Life is a balance that needs to be balanced. There is such a fable: there is a strong big lock hanging on the door, and an iron bar took a lot of effort, but it still couldn't be pried open. At this time, the key came unhurriedly, and its thin body got into the lock hole. With a slight turn, the big lock snapped open. The iron bar was puzzled and asked strangely, why can't I open it with such great effort, but you open it easily? The key said with a smile, because I know its heart best.
In fact, everyone's heart in life is like a locked door, no matter how thick the iron bar is, it can't be pried open. Only by caring can we turn ourselves into a delicate key, enter other people's hearts and understand others. What is caring? It's hard to say. It's gone, but it's everywhere, all the time. It may be a carnation on Mother's Day, a kumquat beside his sickbed, or listening when he is lonely. Maybe it's a greeting when I'm in a foreign land, maybe it's a smiling look.
People's hearts are easily satisfied: a caring look and a caring word can make people with empty hearts feel greatly enriched; A sincere smile can make people in cold winter feel bright spring, and make people in other places feel incomparable warmth.
Caring for others is an open-minded attitude towards life and a kind character. It is based on the profound experience of life and life, is the expression of understanding and tolerance for others, and is also the embodiment and evidence of its own virtue and maturity.
Caring for others is not flattery or flattery, but an objective affirmation, a feeling from the depths of the heart, a natural love, and an appropriate unrequited effort.
The essence of care has nothing to do with matter. It is not the floweriness of words, nor the amount of money, but the expression of true feelings. Therefore, an imperceptible look and a tiny action can make people feel your concern and be grateful to you.
Every life is a gift from God, and every individual needs to be cared for, valued, appreciated and cared for, so we all need to be cared for. More care, more spiritual comfort, more stretching of life, more self-confidence of life and more warmth of the world.
But more often, caring is just a feeling, a casual expression of feelings between people, and an unspeakable spiritual contract.
Being cared for by others is a kind of happiness, and caring for others is also a kind of happiness. Learn to care about those you are familiar with or unfamiliar with. If you do, you will get not only the care of others, but also endless love.
My friends, caring is the key. Learn to understand and care about others. No matter where you go, no matter where you are, you will meet familiar eyes, knowing smiles and beautiful scenery.
Life is a balance that needs to be balanced. There is a humorous famous saying in the second 800-word collection. Time is a butcher's knife-expressing many women's self-deprecating feeling that time flies and their faces are getting older. At this time, we are full of vigor and vitality because we are young.
If time is compared to a knife, then youth is also a knife.
In adolescence, we are really sharp and sensitive, like a new knife that has just broken its peak. Facing the education and persuasion of family members, teachers and classmates, they often turn a deaf ear. The consequences of doing so will make people who care about themselves sad, unhappy at the same time, or even lose both sides. In the end, I will find myself a knife, which will not only stab others, but also shock myself.
We are always curious and sensitive about some new people and things. For example, when a good-looking opposite sex treats him (her) in her heart, does it always seem that there is a small beast stirring in her heart? You can't help approaching, and the other person's words can easily disturb your mood. At this time, you are eager to get close, but forget that your sharp shell will hurt others.
And life is another knife, heavy and solid. When it meets the knife of youth, what kind of spark will it arouse?
With continuous study and life, we gradually mature. A gentleman has knowledge, learns what he has learned, knows what he knows and does what he does-extensive study of knowledge will help us understand what is right and wrong, what is good and evil, what should be done and what should not be done, and life is a five-flavor bottle, which can let us taste all the miscellaneous tastes and human feelings in the world. Disdain hypocrisy, tired of filth, hate ugliness, and accuse the world of all injustice. Yearning for kindness, hope for peace, praise for bright hot pillow, and all the beautiful things in the world. These two complex feelings fill my mind. When these countless examples and emotions become one knife after another, another knife slowly rolls its edge.
Real life gradually sharpens us and wears off our edge and water chestnut, but don't let it wear off our personality and initial sincerity. Although real life is cruel, we are full of fighting spirit and confidence. The more you lose, the more you fight, the more you fight. Because we are young, we still have a long way to go and our future is full of hope.
