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Why do people become more and more tired while alive?

When you fight to win or lose in everything, you are destined to lose miserably;

When you compete in everything When you have to take care of everything, you are destined to live a very tired life;

When you are always addicted to pain, you are destined to find it difficult to have happiness.

In just a few decades of life, there are endless arguments, endless worries, and endless hurts. If you are always immersed in this, you will be in trouble in your body. And the soul is a burden.

After reading Mr. Yang Jiang's "The Biography of Yang Jiang", I was deeply impressed by her talent and attitude.

In fact, her life was also full of turbulence and ups and downs, but she was able to achieve a rare achievement and became the last woman in China to be called "Mr."

If she sums up her wisdom in life, it is not to argue, not to reason, not to be sad.

The small hermit hides in the wild, the big hermit hides in the city.

Where there are people, there are rivers and lakes.

To be able to live freely and freely in a place with no one, you can do it with just a little less desire; however, to be able to be alone in a place with people is a very important thing. It is indisputable wisdom.

Some people say that if a person does not fight, it is a sign of his incompetence. Because he has no ability, he does not dare to fight.

In fact, think about it on the other hand, can a capable person win every time? He probably loses a lot of times.

On the contrary, people who like to fight and fight a lot are trapped in the struggle for interpersonal relationships and interest disputes all day long, living like "cockfighting" all day long, but forget What is the original intention of the struggle?

When people live, they just want to live a smooth and comfortable life. Even if they don’t have the living conditions of wealth and wealth, they don’t want their lives to be filled with noise all day long. Angry and resentful.

If you fight too much, even if you win everything, it will easily create resentment in your heart, which will do a lot of harm to your life, but not a single benefit.

There is a colleague who is very angry every day at work. Either her mother-in-law prefers her younger son, her parents don’t care about her life, or her husband gave him a bouquet. Flowers are not as expensive as other people’s shoes.

When I get along with my colleagues at work, it is also about who has done more and who has done less. It seems that I am calculating my life all day long.

In terms of the ratio of "fights", she "wins" a lot; in terms of happiness, she seems to be unhappy every day.

From a psychological point of view, a person's true inner happiness always comes from the heart. If you don't have a true sense of happiness in your heart and don't understand what happiness is, the material things in the outside world are just a mirror.

The more people like to compete externally, the less happy they are inside. However, he was fighting in the wrong direction.

The way to truly improve happiness is to first know how to be aware within yourself.

Use your time to observe yourself, improve yourself, and enrich yourself. In this process, you can feel an infinite world and compare yourself In a small life and circle, you will no longer fight everywhere, because you already understand that there are infinite possibilities in life, and losing and winning are just two sides of the same thing.

Life is not easy, make complicated life simple, and restore the innocence and beauty of life with an indisputable attitude.

People are always afraid of being criticized and always eager to be praised.

As everyone knows, when blind men touch an elephant, some people say that the elephant is a wall, while others say that the elephant is a pillar.

In the same way, if some people say you have a radical personality, others will praise you for your outstanding personality.

There is no absolute standard for judging what is good or bad. It is just a matter of how you grasp the degree.

Therefore, when facing external evaluations, instead of worrying about the authenticity of their evaluations, instead of explaining your inner feelings, it is better to be yourself.

People who understand you don’t need your explanation; people who don’t understand you, your explanation is useless.

There is no need to be angry. People who like to judge you cannot stop their mouths when you are angry. Therefore, all your anger is just to make things difficult for yourself.

Just like this sentence: "Kicking a stone in anger will only hurt your toes."

Stone blocks In your way, you kick him, you may be able to kick it away, but you will also hurt your own foot.

It is better to take a detour, walk calmly, and complete your own plan, instead of being affected by the "ignorance of the stone" that affects your mood and disturbs you. emotions.

If someone else has his mouth, you can't stop what he wants to say.

What can make people shut up is not your refutations and theories, but your practical actions to "slap them in the face".

When others accuse you of being incompetent, even if you put all your achievements in front of him, he will still find fault with you. , every time he defeated him with strength, he would consciously shut up.

People live in society and grow up in the world, and they will inevitably be judged by others.

People who like to point out other people’s lives and livelihoods have insufficient cultivation and quality. What you have to do is not to correct other people’s cultivation and quality. , but firmly follow your own footsteps and live your life well.

Walk your own path and let others speak freely.

In this world, only those who are broad-minded and face every controversy from the outside world with an open mind can reveal a person's true cultivation.

Ignorance is the most powerful counterattack against an unreasonable person.

Many times, you will feel that life is meaningless. You work hard every day, but you always have all kinds of troubles one after another.

I often wonder when I will have a smooth life.

In fact, life is unsatisfactory nine times out of ten.

Life is a process of constantly solving problems. Life is inherently more difficult than adversity, and people often grow faster in adversity.

If a person always longs for only good times in life, and will only feel happy when there are good times, then his happiness will not be much.

If a person knows how to find the bright light in adversity, then he will definitely have a lot of happy time.

Life is full of things. There is good among the bad, and there is also good among the bad.

Regarding sad things, after the sadness is over, just return to the current life; if you continue to indulge in it, how can the sun shine in?

People who are not sad are not hard-hearted and have no feelings, but they understand what feelings are better, cherish hard-won life more, and understand the lost person better. I also hope that he can live a good life.

In this life, not all the bad things you encounter are bad. There is often a little bit of good hidden in the "bad things", but you don't see it. That’s all.

I remember that in "The Legend of the Condor Heroes", Yang Guo was poisoned by the love flower in the Jueqing Valley, and asked a miracle doctor to detoxify him.

At that time, it was said that there must be an antidote around the poisonous weeds.

In fact, this is how people live their lives. Even if everything you encounter is bad, if you know how to find hope in adversity, it will be a great growth in life.

In life, there are always difficulties and difficulties. Only by not being knocked down by them can we stand up again.

Yang Jiang said: "Everyone will have an extremely difficult time, the pressure of life, the frustration of work, the pressure of study, and the constant fear of love. Get through it. If you don't survive, time will teach you how to make peace with them, so don't be afraid."

I believe so.

Don’t be afraid. Because fear cannot eliminate difficulties.

The biggest problem in life is not given by life, but by you giving up early.

An unhappy life often comes from one's own heart.

When people live, they should live for themselves, without arguing or being sad, and live in the present.