We talk about mentality every day, whether a person's mentality is good or not, and what is a good mentality? What is a bad attitude? In fact, we are all confused, because we don't know what a state of mind is and what to do if it is good. In fact, mentality is a mental state that can affect a person's thoughts and behaviors. The following are eight basic life attitudes as a person's interaction with others!

One: Achievement mentality

Everyone is born to achieve his own career, but often many people don't know how to do it. I don't know what kind of mentality I should use to achieve my career. It's actually quite simple. Everyone knows how to plan and achieve a career as long as they have the following golden key: 1: goal.

To do one thing, we must first set a goal for ourselves. A good goal, like a navigation lighthouse in the sea, can show us the direction of life. However, the goals we set are not empty and unrealistic. We should adapt to our own environment and then work towards our own goals. When our goal is achieved, we can set a bigger goal, starting with the goal that has been successful. In this way, we will be more and more energetic. What should we do when we have a goal? Then you have to show your confidence.

2. Confidence

Simply put, self-confidence means believing in yourself, that is, facing your own goals, you can believe that you can do it. Where does confidence come from? From our usual study, when I have learned a lot of knowledge and experience and have the ability to do well, I am very confident. Self-confidence is something you can't see or touch. However, it is so magical, and it is used more and more. With confidence, the next step is to show courage.

3. Courage

Courage is the courage to put self-confidence into action, just like when we do something, we know that we can do it well, but we just don't have the courage to do it, which is tantamount to wasting time. Only with self-confidence and courage and continuous efforts will there be the possibility of success. Courage, like confidence, is something that is used more and more. Just like mountain athletes, they didn't have the courage to climb the highest mountain at first, but after conquering higher mountains, they finally had the greatest courage to conquer the most devoted mountain. The same is true of our business. Only when you have the courage to do every little thing well will you have greater courage to do greater things.

With goals, self-confidence and courage, we must take out a burning heart, that is, to do one thing and love one thing. Since you have chosen this line, you should do it well, and don't regard it as a career, because to do it as a career is to treat yourself as a part-time job. We should regard it as a career. The success of the career depends on ourselves. Let each of us be the boss and do everything well.

5 Perseverance

This is the last golden key. In the process of achieving yourself, you will always encounter many setbacks and difficulties. No successful person in the world is always smooth sailing. Everyone has experienced wind and rain, because only after wind and rain can we see the rainbow. That's the spirit we need. When encountering difficulties, don't shrink back, because shrinking back means that we have failed. Don't run away, because running away proves that we are cowards. We should face difficulties and solve setbacks; Overcome difficulties and let them become stepping stones rather than stumbling blocks on our road to success. I believe that if we have a good achievement mentality and are ready to meet those setbacks and difficulties, everyone will achieve their own career.

Second, learning mentality.

"People's self-awareness is learned, not born." In the previous achievement mentality, I said that self-confidence comes from our usual study. Is learning important? My answer is very important. Maybe, some friends will say, if I knew how to study, I might be a college student and a doctor today! Yes, what you said is very reasonable, but our life is a learning process. From birth, we learn to speak, walk and learn culture ... to when we grow up, we learn technology and independence ... aren't we all learning? I have learned better and better, and some have fallen. Today I just want to share my learning experience with those who want to learn and learn well. 1: Have an empty cup mentality.

What is the empty cup mentality? For example, if a cup is full of water, it can't hold anything else. If it is empty, it can hold a lot of things, which tells us that when studying, we should throw some useless things out of our minds, so that we can have more space and absorb more good things.

Untie the shackles in our hearts. We are all friends from all over the country. When we are far away from home, it is normal to miss our hometown, relatives and friends. However, if we think about these things while studying or working, can we still learn anything? Still doing good? Let me tell you a little experiment: What happens if we draw a circle with our left hand and a square with our right hand at the same time? As we all know, the result of normal people is round and not square. What does this mean? Explain that you can't do two things at once, that is to say, when doing one thing, don't think about other things, so that things can be done well, which is the famous saying: people can't miss home in the mall.

Here we have to learn professional knowledge, interpersonal communication and management ..... so we must study hard. Put your mind right.

Three: the mentality of giving.

