1. Ancient poems about etiquette

Famous quotes on civilized etiquette

1. Quietness cultivates one’s character, and frugality cultivates virtue. ——Zhuge Liang

2. Those who respect others will always be respected by others; those who love others will always be loved by others. ——Mencius

3. The overlord took the two rivers alone, and many of his descendants surrendered with hundreds of cities. After the success of Luxurious, what about peace and happiness and misfortune? ——Wang Anshi

4. If people are rude, they will not stand up, if they are rude, things will not be successful, and if the country is rude, there will be no peace. ——Xunzi

5. If you welcome others with good demeanor, you will be as close as brothers; if you welcome others with evil demeanor, it will harm the enemy. ——Guan Zhong

6. There are great brave men in the world who are not surprised when faced with sudden attacks, and are not angry when they are attacked without reason. ——Su Shi

7. Looking at the virtuous countries and families in the past, success was caused by diligence and frugality, and failure was caused by extravagance. ——Li Shangyin

8. Be poor without flattery, be rich without arrogance. ——Zigong

9. If you don’t learn etiquette, you can’t stand up. ——Confucius

10. Strengthen the foundation and use it sparingly, and the sky will not be poor. ——Xun Kuang

11. Generals must not be arrogant. Being arrogant will lead to disrespect, being disrespectful will cause people to leave, and people leaving will lead to rebellion. ——Zhuge Liang

12. Those who are extravagant and lazy will be poor, while those who are strong and thrifty will be rich. ——Han Fei

13. The journey of a husband and gentleman is to cultivate one’s character through tranquility, and to cultivate one’s virtue through frugality. If it is not indifferent, it will not clear its aspirations, and if it is not tranquil, it will not be far-reaching. ——Zhuge Liang

14. Earth can make a city wall, and accumulated virtue can make a solid ground. ——Li Bai

15. Extravagance leads to more desires. A gentleman who is too lustful will seek wealth and honor, which will lead to disaster in vain. ——Sima Guang

16. Those who are extravagant are in ruins, while those who are frugal are safe. One evil and one good are in front of you. ——Bai Juyi

17. Be knowledgeable in literature and make appointments with courtesy. ——Confucius

18. It is not a matter of disrespect for position, but a matter of disrespect for virtue; it is not a matter of shame that one does not have a good partner, but a matter of not being knowledgeable. ——Zhang Heng

19. Don’t worry about danger in times of peace, abstain from extravagance and be frugal; cut down the roots in order to seek luxuriant trees, stop the source in order to have a long flow. ——Wei Zheng

20. Do not do evil because it is small, and do not do good because it is small. Only those who are virtuous and virtuous can obey others. ——Liu Bei 2. Poems about etiquette

“If you don’t learn etiquette, you can’t stand up.”——"The Analects of Confucius. Ji Shi" A gentleman has benevolence in his heart and etiquette in his heart: A benevolent person loves others, and a polite person respects others. .Those who love others will always be loved by others, and those who respect others will always be respected by others. ——Mencius: "Mencius. Li Louxia" Courtesy requires reciprocity. Going back and forth but not coming back is not polite; coming but not going back is also not polite.————" "Book of Rites. Qu Li 1" Behavior is a mirror that reflects each person's own image. ——Goethe: "Affinity" One of the most important tasks of civilization is to make people be dominated by form in his purely material life, so that People become aesthetic people within the scope that the kingdom of beauty can reach. --- Schiller: "Letter on Aesthetic Education" Politeness is the art of choosing among one's own true thoughts. --- A. Stevens: " Madame de Steele" Politeness pleases polite people and also those who are treated politely. ——Montesquieu: "The Spirit of the Laws" Nothing will be lost by being polite, but it will Everything can be obtained. --- Maraud Montagu: "Letters" Etiquette is the smallest but the most stable of all norms. --- La Rochefoucauld: "Moral Proverbs" Politeness is fraternity Flowers. People who are not polite cannot be said to have philanthropic thoughts.——Joubert: "Collection of Quotes" What makes a person great does not lie in wealth and family status, but in valuable behavior and noble character.—— - Ovie: "Famous Quotes" There are two types of bad etiquette: the first is shyness; the second is indiscretion and contempt. To avoid these two situations, the only way is to abide by the following rule, that is , don’t look down on yourself, and don’t look down on others.——John Locke: "Educational Essays." 3. Ancient women’s etiquette

The so-called ancient women’s etiquette means: before you are married, you should obey your father, if you are married, you should obey your husband, and if your husband dies, you should obey your son.

