It's hard to say whether the wise are happy or the fools are happy. Is a smart person smart or a fool smart? Is the wise man more successful or the fool more successful? The ancients once said: if teenagers don't work hard, the elderly will be sad. But he said he was a late bloomer. He praised people's talent and intelligence, and praised people's wisdom. It can be seen that wisdom and stupidity, the strong and the weak, are not sooner or later, nor are they continuous.
In fact, people can't do a few things in their lives, all they do is to find their own position. As Ceng Shiqiang said in his speech, a person's life is actually chosen at the moment of birth. As for how to live this life? You've arranged everything in advance. What kind of person to be and what kind of person to be in life are all planned in advance. Personality arranges fate for the password of life, so the development of personality is the trajectory of the whole fate.
We have been asking for things all our lives, and all we ask for are things that have nothing to do with life itself. There is a curtain in a temple in Hangzhou, which reads: "It's fate, it's luck, you go slowly;" For fame, for profit, sit down. "So, giving up has become a wise saying and an important symbol of seeing through the realm of life. People who can survive, or successful people, actually know: don't give up, small houses are small, big houses are big. Gradually, being willing to give up has changed its taste. As the saying goes, people are reluctant to have children, so more and more people are beginning to sacrifice something else for what they want. Some people sacrifice happiness for fame and fortune, while others sacrifice fame and fortune for happiness. Who is smarter? Those who change fame and fortune are called ungrateful, while those who change happiness are called incompetent and mediocre.
As a result, sometimes there must be something in life, and it is both a joke and an excuse to stick to it. So we speak like the ancients, and we are so ambiguous. Although it is not sweet to twist the melon, it is not sweet to twist it and taste it. On the one hand, it tells us to give up, on the other hand, it tells us to fight for it, knowing that we can't do it. When we are struggling between giving up and fighting, someone tells us, if we don't master the degree, what is the degree? What kind of education is the most standard? Nobody told you.
Gradually, you will find that things in the world are not serious, not serious and persistent, and everything is wrong. It is wrong to insist on being yourself, always taking care of others and being nothing!
People always play different roles in life, being children and parents. But I don't know why and how to live in this life. Living for yourself is too selfish and living for others is too selfless, so children are not good and parents are not good. When I was young, Kong Rong asked Pear to tell us to be filial. When I grow up, gnawing at old people has become a fashion. A parent's beloved son is far-reaching, and it has become an equivalent exchange for raising me young and raising you old.
In this way, people must live a life of meeting Buddha and demon one day. How can we be human when the Buddha and the devil are together?
When there is a simple standard, it tells us that it is simple to be a first-class person: to be a loyal minister and dutiful son, to study and farm.
When is there a simple pursuit: bathing does not need rivers and seas, but it needs decontamination; The horse doesn't have to aim at the horse, but walk well.
When can I have a simple life: wholeheartedly, no regrets in this life?