Two people are impossible, but they can’t let go. Which words will make it less painful to remember?

I used to think that food would go bad, but later I discovered that love is the same. The famous philosopher Marx once said this sentence, this sentence is particularly classic. He said: "There are only love and cough, which can't be helped." When a person loves someone, that feeling is It's hard to suppress, thinking about the other person in my heart, and the other person in my eyes, that feeling is particularly beautiful.

Little Dumas once said: "When he doesn't have you in his eyes, it doesn't matter how beautiful you are, at least to him." We have seen a person who loves us very much. Look, we've also seen how a person doesn't like us. But no matter what kind of appearance the other person becomes, we have to make ourselves look beautiful. Since the other person doesn't like us very much anymore, why not pack up your luggage and leave casually, which is also a decent way to say goodbye.

Therefore, if you cannot keep the person you want to keep, no matter whether this person loved you or not, you need to remember this sentence: Take everything lightly and have a clear conscience. I have tried my best! If you remember this sentence, you will not be so painful. 01. Life is a kind of practice, the practice of becoming a Buddha immediately

In this world, life is a kind of practice. I used to think that practice was only in temples, but later I discovered that this society is a big one. Practice place. The emotional grievances and grievances between people are also a part of spiritual practice, and they are an important part. Many times people need to understand minimalism. If you understand minimalism, you will have already become a Buddha. When we were young, we were surrounded by many relatives. When we grow old, these family members will leave us. It is a matter of time.

When we experience the death of a loved one for the first time, we feel special pain in our hearts. We may be sad for a long time, or even for many years. Under this depressing feeling of sadness, no matter what I have no strength to do anything, and sometimes I have no courage to live. But after we face many such things, we will become more and more different, we will become stronger and stronger, and we will also learn to deal with it all. Therefore, at this time, we Buddhists Looking at the world, we are getting happier because of this.

Although our hearts are still so soft, the way we deal with things has changed dramatically, and there are smiles on their faces. So you must see through it. If you see through it, you will become a Buddha immediately. Although you have suffered some hardships, you will also become very tenacious. 02. Letting others go is also letting yourself go

Sometimes you have done a lot of things for this person, but the other person has given up on you, or the other person has betrayed you. At this time, don't think about taking revenge on this person. If you can't keep this person, just let him go. If you let others go, you also let yourself go. If you keep the other person by your side all the time, the other person is in pain, and you yourself are quite afraid of losing the other person, and you are also in pain.

I still remember that when I was still in love, I left my target with me. When I saw my partner playing games, I was still very angry. I thought that the target was with me. There is very little time, because the two people are in a different country, so the target should accompany me and use the limited time to chat with me. I think the target thinks the same way as me. Unexpectedly, when the target left, he said to me: "You are such a person. You left me by your side and locked me up. I can't breathe. I have no freedom at all. I really I really want to escape, we should never meet again."

At that moment, I was very sad and disappointed. I felt that I kept you by my side for your own good. I also have my own issues, but I think you are also the most critical person, and you are also the most critical thing. So I flattened all my things, I came to accompany you, hoping that you would accompany me, I have paid so much for you, but I said this. I thought so at that time, and it was so painful that I tried to keep the other person and tie him to my side.

I later discovered that the person who cannot be retained will never be able to retain the other person. He will never be able to understand some of the thoughts in your heart, nor can he feel some of the warmth in you. You keep the other person by your side and give the other person some of the best things. There are some things that you will not use or eat because people think these things are very precious, so you give them to your partner. , but your partner is not happy, because your goal requires freedom.

There is a saying: "Life is precious, but love is more valuable. If you want freedom, you can throw away both." Some people are like a little leopard on the grassland, no matter how much you give to the other person Fat, the other side will not accompany you, because this little leopard's heart is the prairie, not a tree to help him. If you can't keep the person, let the other person do whatever they want. In that case, you will be free, and you don't have to tremble in fear of losing the other person. 03. The person you lose now has never been gained

If you lose this person now, don’t be too sad, because you have never gained this person.

When we lose someone, we discover that this person actually wanted to leave us a long time ago, but at this moment, the other person has really left. Although the other party is always by someone's side, the other party's heart will never be placed on them. Maybe the other party has not found the person they really like yet. Maybe this person has already found the person you like. So look for each other.

The world is like this. Sometimes I love you, but I love others deeply, and others also love me, but I don’t love my person. The world is always twists and turns, and we always follow in the footsteps of others to follow their traces, but we never look back and look at the person behind us, looking at us eagerly.

Instead of finding someone you particularly like, it is better to find someone who likes you. Being with someone who likes you is a kind of enjoyment. You will never feel insecure. They are all objects of pampering. Therefore, when a person reaches middle age, or becomes familiar with a person, he will find someone to marry, or marry someone who treats him very well, because such a life is a kind of enjoyment.

Sometimes feelings must be cultivated. When you are with the person you love, you can try to fall in love with the other person. Even if there is no passion for love, as time goes by , the two of you will also have some real feelings. If you can't keep the person you want to keep, why not let the other person fly? If you can let the other person go, you will become more and more free, and you may be liberated at this time.

Every encounter in life should be cherished, but if you give a lot, the other party has not seen your goodness. In fact, this kind of dedication is not necessary. This kind of sincerity It's not necessary either.