It means that girls should obey their parents’ teachings before getting married, and should not refute the teachings of their elders randomly, because the elders have rich social knowledge and have fundamental guiding significance; after getting married, they should be polite and obedient. A husband should run the household and practice business together with his husband, respect his elders, and educate his children; if his husband unfortunately dies before him, he should stick to his duties, find ways to raise his children to become adults, and respect his children's life philosophy. What is here is not the superficial meaning of following, but the essence of work-like engagement

The so-called four virtues refer to: virtue, appearance, speech, and work. That is to say, for women, first The most important thing is moral character, being able to stand upright; then appearance (meaning that you should be dignified, steady and polite when entering, not frivolous and casual), speech (meaning that you should be able to add meaning when talking to others, be able to understand what others say, and know what you should say) and sentences that should not be said) and the way of running a family (the way of running a family includes the details of life such as caring for the husband and raising the children, respecting the elderly and caring for the young, being diligent and frugal, etc.)

There are also the Three Cardinal Guidelines and the Five Constant Rules, which are also the principles of Chinese feudal society. The basic moral principles and norms

The Three Cardinal Guidelines refer to the principle that the king guides the ministers, the father guides the son, and the husband guides the wife. Those who are ministers, sons, and wives must absolutely obey the emperor, father, and The husband also requires the king, father, and husband to set an example for the ministers, sons, and wives. It reflects a special moral relationship between monarch and ministers, father and son, and husband and wife in feudal society.

The five constant principles are benevolence, righteousness, propriety, wisdom, and trustworthiness. They are the code of conduct used to adjust and standardize the human relationships between kings and ministers, fathers and sons, brothers, couples, friends, etc. 4. Sentences about ancient etiquette

Those who do not believe in their words will not achieve results in their actions - Mo Zi's people cannot stand without faith - Confucius has no dignity without honesty - Cicero always trusts China if he tells half the truth Editor's big lie - Franklin: Being honest is the way of heaven; being sincere is the way of man - Mencius' breaking one's trust is failure - Zola's sincerity is an openness of the soul - La Rochefoucauld can only deceive people temporarily. , and integrity is the long-term strategy - John Ray Integrity is a dignified weight. Put it on and your life will no longer swing, and the balance will immediately tilt steadily to one end.

Integrity is a shining bright moon. Only by looking into the bright eyes of the editor of Credit China can the true attitude towards life be precipitated. Integrity is like the running water on the top of the mountain, which can wash away the glitz, restlessness, and falsehood, leaving behind the wonderful truth that enlightens the soul.

When credit disappears, the body has no life - Alexandre Dumas If you want others to be honest, you must first be honest yourself - Shakespeare The most immoral subscriber of mankind is dishonesty and cowardice - Gorky conceals the truth, Just lie to yourself. As a gentleman says, a horse cannot be chased.

Candor is the wisest policy. One word and nine words.

A promise worth a thousand dollars. Keep your word.

Golden words. When a gentleman speaks, his word is final.

If I ask others to be honest, I must be honest myself. Two minds cannot win one person, and one mind cannot win a hundred people.

——"Huainanzi·Miao Chengxun" Sincerity is the highest virtue in life Credit Chinese Editor--Chaucer The truth may be sad, but it is better than lies--V. Azaev in Among all moral qualities, good nature is the most needed in the world - Russell, what does money mean compared to a pure conscience? ——Hardy Honesty is the most touching thing ——Shakespeare Sincerity, credibility, and simplicity are the precious qualities of genius ——Stanislavsky Paper cannot contain fire, and mistakes cannot be concealed. In a people's country, there must be a driving force, and this is virtue.

—— Montesquieu People cannot live like animals. They should pursue knowledge and virtue. ——Dante Don't do evil because it's small, don't do good because it's small.

Only virtuous and virtuous, able to obey others. ——Liu Bei It is not a matter of lack of respect for position, but a matter of disrespect for virtue; it is not a matter of shame that one does not have a good partner, but a matter of not being knowledgeable.

——Zhang Heng The earth can support the city wall, and the accumulation of virtue can make the solid ground. ——Li Bai If you do a good deed, you will feel at ease; if you do a bad deed, you will feel ashamed.

—— Shen Hanguang The most valuable revolutionary quality is to remain unstained in the mud and not corroded by the sugar-coated bullets of the bourgeoisie. ——Zhou Enlai The most sad thing for a person to trust a Chinese editor is the death of his conscience.

