Happiness lies in pain. When there is happiness, there must be pain. After the pain, there is happiness.
Happiness and pain are the background of each other, set off each other, complement each other, and are indispensable.
There is happiness in any stage of life, but there is also pain. There is no such thing as only happiness without pain, or only pain without happiness.
When there is reunion, there is also parting. If there is gain, there will be loss. Opposites are a whole and inseparable.
Only those who have experienced a lot of suffering can understand the suffering of others. When we feel sorry for others, we are actually feeling sad for ourselves. People often say: "Borrowing other people's mourning halls to suffer one's own sorrow."
For people in pain, comfort really has no effect. A strong person, a wise person, does not need the comfort of others.
Everyone will comfort others, and everyone will understand that comfort is ineffective.
There is no way to eliminate pain and suffering in life. The more we try to escape and escape from pain and suffering, the more intense and persistent the pain and suffering becomes.
We can endure suffering when we know it is inevitable and inevitable.
The only way to transcend suffering is to fully experience it, or to save it.
Only those who understand suffering can understand true happiness. Only those who experience suffering can enjoy true happiness.
Nothing is eternal, nothing will pass, happiness and suffering will also pass.