The uproarous Room N incident in South Korea has refreshed people’s outlook. The membership rate of 260,000 people is an appalling figure in a small country like South Korea.

And the most chilling and heartbreaking thing is that many of them are minors, even very young victims.

When I talk about this kind of thing, I really feel that I am extremely lucky to be born in China. China's protection of minors is still complete.

In fact, many parents of Korean minors do not provide enough sexual enlightenment education to their children. Just like before, many children would ask their parents where they came from. Parents sometimes joke: You were picked up from the trash can, or you gave it away with phone bills, but children often cannot understand it. But now in China, there are already many sexual enlightenment education films, and parents will also use knowledge to tell their children where they come from. In the subconscious mind of children as they grow up, they already know the differences between men and women.

In fact, my parents did a good job in gender education. They didn't talk about sexual perversion. I remember that when I was very young, I knew that men and women have different physiological structures, including the relationship between the sexes. I also understood the differences between men and women at a very young age, and I had to pay attention to them even when I was around relatives and friends.

I still remember when I was a student, I lived on campus. Many girls will feel embarrassed about the arrival of the "angry cycle", so when they buy sanitary napkins, they will be cautious and trembling at the small store, like thieves, and then pack them in black plastic bags or hide them in their clothes. , for fear of being seen by others.

But I don’t have any reaction to this matter. I usually just buy it and go straight away. Of course, occasionally some talkative female classmates will make irresponsible remarks behind my back about what they think of me, but I think This is a very normal physiological phenomenon. Isn’t it normal for a girl to have no menstrual cycle?

I just remembered that Fu Yuanhui told the world that she was "on her period" during her acceptance speech after the Olympics. Chinese people thought it was okay. After all, it was a normal physiological phenomenon for women. However, many countries were surprised by her statement. I I also learned that many countries even regard women’s life cycle as an “ominous symbol”, which was really eye-opening.

So, minors still need to establish a correct view of gender, at least they will not feel that some of their body behaviors are shameful. Secondly, teenagers and girls in these age groups have some vague ideas about "gender" or want to know relevant knowledge. If parents are still hiding things at this time, and do not explain clearly to their children because they are shy and conservative, and allow them to fumble around blindly on their own, it will lead to problems due to the child's rebellious period.

Men also need to protect themselves. Although the proportion of women who are victims is slightly higher, there are also some minor men who have also been "indecent".

There is also a saying: "If a poor man raises a son, a rich man must raise a daughter." This sentence may seem unreasonable, but it is actually reasonable. But in fact, not only do girls need to be rich, but boys also need to be rich. A Korean minor victim said in an interview that she fell into this vortex when she was in junior high school. The reason she was at that time was because she did not have enough living expenses, so she wanted to find a part-time job. So this person took advantage of the girl's financial problems and offered her a very substantial figure, and the child took the bait.

Of course, some people will think that if this child did not covet these interests, he would not be harmed, but this is the issue of minors mentioned. Junior high school students are only teenagers. Their thinking itself She is not as rigorous as adults, and she does not receive good gender education from her parents in time, so the possibility of her being harmed will increase.