A person’s biggest supporter is himself;

A person’s ultimate destination is also himself.

All lives are achieved step by step by oneself.

You are your own noble person. You still have to rely on yourself to succeed.

Some people say: "Happiness is not given by others, your happiness needs to be fulfilled by yourself." What do you think of this?

Some people say that if you just work hard secretly, happiness will naturally come to your door.

In fact, happiness will never come to your door by itself. We need to take the initiative to strive for it. Maybe the process of striving for happiness is not easy, but the final result will always be better than standing still and waiting.

There is a classic line in the movie "The Pursuit of Happiness": "Don't let others tell you what to do. If you have a dream, you must protect it. If others can't do something, they will tell you what you should do." You can’t do it either. If you want something, you have to take the initiative to fight for it. ”

Fate is so unfair. Not everything can be achieved if you try your best, as long as you have a clear conscience.

But you must dare to make choices, dare to fight, and be responsible for your own life.

From school to society, I have personally experienced that the most useful thing about learning is that you don’t have to spend your mind trying to figure everything out, because there are always things that will not go as you want.

If you want to have the power of choice, you must strive to integrate into the new environment and seize the opportunity to become good enough and become the best version of yourself.

Why do people compare? Because people like to compare. Seeing others live happily will make you work harder to strive for happiness.

In the process of comparing with others, you will become more determined to achieve your goals;

When you see others being unhappy, you will feel that you cherish your own happiness more in comparison.

Happiness cannot wait for others to arrange it, but must be fought for by yourself. This "fight" is not a fight with others, but a fight with fate and yourself.

Be able to pursue your own happiness more courageously and proactively, and no longer need to be afraid or avoid the eyes of the world.

Many times we have the illusion that happiness is a matter of smooth sailing, neglecting our own subjective initiative, and taking everything we have for granted.

Adult life is not easy, but who doesn’t strive for happiness in a miserable life?

It may be busy and tiring, but there is still so much warmth and beauty worth pursuing bravely.

There are many kinds of happiness, and they are different in everyone's heart.

Life only lasts a hundred years. Living every day well and to the fullest as possible is the greatest happiness.

If you insist on perfection in everything and constantly raise your inner standards for happiness, you will inevitably miss many beautiful moments in life.

Successful people do not climb to the top of the mountain in a day or two, but rely on firm courage and confidence.

Happiness is the same, coming from struggle and persistence.

Therefore, what you want and want to pursue should rely on your own mind and hands to fight for it, rather than begging others to give it to you.

I think a wise saying by Camus can well explain why people's happiness is often lacking.

He said: "If you continue to search for what happiness is made of, you will never find happiness; if you continue to search for the meaning of life, you will never live."

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People have strange thoughts and always feel happy and satisfied in the process of striving for happiness.

But when we really have happiness, what we feel is panic and fear of losing it.

Maybe we can start from now on, muster up the courage to pursue our own happiness, learn to embrace this beautiful world, be happy about buying clothes that fit well, and be surprised by receiving small gifts from others, Arranging small rituals to celebrate the festival...

Start by doing these trivial things and try to gain satisfaction from these trivial happiness. That is the first step towards the pursuit of happiness. first step.

There are countless uncertainties in life. Everyone has his own path and different choices. Every choice is a battle with his own heart.

In this short life, people often overestimate their needs for material conditions.

In fact, as long as you are willing to struggle, the life you want will eventually come true, and it will come much faster than we imagine. It is just a matter of time.

But a happy life is never easy to come by. The "heaven and earth" where you can sit back and enjoy the fruits of your labor for nothing does not exist at all in real life. Only by working hard can we get closer to happiness.

The more you experience, the more clearly you will see the world. Gradually, you accept the fact that you are an ordinary person, but you must strive to be a happy ordinary person.

In the past, some roads were taken too hastily. Even though I tried my best and gave everything at the time, everything backfired in the end. But the training you have received is truly yours, because the growth gained through injury will slowly bear fruit.

Perhaps when I think of this experience later, what comes to my mind will be relief and gratitude. What I am looking for in the future is not so much happiness, but the infinite efforts to strive for happiness.

No matter how hard this journey is, how happy you will be in the future.

Don’t drown your fighting spirit just because of the muddy road, but also persuade yourself when the thought of giving up comes to mind:

No matter what moment, happiness in life must be Rely on yourself to strive for it, rely on yourself to achieve it.

Only in this way will the future journey become smoother.

Text/Lao Xia Analyst

Sometimes, even though they have never met. But we have known each other for a long time, very subtle and very contented.