The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is actually a subtle relationship of mutual respect. Ten years ago, you were good to me, and ten years later, I was good to you.

But some mother-in-law completely cooled their daughter-in-law's heart from the beginning.

However, with the passage of time, after ten or twenty years, the attitude of the daughter-in-law will know how stupid everything is.

The secular newspaper "evil mother-in-law" actually came soon.

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When it comes to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I think of my neighbor, Sister Wu, who gets along with her mother-in-law like an ethical TV series.

When she married her husband, Wu Jie was still in a very uneasy mood. Although I had already met my parents when I was talking about marriage, my mother-in-law was more enthusiastic than my mother in the conversation, and she kept praising her son, even platitudes such as the honor she won when she was studying, and moved to the table to praise her.

In today's marriage, the vast majority of both parties will have a certain emotional foundation, and they will make up their minds to get married after all-round consideration.

But at that time, it was basically introduced by the matchmaker. Sister Wu and her husband have only met several times, and their parents decided to get married only once.

After marriage, Wu Jie and her husband and in-laws lived under the same roof. When they first got married, they still had great respect for their in-laws.

However, the longer the time, the more wronged Wu Jie feels. It turns out that her mother-in-law is a violent and unreasonable person who criticizes Wu Jie in various ways in her life.

Without a job to make a living, Sister Wu became a housewife as soon as she got married, and even washed and cooked as usual when she was pregnant.

Not only did her mother-in-law not help, but she was also very dissatisfied with Wu Jie, and even spoke ill of Wu Jie in front of her seventh aunt.

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The most unforgettable time was when she was eight months pregnant. Sister Wu wanted to go back to her mother's house to have a baby, but her husband didn't agree, so they had a little contradiction.

At this time, her mother-in-law fanned the flames and Wu Jie rushed out of the door. On the way to her mother's house, Wu Jie had a stroke, and the person who asked for help was taken to the hospital.

At that time, Wu Jie couldn't move his right face, and he had to be fed. The baby in her belly was almost affected by the stroke.

Wu Jie's mother took care of her all the time, but her mother-in-law never set foot in the ward.

Fortunately, Wu Jie successfully gave birth to a baby, a girl. After knowing the news, my mother-in-law's face was the first to hang down, which was ugly.

In the hospital, Wu Jie sat for half a month and planned to go home. As a result, when I got home, I found that for a whole month, my family not only didn't clean up, but even the clothes I changed after confinement were piled aside.

It is said that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good, and you will know when you are pregnant. This sentence is true at all.

From then on, Wu Jie secretly vowed that apart from compulsory support, she and her mother-in-law had no close relationship and no relatives.

Time passed, Wu Jie's daughter was admitted to the university, and great changes have taken place at home. A few years ago, my father-in-law died of cancer, and my mother-in-law changed to cardiovascular disease. I have to go to the hospital from time to time.

After so many years of friendship, Wu Jie can only take care of her mother-in-law's food, clothing, housing and transportation. When her mother-in-law was in hospital, Wu Jie was almost in charge.

Perhaps in her later years, her mother-in-law's attitude towards Wu Jie gradually changed. She usually speaks softly to Wu Jie, and her temper is not as bad as before. She knew she had gone too far when she was young.

However, for some changes in her mother-in-law, Wu Jie did not feel a trace of warmth. The mother-in-law in those days was no longer horizontal, and people still had to rely on Sister Wu to take care of them in their later years. Even if today's mother-in-law flatters Wu Jie, Wu Jie can't fully accept her mother-in-law's change.

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To tell the truth, whether the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good or not is well known from the first day of marriage.

Many mothers-in-law will rely on their youthful vitality and the support of their sons. On the surface, she will marry her daughter-in-law, but behind her back, she tells her what to do.

However, people will get old one day, and when it comes to taking care of their daughter-in-law, even the best daughter-in-law will not be grateful from the heart.

They never thought about how realistic it is to say "I haven't seen my grandmother for ten years, and I haven't seen my daughter-in-law for ten years".

Everyone knows to treat each other like guests when they get along. Speaking of mother-in-law, how can you forget this truth?

You know, some injuries are irreversible.

When my mother-in-law was young, she cut her daughter-in-law one knife after another. Even though time has passed and healed, the scars still exist.

Therefore, a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not spontaneous, but formed from the beginning through mutual running-in and mutual respect and understanding.

Don't wait until you are old to win the sympathy of your daughter-in-law, because there is no regret medicine in this world.

Instead of waiting until you are old to regret it, it is better to cherish it from the beginning and communicate well.