"There are many brothers who have tea and wine, and you have never seen anyone in a hurry." There are many friends who drink tea at ordinary times, but few who are willing to help in times of crisis. Have you ever had such an experience? Usually, if we invite someone to dinner, tea or play, a phone call will come to ask if we have time, and many friends will come at your call. However, when we are in trouble and ask for help, we may not get the same result. Few people can lend a helping hand happily, and many friends who used to talk big become faltering at this time.

Many times, we care about some so-called fair-weather friends, but no one cares about our real good friends. We seem to have given all our injuries to our closest relatives. We can say whatever we want to say and scold whatever we want to those who are kind to us, and we never consider the feelings of people around us, as if everything is taken for granted. However, for some so-called "good friends", something comes with a phone call, without complaint; When friends around you have something to ask you, many people refuse with their mouths open, sometimes without even thinking. As everyone knows, such behavior will only make the relationship between the two sides drift away. You will disappoint your real good friends.

Therefore, we must have a clear understanding of the people around us and be able to distinguish between fair-weather friends and intimate friends. How to distinguish it and how to treat it? Not random. Only by retaining true friendship can we contribute to our life and growth.