Atmosphere is the character, wisdom and realm of life.
Atmospheric people know how to tolerate other people's faults and reflect on their own problems; Atmospheric people know how to face the hardships of life calmly and get pleasure from it.
As the old saying goes, "All things benefit from magnanimity and tolerance."
The atmosphere often determines a person's life pattern and destiny!
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People with great atmosphere are generous and don't care.
Bi Xuan once said: "Only the width can accommodate people, and the thickness can carry things."
People with great atmosphere are generous in heart, open-minded when things go wrong, and can tolerate what ordinary people can't, and can tolerate what ordinary people can't.
In history, the story of offering a humble apology is well known.
Lin Xiangru returned to Zhao intact, and was dismissed after returning home, much higher than Lian Po.
Lian Po was very dissatisfied when he learned about it. He threatened to make Lin Xiangru look good and see who was better.
When the news reached Lin Xiangru's ears, he chose to avoid it. Many people were puzzled and thought that Lin Xiangru was timid, but later his words made everyone sit up and take notice.
Lin Xiangru said that the reason why Qin did not dare to invade our country was because of Lian Po and me. If I don't agree, I won't give the enemy a chance.
When Lian Po learned of this, he was ashamed and offered a humble apology.
Lin Xiangru accepted it frankly, and they became good friends, and made a lot of contributions to Chu together.
"Caigen Tan" said: "Let the world step higher, and retrogression is Zhang Ben's progress; Being able to tolerate others is a blessing and the foundation of benefiting others. "
In fact, throughout history, many successful people have the ability to turn enemies into friends. They are tolerant and generous, with admirable mind and courage.
People with great atmosphere have gradually developed a pattern and knowledge in dealing with people, accumulated blessings for themselves, and the road of life is getting wider and wider!
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People with great atmosphere are free and easy about things and don't sink.
Mr Lin Qingxuan once said, "Nine times out of ten things in life are not satisfactory. I often think about one or two things, not eight or nine. "
Everyone's life cannot be smooth sailing. If something happens, they will sink in and will only crush themselves.
Might as well be an atmospheric person, free and easy inside, and learn to be optimistic.
The poet Su Dongpo's fate is very bumpy. He has never been proud of his official career and has been running around all his life. Those twists and turns are hidden in his poems.
However, in our impression, Su Dongpo is a complete optimist. He can make his life full of flavor and write the famous sentence "The taste in the world is happiness".
People often say that beautiful skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a million. Su Dongpo is the most interesting soul for hundreds of years.
When he was reduced to a pauper, he created his own peerless delicious Dongpo meat.
When we couldn't open the pot at home, we invented the way of "not greedy for meat", which made the whole family laugh.
Although there are many hardships and pains in life, he can still spend his life, frowning and carefree.
Laozi once said, "Fortune and misfortune depend on each other, and everything is good and bad."
But one side of every shadow, the other side is sunshine, life, turn a corner and go out, you will see light and beauty.
In life, many things are inevitable, and if you indulge in them, you will only be devastated.
It is better to think from another angle, have Su Dongpo's open-mindedness and optimism, and write a new movement for your life!
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People with great atmosphere are open-minded and not persistent with themselves.
The Tao Te Ching says, "Those who know others are wise, and those who know themselves are clear."
In fact, the enemy of each of us is not others, but ourselves.
Once upon a time, there was an old monk who accidentally stepped on something when he went down the stairs and made a "yum" sound. The old monk thought that he must have accidentally trampled a frog to death.
At night, the old monk dreamed that countless frogs were taking their lives, and he was scared into a cold sweat. The next morning, he took his disciples to the Buddha to confess.
Still, he felt uneasy.
Later, while cleaning the yard, a disciple found a squashed eggplant. It turns out that the squeaking frog is a squashed eggplant.
When the old monk learned the truth, he felt comfortable instantly.
In fact, in life, many times we will encounter such a situation. What bothers us is not the outside world, but our own heart.
As "The Legend of Luxiang" said: "There is nothing in the world, and much ado about nothing."
Only by truly letting go of yourself and reflecting on yourself can life be calm.
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If you are a man, you will be blessed!
Li Siyan: "Mount Tai can become great because it does not allow soil;" Rivers and seas do not choose small streams, so they can become deep. "
It is precisely because of the tolerance of everything that the mountain is high; All rivers run into the sea, and the sea is vast; Nourish everything and you will have a vast land.
If people are atmospheric, they can keep the infinite world in their hearts.
Be generous and considerate to others; For things, we must learn to be open and learn to be free and easy; Open-minded, not obsessed with yourself.
Atmosphere is a man, warm and considerate, considerate of others, in order to meet the needs of both sides;
Being an atmospheric person, being calm and unhurried when things happen, will make a difference;
Being an atmospheric person with a broad mind will be light and healthy.
Being an atmospheric person is the realm that everyone should pursue. Only people with great atmosphere can be invincible.
For the rest of my life, be an atmospheric person. The atmosphere is blessed!
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