1. Living with her mother-in-law after giving birth is the fuse of bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Due to enormous social and economic pressure, both husband and wife can't give up their jobs easily. So many families choose to live with their mother-in-law after their children are born. In the past, it was good to meet once in a while after marriage. Now, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along day and night, and there are more and more trivial things. Naturally, it is easy to look down on each other, which leads to a worse relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

2. Mother-in-law's failure to help during the confinement period is the main reason for the rapid deterioration of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

After giving birth to a child, the new mother is physically and psychologically fragile and needs the help and care of her family most. At this time, if the mother-in-law can't help take care of her grandson and daughter-in-law, everything needs the new mother to do it herself, and the daughter-in-law will easily have resistance to her mother-in-law, leading to the gradual deterioration of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Although "you took care of me when I was young, I raised you when I was old" is a cliche, it is the voice of many daughters-in-law.

3. There are too many differences in parenting concepts, which is the fundamental reason.

Before giving birth, there are few things that need the participation of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and they can be done without interference. But after giving birth, two people have to participate in the same thing every day: taking care of the baby. Many mother-in-law always acts like an experienced person, hoping that her daughter-in-law will listen to her; Most mothers-in-law want to take care of their children in a scientific way, and they don't like each other's practices.