Life is a balance that needs to be balanced. Tolerance is a shower that moistens my heart. Tolerance is a bright light that illuminates my way forward; Tolerance is a key to my growth.
Time is ruthless, and years are spiritual. In a blink of an eye, time leaked from my fingertips like quicksand, quietly, but left my mother's tolerance for me. It is because of this tolerance that I slowly grew up, from that immature little girl to my sensible self now.
Time has passed, I have grown up, and you have white hair. I still remember when you were beautiful and healthy, with a bright smile on your face, telling me all kinds of stories, but now you are weather-beaten and full of vicissitudes.
18 years, you taught me to grow step by step and took good care of my study and life. You have no culture, but you have a selfless dedication to me. You taught me the truth in some simple words, and I benefited a lot without flowery words. You do everything you can to help me learn and grow. In order to create a better learning environment for me, I went out of my way. Because of your love for me, my world is full of colorful flowers; Because of your love for me, my fragility has become more tenacious; Because of your love for me, my life is full of warmth and happiness.
And I, who was cared for and cared for by you, still made many mistakes, always rebellious and confused by mistakes again and again. Instead of scolding me and lecturing me, you tried to tolerate me, teach me truth and teach me to grow.
I still remember one time, because I didn't do well in the exam, I gave up studying in the next month and did nothing all day. The teacher talked to you specially because of my learning attitude. I thought you would scold me and ask me if I am worthy of myself and the hard work you have done for me. Who knows, when I got home, you didn't scold me, but had a very sincere conversation with me. You encouraged me with warm words and cheered me on. You and I chat like friends, and you are extremely tolerant of me. It is because of your tolerance that I have the confidence and motivation to continue my study.
Time is ruthless, and years are spiritual. Time has taken away all the people and things, but it can't take away your love and tolerance for me and your selfless dedication to me. Your tolerance is a shower that moistens my heart; Your tolerance is a bright light, illuminating my way forward; Your tolerance is a key to my growth.
Because of tolerance, I am clear in Wan Li; Because of tolerance, my life is warm and happy; Because of tolerance, my world is colorful.
Life is a balance that needs to be balanced. The fourth part once wrote, "There are hundreds of rivers in the sea, and there is great tolerance. There are thousands of walls, and there is no desire." Tolerance is the key for us to be human and treat people. It can open the door to the unknown.
Tolerance is the key to establishing good interpersonal relationships. During the Qing Dynasty, Zhang Ying's family was a university official, and they had a conflict with their neighbors. The two sides worked hard for the three-foot homestead. It happened that Zhang Ying was an official in the dynasty, so Zhang Ying's family wrote a letter, hoping that he could use his position to help them regain their homeland. Zhang Ying spread out the letter and immediately wrote a poem: "A letter from thousands of miles away is only separated by a wall. Why not let him be three feet?" The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, but I haven't seen Qin Shihuang. "After reading the letter, Zhang Ying's family realized that this was wrong and gave up the three-foot homestead. When the neighbors saw it, they also retreated three feet. Since then, the two families have been friendly for generations, and the story of "Liuchi Lane" has also been passed down as a beautiful talk. Six-foot Lane is six feet wide, which is 10,000 feet wide in two families. If there is no tolerance, how can two families live in harmony and benefit each other? Therefore, tolerance opens the door to friendly exchanges.
Tolerance is the key to establish a good communication image. Once, a barber was shaving Premier Zhou. Unexpectedly, the Prime Minister suddenly coughed and the sharp blade scratched the cheek of the Prime Minister. The barber quickly apologized and was a little at a loss. Premier Zhou didn't break into a furious rage, but comforted the barber and said, "It doesn't matter. I didn't tell you before I coughed How can I blame you? " . The barber nodded gratefully and continued to work seriously for Premier Zhou. Without tolerance, how can Premier Zhou show approachability and magnanimity, and how can he tolerate the broad mind of a nation? Therefore, tolerance opens the door to a good image.