—— Guo Moruo Shyness is the emotion of fear or fear of humiliation, which can prevent people from committing certain despicable behaviors. —— Spinoza One should be zealously committed to acting morally rather than talking about morality.

—— Democritus Emotion has great inspiring power, therefore, it is an important prerequisite for all moral behavior. ——Kelov Without great character, there would be no great people, not even great artists or great actors.

—— Romain Rolland Reason is higher than the soul, Credit China Editor Thoughts are more reliable than emotions. ——Gorky Communistism is not only manifested in the fields and sweaty factories, it is also manifested in families, around the dinner table, among relatives, and in mutual relationships.

—— Mayakovsky The reason why virtuous people are virtuous is that they are not tempted enough; this is either because their lives are monotonous and rigid, or because they are single-mindedly pursuing a goal. No time to look around. ——Duncan Human beings have been given a job, which is spiritual growth.

—— Leo Tolstoy People should be wise in wisdom, morally innocent, and physically clean. - Chekhov Conscience is determined by a person's knowledge and entire lifestyle.

—— Marx A law-abiding and conscientious person will not steal even if there is an urgent need. However, even if he gives a million gold dollars to a thief, there is no way to expect him to stop stealing from now on. . —— Krylov The moral power of the spirit has unleashed its potential and raised its flag, so that our patriotic enthusiasm and sense of justice can exert its power and role in reality.

—— Hegel Teach your children "virtue": it is virtue, not money, that makes people happy. This is my experience.

What supported me in times of trouble was morality, and what kept me from committing suicide was not only art but also morality. ——Beethoven If morals deteriorate, taste will inevitably deteriorate.

—— Diderot I would like to prove that anyone who behaves kindly and noblely will be able to withstand hardships.

——Beethoven Ornament is also incompatible with virtue, because virtue is the strength and vitality of the soul.

—— Rousseau I am convinced that only a moral citizen can pay an acceptable salute to his motherland. ——Rousseau Let us make dishonor the most severe part of the punishment! —— Montesquieu Sound judgment on factual issues is the true foundation of all virtues.

—— Comenius Virtue is realized by actions, not by words. - Comenius The only work and the whole work of education can be summed up in this concept - morality.

——Herbart Virtue is like a famous incense. It becomes stronger after being burned or pressed. For example, good fortune can best reveal bad virtues, while misfortune can best reveal virtues. —— Bacon Those who conspire to frame others will be the first to suffer misfortune.

—— Aesop A wise man would rather prevent illness before it occurs than cure it before it occurs; he would rather encourage to overcome pain than seek comfort for the sake of pain. ——Thomas More Our powerful morality is to achieve material success through struggle; this morality applies to national credit editors as well as individuals.

—— Russell Develop them to have the physical strength to endure hard work, a pure and noble morality, a broad and free spirit that can accommodate new trends, that is, the power to swim in the new trends of the world without being overwhelmed. ——Lu Xun Only at a stage of social development in which class antagonism is not only eliminated, but also forgotten in real life, can truly human morality become possible, transcending class antagonism and the memory of this opposition.

—— Engels We have proletarian morality, we should develop it, consolidate it, and educate the future generation with this proletarian morality. - Kalinin The current task is to work even under the most difficult conditions. 5. Ancient Women's Etiquette

In traditional Chinese etiquette, the requirements for women are relatively strict. Among them, the so-called "three obediences" and "four virtues" are the foundation of women's conduct.

- -------The so-called "three obediences" refer to: obeying the father before marrying, obeying the husband when married, and obeying the son after the death of the husband. It means that before getting married, girls should obey their parents’ teachings and should not refute the teachings of their elders randomly, because the elders have rich social knowledge and have fundamental guiding significance; after getting married, they should obey their husbands and run the household and practice business together with their husbands. , honor the elders and educate the young; if your husband unfortunately dies before you, you must stick to your own responsibilities, find ways to raise your children to grow up, and respect your children's life philosophy. The "obey" here does not mean "follow" on the surface, but the essence of "engagement" in the nature of work.

The so-called four virtues refer to: virtue, appearance, speech, and work. That is to say, for a woman, the first important thing is moral character, being able to stand upright; and then appearance (pointing out that she must be dignified, steady, and polite) , don’t be frivolous and casual,), speech (referring to being able to add meaning casually when talking to others, being able to understand what others say, and knowing what you should say and what you shouldn’t say) and housekeeping (housekeeping includes looking after your husband) Details of life such as educating children, respecting the elderly and caring for the young, being diligent and thrifty, etc.). ---------------

The Three Cardinal Principles and the Five Constant Principles are also the basic moral principles and norms of Chinese feudal society.

