A customer asked, "I don't know how to judge whether a girl really loves you or just takes part in accidental amusement."

As a vicious emotional practitioner, I said, let's analyze it from a scientific perspective.

first understand several basic concepts

first, human nature is selfish

second, the vast majority of people are ordinary people and will make established choices

Economics assumes that all economic people are rational and self-interested. We can judge whether we really love you from her investment cost. The more we really love you, the more we will invest. The more we pretend, the more we will consider saving costs. And ordinary people can invest only four kinds of resources.

First, time

If a girl really loves you, you are almost everything to her. Girls are such lovely creatures. Outside of work (even at work, which I don't advocate), she will always think about what you are doing and hope to be with you. If a girl doesn't even allocate her spare time to you, and even you don't know what she is doing in her spare time, then you are in danger. Be careful that she learns from Show Lo, a master of time management.

On the other hand, people's time is limited and precious. Except for going to work every day, the only time that she can really control herself is this little evening and weekends. She is willing to accompany you during these periods, which is really willing to invest.

Show Lo, a master of time management

II. Money

Survival is the top priority of human beings, and making money is the top priority of everyone. A person's view of money not only shows his or her character, but also shows the distance of relationship. For example, she has been spending your money, and it is all yours to eat, entertain and give gifts. There is no intention of paying the bill or giving gifts back. Besides being sure that there is something wrong with her personality and consumption concept, she is not really in love with you. For most people, spending their own money is very painful. You are not her type, so she doesn't think it is necessary to spend money on you. Also, if she really loves you, she will think about having a future with you, and the money she is spending now is the same money as the two of you in the future. When she thinks about this, she will spend it sparingly and think about saving money for you. Only by spending other people's money can you not feel bad, understand? Don't be someone else.

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3. Feelings

If she likes you, your words, smiles and actions can affect her mood all day. She is willing to share your happiness, pain, anger and boredom with you, and the girl who really likes you will be happy for you and worried about you, even if you don't cry, she will cry (this point. And girls who just want to play with you will think, what does it matter if you are happy or not? Whether you are happy or not, why don't you come and make me happy?

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iv. body

I didn't mean to objectify women. However, women, as creatures, are very sensitive to external physical contact. People they want to contact can stick to each other all the time, but people they don't want to contact are very repulsive, so they have to hold their breath even when they stand close. Zhang Ailing once said a famous saying, "The road to a woman's heart is xx". Women are like this, and their bodies are honest. You can pay attention to the distance from her. If she likes you to hold her and hug her, she will have a good response. If she doesn't like you, she will be disgusted with physical contact with you.

You can tell from the distance that there is a problem. Sanduo, please have a snack.

Tell me some details.

1. look. Eyes can tell a lot about the relationship between two people. If she loves you, the eyes that look at you will burst out with the light of appreciation, worship, love and pity, so that you can melt in her tender eyes like water. If she doesn't love you, her eyes are empty, and even when you look at her, she will be very repulsive and evasive.

The eyes of milk tea make people melt

2. Friends circle. Whether or not to disclose your relationship in a circle of friends is also very telling. If she thinks you are the only thrill, she will be anxious to tell everyone she knows. If she thinks you can't do it, other people won't know your existence except close friends (or even this). Not disclosing your relationship is also conducive to maintaining the image of being single and finding the next boyfriend. You can recall whether it has appeared in her circle of friends.

I have a hidden boyfriend.

3. Specific actions. See how a person is, not what he or she says, but what he or she does. She said that she likes you. According to different personalities, some girls are sweet-tongued and good at expression, and often say that they love you in your ear. Some girls are clumsy in expressing themselves. But actions will not deceive people. If a girl likes you, she will care about your feelings and life with her heart, and she will always accompany, understand, encourage and take care of you. She loves your fatigue, understands your sadness, appreciates your achievements, soothes your soul, and tastes the joys and sorrows of life with you. She will remind you to pay attention to rest, will give you soup and medicine, and buy you the daily necessities you need. You can feel her full love in all kinds of small moves. Don't be a fair-weather couple.

The love in A Tale of Two Foods

Welcome to test it. I hope the world will be less routine and more sincere.