1. Husband and wife should be lifelong friends. The most important thing between husband and wife is the friendship. Even if they are not close friends, they should be friends who can be partners, or partners who respect each other.

Between husband and wife, it is not just a close relationship, but also good friends who can respect each other, talk to each other, and communicate with each other souls.

This kind of marriage relationship will last for a long time. A marriage that cannot become friends cannot touch the spiritual compatibility of the other party.

Mr. Yang Jiang’s short sentence revealed the way for couples to get along: couples who can become friends can last longer. If they cannot become close friends, they must at least respect each other.

2. Only by taking the path of your choice and not choosing the easy path can you have your true self.

Every path in life must follow your own heart. Don’t think about taking that path just because it is easy, and don’t take shortcuts in life because you are eager for success. The price you pay will be greater later.

As a woman, you should follow the path of your own choice, listen more to your own voice, do not let others affect your life choices, and do not lose your life choices because of material things.

You can become who you are because you only listen to your inner voice.

3. Your problem is that you don’t read much and think too much.

When many people do something, they have already imagined 100 ways to fail before they even start. Before they start, they have already set up 200 obstacles for themselves, and even imagined for themselves. 300 kinds of languages ??used by others to ridicule their own failures.

When a person thinks too much, when his inner spirit and knowledge cannot keep up with his own thinking, he will set up many obstacles for himself.

In fact, there are not so many unsolvable problems in life. For every problem you encounter, you can find the answer in books and find 10,000 solutions.

4. I am alone and miss the three of us.

That year, Mr. Yang Jiang and Qian Zhongshu’s daughter passed away, and another year, Mr. Qian Zhongshu also left this world.

Before leaving, Mr. Qian was worried and gave Mr. Yang Jiang numerous warnings to live a good life.

Mr. Yang Jiang chose to live a good life, not only published two books, but also compiled an unpublished collection of Qian Zhongshu's essays during his lifetime.

That year, Mr. Yang Jiang was alone, missing the family happiness of his previous family of three.