Tolerance is the key to win a fair social evaluation. During the Three Kingdoms period, after Zhuge Liang's death, Jiang Wan was appointed as the prime minister of Shu, presiding over state affairs. Some people openly and wantonly made remarks that Jiang Wan was careless and could not compare with Zhuge Liang, which aroused heated discussion in North Korea. The wind soon reached the ears of Jiang Wan, and he also knew the initiator. However, when the magistrate suggested convicting Jiang Wan, Jiang Wan said, "I really can't compare with my predecessor. This is a fact. " Later, this person went to prison for something and suggested a heavy punishment, but Jiang Wan handled it fairly and did not aggravate his crime. Later, people praised Jiang Wan for "the prime minister can hold a boat in his stomach". Without tolerance, how can Jiang Wan win the respect of others, gain a good reputation, stabilize state affairs and assist the king? Therefore, tolerance opens the door to justice and respect.
The journey of life is often complicated, but it is often dull. Tolerance is like water, which makes complexity pure after filtering; Tolerance is like fire, and the plainness becomes more and more distinct through roasting. It is precisely because of this poetic tolerance that life is endowed with art and eternity. With tolerance as the key, the door full of wealth will open to you!
Life is a balance that needs to be balanced. In life, people need to care about each other. Care, perhaps just a knowing look, a warm word, a knowing smile, an inconspicuous object ... these concerns often shake our hearts inadvertently.
I remember those days when my mother was on a business trip last year. Before my mother went on a business trip, everything was so calm and step by step. But my mother was on a business trip for a few days, and bad things followed, threatening!
Once, I was caught in a traffic jam on my way to school and was late, so I was criticized by my teacher. After class, Xiao Jing and I watched the globe on the podium. Xiaojing was all thumbs and accidentally got the "Earth". The class is about to start. I'm afraid the teacher will see it. Pick up the globe quickly. It happened that this scene was seen by the class teacher, and she thought I brought it down. I quickly argued that Xiao Jing suspected that I had "exposed" her and stopped playing with me. Today is really "double happiness"!
Another time, after class, I corrected the unfinished questions in class and ran outside the classroom. I have to solve the urgent need! When passing by the podium, I accidentally knocked over the chalk box, and the chalk head spilled all over the floor, like a group of "free-range" little dolls playing happily on the ground. I quickly picked it up, stood up and prepared to run. I was thinking about how to sprint 100 meters, and I accidentally tripped again. Why is it so unlucky today? It seems that I have to worship Guanyin Bodhisattva when I go home! Just thinking about it, three things that I don't want to happen in my heart happen! Now the bell is ringing, I knocked down the chalk box again, and the teacher came into the classroom.
My head is sweating and I dare not look into the teacher's eyes. My breathing is getting faster and faster, and my heart is beating faster and faster. When I died, I turned around, and all my classmates and teachers stared at me. My face seemed to be burned. The teacher looked at my embarrassment with gentle eyes, but immediately became serious and said, "why are you so careless?" Why don't you pick up the chalk? " It won't be someone else this time! "I picked it up in a hurry. When I got back to my seat, every step seemed to be on the blade. I feel even worse when I see a classmate snickering. I am ashamed to sit in my seat and listen to the class. Now I'm like a little mouse who has been hunted but has nowhere to run. I'm on the verge of life and death.
I finally couldn't help it. I let my tears drop on the book and splashed a little water.
Tonight, my mother finally came back, and I poured out all my worries to her. My mother said to me, "There will be many difficulties and setbacks in life, some of which you can't imagine." What is this little difficulty? " You should learn to be strong. No matter how hard it is, if you think the sky is falling, the sun will still rise in the east the next day. You have to fight the wind and waves tenaciously to sail the ideal ship to the other side of success ... "
My mother said these caring words to me, just like a shining key, which opened my heart, swept away the haze in my heart and put a bright and happy future in my heart. I will still strive for a sunny tomorrow!
Learn to care about others when they are lost; Therefore, when we are lost, others will care about us. In fact, caring is a key.