? Don’t wait until everyone says you are ugly to find out that you are really ugly! This sentence is very short and to the point. On the surface, it is talking about beauty and ugliness. In fact, if you look carefully, it is actually explaining the truth in the most popular terms. We must learn to know ourselves, and don’t wait for others to tell you that you are not good, point out your shortcomings, and say Only when your shortcomings are pointed out can you reflect on yourself and fully understand your own shortcomings and advantages. When others point out your shortcomings, you will not find it difficult to accept them. You can even justify yourself because you have accepted them. Therefore, you won’t keep your shortcomings in mind too much, and you can even make fun of yourself. This will make people look magnanimous. Of course, you should use your strengths to your advantage. You really need others to talk about this.

? If a person is not crazy before the age of thirty, he will have no future; if he is still crazy after the age of thirty, he will definitely have no future. To be young is to go out and make a living. This is youth, this is freedom. Before the age of thirty, you should do something big by yourself. Be young when you should be young, go wild and take action; at the age of thirty From now on, you should be stable and think about your life. Starting a family, raising children, and being filial to your parents are all things you should consider. If you still insist on venturing out, you should also consider the responsibilities behind you.

? There are four dishes on the table. Open the first one and look at it, ha! very nice! Old vinegar peanuts! Open the second one, even better! Old vinegar peanuts! Open the third one, peanuts, no vinegar! The fourth one saw a plate of vinegar! On the surface it is just a matter of one dish, but in fact it is contentment. When I saw the old vinegar peanuts for the first time, I was actually looking forward to what the other dishes would be. The second dish was still the same. It was like life. It was ordinary and there would be no change. But suddenly the third dish was peanuts. You You will think that even jealousy is gone. This is also life, because you will lose something at any time, but the fourth path is jealousy again. This is the true meaning of life, contentment.