"Effort ≠ involution", grasping the degree of "involution" is the true meaning of effort

I don't know when it started to appear in various circles With the word "involution", everyone began to use "involution" as their mantra. At first, I thought it should be a very beautiful adjective, which can well define the efforts made towards the goal, but now this The word has been misused by all kinds of people, and I've had enough of the word "involution."

In the past, we always admired those students who got up early to study in the classroom or library, but now whenever they see roommates in the dormitory or their friends opening books, many people will subconsciously say : "Hey, the papers have started again." To be honest, even if the students who said these words may not have bad intentions, they made me feel very uncomfortable. Some people would give nicknames to those who study hard—— "King of Juan", the nickname itself does not have much malicious nature, but calling others "King of Juan" out of spite is actually a very impolite behavior, which will put a lot of psychological pressure on the students who are nicknamed. There are also people who will stop playing games when they see others studying and say: "Stop rolling, stop rolling, we are going to anti-rolling." I really think this idea is ridiculous. As a college student, your Isn’t the task to learn? Does playing games every day still give you a sense of superiority? If you don’t learn, you don’t have the right or qualification to ridicule others, right? Why don't others play games with you if they don't want to learn?

There is another form of "involution", which is what we commonly call "false effort". Some people follow the so-called "wise words" such as "I would rather exhaust myself to death than involve others to death.", "Only by experiencing the experience of being involved in being involved can one become a master" and so on, so-called "involution" has become a way to strive for inflation. They do not have their own clear goals and study plans. They just blindly follow the classmates around them and get up to study mechanically. In fact, they do not learn the knowledge and skills they should learn at the end of the day. They put in practice but do not get satisfactory returns. , this effort is meaningless.

How do college students “anti-involution” in this fast-paced era? Or how to grasp the degree of "involution" so that involution can really be used for us?

I think first of all we can do a good job of self-evaluation, clarify our own abilities, find our own goals, and don’t blindly make false efforts, and in the end we can only impress ourselves;

The second is to pay less attention to others, focus on yourself, don’t care about other people’s affairs, and don’t “compare” with others excessively. For example, if he gets up at six o’clock today, then I will get up at five o’clock. In fact, this is really true. It’s not necessary, it’s best to do it at your own pace.

The last thing is to stop mental internal friction, concentrate on doing your own thing when you are working hard, and don’t slack off or be half-hearted.