The first commandment: Don't think of inherit the wind.
Many husbands seem to have this idea and like to hang this sentence on their lips. First, they respect their parents and are obedient and filial. Especially after their wives were wronged by their mothers, this sentence appeared the most frequently. Knowing that his mother was wrong, he only dared to say to his wife, "inherit the wind, she is not right, it is my mother. Please bear with me! " So the wives had nowhere to vent their anger and had to secretly cry. In this kind of family, because women can't get the protection of their husbands, their love for them will gradually fade away until they are disappointed with their marriage. Some people may run away from their marriage, and some people may fight back reluctantly, eventually leaving everyone in this relationship scarred.
Confucius has a wise saying: to err is human. I don't know the man who always says "inherit the wind". Are your parents human? If you think not, then I have nothing to say!
The second commandment: From the wedding day, please take the initiative to give yourself a break.
After getting married, every woman hopes that the man she has entrusted for life can grow up and support her small family responsibly. However, many men forget to change their roles, always thinking that they are still parents' good treasures, and always want to rely on their parents for everything, whether it is housework or economy. The most obvious sign is that he does not want to live alone without his parents. His most impressive reason is: I want to take care of my parents! The man who still lives with his parents after marriage hasn't changed much, because he knows that when he is with his mother, she doesn't want to let herself do housework, and his wife is even more afraid to assign housework to herself in front of her, or just like before marriage, he lives a life of making ends meet, only to see two women busy for him. Where can I see what he does for her?