1, you can't completely deny others many times of kindness just because they treat you badly once. It's human kindness for others to help you or not.
This is the duty.
I have been kind to you a hundred times, but I am not satisfied with you once.
Someone gives you candy to eat, and you gradually get used to this sweetness, so you become more and more greedy. However, when you taste a little bitterness and are slightly dissatisfied, you will completely deny it and completely forget all the good things that others have done to you. This is not right.
4. There are many friends in life. You are kind to your friends a hundred times. If you are wrong once, when you are down and out, your fault or bad will become forever.
5. The same is true of being a man. If you treat him well ten times, he may forget. If he is unhappy once, he may erase everything. This is the truth of human nature of 100- 1=0!
6. A hundred good ones are not necessarily the next person, and a bad one will offend a person: one day you will suddenly find that your good is like someone else's glass of water, which will be gone after drinking, while your bad is like a seed, which will take root and sprout. This is human nature! Life has given us many tests, and we have learned to accept and tolerate. If there is such a person who forgives all your bad things because of your good, then cherish it! Because most people will forget your goodness because you are not good at all! Be a grateful person! Do things with a clear conscience.
7. It's hard to be a good person. Do it 99 times, and if you don't do it 1 time, you will be labeled as a bad guy. This friendship is too sad and tired to go anywhere ... right or wrong.
8. Even if you have a thousand good ones and one bad one, it will subvert all your efforts; Even if you cut out your heart and lungs and do something wrong, it will add to the crime and say that you are heartless.
9. When others treat you well, don't say that you must give something back. You should at least make others feel that his efforts are worthwhile and meaningful. If every good thing can get positive feedback, then more people in this world will be willing to pay and know how to pay.