-------- "Three Cardinal Guidelines" means "the king is the guideline for the ministers, the father is the guideline for the son, and the husband is the guideline for the wife." It is required that the principles of being a minister, a son, and a wife must be absolute. Obeying the king, father, and husband also requires the king, father, and husband to set an example for the ministers, sons, and wives. It reflects a special moral relationship between monarch and ministers, father and son, and husband and wife in feudal society.

The "Five Constants" are benevolence, righteousness, propriety, wisdom, and trustworthiness. They are the code of conduct used to adjust and standardize the human relationships between kings and ministers, fathers and sons, brothers, couples, friends, etc. ----------

Jishou (can be added as Yi before - then Jishou)

Step 1: Raise your hands to eyebrow level

< p> Step 2: Kneel down on both knees,

Step 3: Keep your head on the ground for a while, still raising your hands to your eyebrows

Step 4: Stand up straight, still raising your hands to your eyebrows Eyebrows

Step 5: Kneel up, still raising your hands to your eyebrows

Step 6: Put your hands down

Kowtow twice (the first can be added as a bow - then Kowtow again)

Step 1: Raise your hands to eyebrow level

Step 2: Kneel down on one knee,

Step 3: Touch your head to the ground. Put your hands on both sides

Step 4: Straighten your upper body, and raise your hands to your eyebrows

Step 5: Get up on one knee, still raising your hands to your eyebrows

Step 6: Put down your hands

Bow (if you want to kowtow repeatedly, you should still kneel but straighten your upper body, and bring your hands back to the level of your eyebrows. This is for bowing. Then touch your head to the ground and put your hands on both sides for bowing.

Repeat this back and forth for a few prayers)

Three beats

Step 1: Kneel down on both knees

Step 2: Fold your hands on the ground , bow your head

Step 3: Nod your head

Step 4: Kneel up

Four empty hands

Step 1: Kneel up Kneel down

Step 2: Fold your hands on the ground, with your head touching your hands (but not touching)

Step 3: Get up on your knees

Five Make a bow

Step 1: Raise your hands to your eyebrows

Step 2: Bow solemnly and slowly at 45 degrees while moving your arms from under your eyebrows to your chest.

There is also a slight bow

Step 1: Raise hands to chest

Step 2: Bow slightly

Six nods ( Reciprocity, used by the recipient to express gratitude to the giver)

When standing up instead of sitting, put your hands on your abdomen and bow slightly

Seven-cup hands

Just raise your hands to chest level, keeping your upper body still

Eighty Thousand Blessings

Step 1: Raise your hands to chest level, but on the left side of your chest

Step 2: Rear branch of the right foot

Step 3: Bend the knees solemnly and slowly and lower the head

The later blessings are just like what we often see now

< p> Step 1: Place your hands gently on the left hip

Step 2: Back of the right foot

Step 3: Bend your knees solemnly and slowly and lower your head

Step 3: Bend your knees slightly and lower your head, saying "Happy so-and-so" 6. Poems about describing the beautiful clothes of ancient women

The weather is new on March 3rd, and there are many beautiful people by the water in Chang'an. The deep meaning is far-reaching and true, the texture is fine and the bones and flesh are even. The embroidered clothes shine in the late spring, and the golden peacock and silver unicorn are frowning. What is there on the head? The green lotus leaves hang down the temples and lips; what can you see from behind? Beads press the waist to keep the body in shape. - Du Fu's "Beauty's Journey" On the fifteenth day of Hu Ji's year, she is alone in the spring. She has a long skirt with a belt and wide sleeves. A blue field jade on her head and a large Qin pearl behind her ears. How graceful are her two servant girls? , There is no good person in this life. One servant girl is five million, and two servant girls are more than ten million. - Han Yuefu "Yulin Lang" The cock crows and the dawn is coming, and the bride puts on her makeup. Wearing my embroidered skirt, everything is in order. Silk shoes underfoot, tortoiseshell light on the head. The waist is as smooth as silk, and the bright moon is in the ears. The fingers are like peeling onion roots, and the mouth seems to be holding vermilion. The delicate steps are delicate and unparalleled. - "The Peacock Flies Southeast" by Han Yuefu .