"Nothing will fall from the sky, and there will be no risks on the ground" and "No pains, no rewards" are well understood, but how to pay? What should I pay? Maybe everyone is confused. Because in the real society, people may think that sometimes what we pay is not directly proportional to what we get, but I think what we get is far more than what we pay, but sometimes we don't know how to understand and cherish it. 1: Payment in action

Our industry is a service industry, doing services and doing technology. If we treat every customer well, even if he only comes to spend 15 yuan, and the service and treatment we let him enjoy are worth 25 yuan, will customers come again? The same is true of technology, which is integrated with service. Both are indispensable. I believe that as long as these two points are done well, customers will definitely come back. I often hear some friends say that the company has few guests. In fact, have you ever wondered who brought the tourists? You are excellent employees in every store, and you are the reason why customers really come. Good service and technology can bring us customers and wealth, while some colleagues only complain about the company and never find reasons for themselves. This is the real reason for the lack of tourists. Doing a good job will bring us wealth.

2. Emotional involvement We all know that "there is no perfect individual, only a perfect team". This is also what our company lacks most. Our company is a team, without everyone in it. "Unity is strength, cohesion is hope". If we want strength and hope, each of us should unite with the people around us. How can we become a good team? That is to care more, encourage friends more, lend a hand of friendship when others need their help, and face friends together when they are in trouble. When a friend has shortcomings, gently point them out and help him correct them together. When others point out their shortcomings, accept and correct them humbly. In this way, everyone can continue to grow and progress with the help of each other. Be tolerant, understand, and try to understand. Learn to forgive. In this way, I believe our team will be an excellent team.

Four: tolerant mentality

In the mentality of giving, tolerance is mentioned. Some friends may not understand how to be tolerant. Actually, I think it's not difficult to put it simply, as long as they want to do it. "It is human nature to make mistakes." We live in an interpersonal circle, and there will inevitably be some friction between people. When there is friction, we need tolerance. Tolerance is a necessary lubricant for communication between people. As long as tolerance is done well, it is 1: forbearance.

As the old saying goes, "endure a moment's anger" and "try again when you can't bear it", which means that when some quarrels are about to happen, we should bear them ourselves and don't care about them, because we are all people from all over the country, and it is fate that we can get together, so we should cherish this fate.

Step 2 let

"Take a step back and broaden the horizon" When others don't understand tolerance and show a quarrel with no quality and no cultivation, we try to make way. Maybe our friends think that giving way is cowardice, but it is not. It is a manifestation of cultivation and quality. Step 3 be humble

"Sorry" means modesty. The sea can accept all the rivers, because it puts itself in the lowest position, so all the water flows to it and it will never dry up. Wider than the sea is the sky. What is wider than the sky? Only the human mind. So as long as we keep a low profile. That shows your broad mind. Can be tolerant.

4: and

The so-called "home and everything" our company is our home. If we always think about the phrase "home and everything will flourish", we will not want to quarrel with others, but will be tolerant invisibly. However, tolerance is to make us progress and do a good job of unity. Tolerance is not to let us indulge. We can tolerate it, but it is not good for a person to indulge his mistakes, but it will cover up his mistakes and hinder his progress, which is harmful to him. So this point should be clearly distinguished.

Five: Optimism

I like an optimistic attitude. It can make me very thoughtful and will not affect my work because of my emotions. As the saying goes, "smile, ten years old; One is sad and the other is white. " People are alive, happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day. Then why not live happily every day? Some friends may find it hard to be optimistic, but they are not. As long as we remember the benefits that optimism can bring us, we won't want to be pessimists. So what can optimism bring us? Optimism can bring us a positive spirit, which is exactly what we need in our career and will give us motivation, because optimism allows us to see the good side of things. When we see the bright side of things, will it be boring to do it? No, it brings us negative emotions just like anti-pessimism. As we all know, negativity will only hurt our self-confidence and make us lose our fighting spirit. In other words, if we lose optimism and let pessimism enter our hearts, we will be unhappy about everything, so we will not be satisfied with doing it. For example, two sisters were playing in the park and saw roses in full bloom. Sister said, "Look, there is a rose on the thorn. How beautiful! " "My sister said," Hey, there are thorns under the roses. What a pity! ""The same thing, in the eyes of different people, feels different. That's because my sister has this optimistic attitude, so she sees the bad side and is very happy. My elder sister, on the other hand, picked out the bad from the good, and she was not happy. A rose brings two sisters a completely different mood. The optimistic attitude is that we can see the good side from the bad things, which makes us confident and don't stick to our careers.

