"Those who can enter my heart, I treat as kings. Those who do not enter my heart, I will not bother to deal with them." From Su Cen's famous saying.

1. The meaning of this sentence: At this age, it is true that no one wants to please anyone anymore. Just stay with whomever you feel comfortable with, including friends. When you are tired, stay away. We have passed the age where you don’t like me, but I still have to like you. Pleased others are far less important than happy yourself.

2. I would rather be alone than go against my will. I would rather have regrets than give in. Whoever can enter my heart, I treat as a king. I don’t bother to deal with those who don’t enter my heart. The past is thick and light, and the color is as clear as light. After years of sorrow and joy, it is as still as a mirror, it has become still. Neither humble nor arrogant, treat each other with courtesy, go my own way, and be generous. ——Su Cen

3. About the author

Su Qin is a famous female emotional and psychological writer, an emotional consultant for many TV stations and print media across the country, and a special female emotional expert on Sina. He is the author of best-selling books such as "Follow the Right People at 20 and Do the Right Things at 30", "7 Lessons on Women's Education that Will Benefit Women for a Lifetime", and "Red Learning in Officialdom". She has long paid attention to women's development from a broad perspective, cared for women's growth, and stood up for women. Her "Su Qin Women's Academy" is currently the most popular and largest emotional communication space in China, attracting more than 600 million visits, and is highly sought after by young readers. .