will it take for my son to snuggle up next to him and act like a spoiled brat in his mother's arms?"
My six-year-old son has reached the age of sleeping in separate beds with us, but he can't be separated several times. At this moment, I am glad that I gave up sleeping in separate beds with my son. Otherwise, I would not feel such a warm moment.
When my son was about two years old, I began to read to him one by one. Because he is a boy, I consciously read him some books on popular science and history. I thought I didn't get much. I didn't expect to eat at the dinner table once. My son regards the backrest of the dining chair as high pressure and the dining table as low pressure. He said that the high-pressure airflow is downward and the low-pressure airflow is upward, which is a surprise for his growth and progress.
When I was five years old, I spent two days showing him the taekwondo class, painting class and piano class that I wanted him to learn most. He chose piano lessons without hesitation. I was disappointed that he took piano lessons for a long time, but when he suddenly talked skillfully about the next song "Song of Spring" one day, when he asked to listen to piano music before going to bed at night, he couldn't wait to share it with his friends. When I saw him playing the keyboard for the children in class, he said to me, "Mom, I found that the biggest difference between the piano and the keyboard is that playing the piano is very easy, and my legs always tremble unconsciously when playing the keyboard" ... I am secretly glad that I didn't kill his hobby.
Thinking about Looking for Mom 10 Wang Huadong bought the book Looking for Mom a year ago and has read it several times now. It will be shocked every time. The slogan "find mom" is so inspiring and touching.
I think of my dead mother again and again. Although she didn't go to school for a day, she gave me more education than all the teachers. She has been poor all her life, frugal all her life, hungry for food and warm clothes. She is so generous when others are in trouble. No matter how poor the family is, she won't let beggars pass by empty-handed. A spoonful of rice, a handful of rice, or a steamed bun, her eyes are full of pity. Sometimes she will accompany the lonely old beggar and light a pot of fire in the severe winter to warm the old man's thin body. My mother taught me sympathy and compassion, so I always pay attention to the disadvantaged groups. I have participated in blood donation for six years in a row, hoping to help the sick and comfort my mother who is buried underground.
Mother worked hard all her life, and even after stroke and hemiplegia, she didn't stop working. When I was young, I always had a hot meal when I came back from school. My father is a typical male chauvinist. He only cooks dinner twice a year, New Year's Eve and breakfast on New Year's Day. The rest of my life depends on my mother. At the age of 55, my mother finally fell ill. I stayed in the hospital for more than a month, and when I came back, only my right side was able to move freely, my left arm could not be lifted, and my left leg could not move well. She has been left-handed since she was a child. You can imagine how difficult it is to be born! But my mother just learned to hold chopsticks in her right hand and all the tableware in her right hand, and learned to take care of herself! When she was a little better, she began to work. Holding a basin and noodles in his left hand, making delicious pasta; One hand carries water from the bottom of the ditch to water the vegetables; Picking cotton with one hand ... how strong mother is! She never wants to trouble others, even her children. Whenever I slack off a little, my mother's words will ring in my ear: "Don't cherish your strength, it will grow up after you use it."
What can I do now that I have children? Broadly speaking, my students are also my children. It's not easy to do it as well as my mother. I just hope that I will not delay my children's education and give them too many regrets. Nowadays, children grow up in a complicated environment, and sometimes it is really embarrassing. Don't care, don't want to let the children suffer; Take care of too much, but I am afraid that she will develop the habit of dependence. Fortunately, I finally became a scholar under the guidance of experts. Looking for Mom is a good book, and I will continue to read and learn.