Six: Normal mentality

A normal state of mind means that we face some things or things with a calm heart and don't let our emotions be affected by the environment or the joys and sorrows of others. How can we do a good job with a normal attitude? Always remember the following points, I believe we have learned well in our usual mentality.

1: Do you like it or not?

"Like it or not" doesn't mean that we can't be happy if we get something, but don't be complacent and show off everywhere.

2. Don't worry about losing.

"Don't worry about losing" means don't be sad about losing. Don't let losing something affect our career, because we all know that if we have it, we will lose it, and if we lose it, we will get it. Step 3 become arrogant

Pride tells us that everyone will succeed, but don't be proud of success. If you are proud, we will be defeated. If you make small achievements, you should take success as a new starting point and create more brilliance at this starting point, so that your life will continue to progress and your career will become more and more successful.

4. Don't lose.

Don't be discouraged even if you fail, because failure is normal before success, success without failure is accidental, and success with failure is inevitable. When we have experienced failure, what we should do is to sum up the reasons for failure, find out the ways to deal with it, summon up courage and make persistent efforts to sow the seeds of success for the next venture. 5. Unbiased

In other words, don't change your goals, don't use your goals in the process of doing things, and only by working towards them can you know how to settle down.

6. Don't vent your dissatisfaction

It's easy to understand. Don't be discouraged and complacent in your career. When people are discouraged, they don't want to do anything, while when people are complacent, they don't listen to others and start to be self-righteous. If they can't learn anything, they can't make progress.

Seven: Self-discipline mentality

The so-called "national law, family rules" companies also have company rules, "No rules can't make Fiona Fang and Fiona Fang". Since the company has made rules, it must be beneficial to the company, and what is beneficial to the company is beneficial to the employees, because in our industry, only when the employees get benefits will there be benefits for the company. To be self-disciplined, we must do the following: self-discipline in service.

We are a service industry, and the service of each employee directly affects the interests of the company and employees themselves. As long as we do it seriously, new customers will turn back to old customers and our interests will go up. Service includes attitude and technology, both of which are very important and the most basic self-discipline.

2. Language self-discipline

As we all know, "bad words hurt June." Then how to do a good job of language self-discipline? Is to do a good job and not say anything that is not conducive to unity; Don't say anything against the company! Don't speak ill of others behind their backs, make things clear face to face, bite your tongue when criticizing others and express it loudly when praising others, and encourage more friends, so as to do a good job of language self-discipline. What does self-discipline bring us? Unity, friends and success .....

Eight: Thanksgiving mentality

Our country is a country that pays attention to gratitude. Those who repay kindness are respected, while those who don't are regarded as villains. Living in society, we should know how to thank everyone around us.

1: Thanks to the company.

It is the company that gives us such a platform, gives us the opportunity to start a business and gives us a place to grow and develop our talents. We should thank our company. Without this platform, we can't show our value. Step 2 thank your parents

It was our mother who conceived in October and gave birth to us, and it was our parents who raised us through hardships. We should start a good business and repay them.

3. Thank everyone around you.

Thank friends for helping us when we are in trouble, guiding us when we are confused and encouraging us when we are lost. Thanks to our enemies, they have frustrated our lives and made us progress.

Step 4 thank yourself

Thank yourself for not giving in in difficulties, not shrinking in setbacks, not being proud in success, and learning more experience in failure.

Everything depends on gratitude, always remember to "do things with love and be a grateful person"

Concluding remarks

Having said so much about our mentality, we are not a person who can let us see everything clearly. We are all mortal, we all make mistakes, and we all have emotions. The mentality of learning only allows us to adjust our emotions when our emotions are unstable, so that we can realize that we are actually the source of everything without the help of external forces, and learn not to complain, not to complain, and to learn to be ourselves.